“Butch4femme is heteronormative”
“Femme4femme is for the male gaze”
“Butch4butch is too stereotypical”
“Strap sex is heteronormative”
“Scissoring is for the male gaze”
My god can we just be gay in peace damn

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“Butch4femme is heteronormative”
“Femme4femme is for the male gaze”
“Butch4butch is too stereotypical”
“Strap sex is heteronormative”
“Scissoring is for the male gaze”
My god can we just be gay in peace damn
Enough is Enough.
So tired of wanting to read lesbian ship fics and constantly having "Girl Penis" shoved down my throat in the search. What happened to good old real pussy? Stop giving Wednesday a dick. We need more Wednesday/Bianca fics. LMAO
Pushing my closeted!Ginny agenda on AO3 next.
Reason 10,000 of why lesbian/gay bars should stop letting straight people in:
We all know the reason straight men go to gay bars is because they've made regular bars so unbearable and disgusting that bi/het women have started going to gay bars instead because they're more comfortable there.
With their last remaining braincells, straight men figured this out and followed bi/het women there leading to annoying situations like this for lesbians!
THIS is why I keep saying straight people should NOT be allowed into gay bars! Non lesbians shouldn't be allowed into lesbian spaces!
Video credit: @__alrighty__aphrodi...
@ ALL OF YOU INCREDIBLE LESBIANS:
Come join this strictly lesbian (as in females who are exclusively attracted to other females) community. I'm sharing the community rules so you can decide for yourself if this is a community you feel like you could vibe in.
Club Monocle
@supportinglesbians
Hi, gyns! Mod A here!
Once again I’m self promoting, because I know how much all of us need a space for community and to share ideas. I’m modding a radfem lesbian discord server with two other women, and if any of y’all are interested in joining, please hit up my DMs @aphroditeslesbian
See you there!
Hey you, young lesbian. Yes you!
You dont have to like men. You dont have to be bisexual or biromantic. You dont need to ' see past gender and into their true soul'. You dont have to allow men into your private life. You dont have to be polite to the men who hit on you even after you make it clear you're a lesbian. You dont have to tolerate mysognyistic bullshit. You dont have to conform to any standards. You dont have to be beautiful. You dont have to be kind to men who are unkind to you. You dont have to strictly be a girl. You dont have to be a man to love women. You dont have to be skinny. You dont need to be butch to prove your lesbianism. You dont have to be a radfem to be a lesbian. Your not useless. Your lesbianism is not making you a waste. Your not gross or perverted. Your not stupid or a burden. Your attraction is not the same as a straight man's. Your not broken or wrong. Your not in the wrong for feeling like youve been wronged by men. You dont need to forgive men who've hurt you. You dont need to forgive rhetoric that has hurt you. Your not picky for not being bisexual. Your allowed to have sex with women. Your allowed to date women. Your allowed to want to kiss and touch women. Your allowed to exist as openly and freely and proudly as a lesbian as you want. Your allowed to be a lesbian and only a lesbian. Your allowed to label that as practically your gender if thats what you'd like. Your allowed to talk about your experiences. Your just as important as gay men. Your voice is just as important as any other letter in the lgbt community. You are not a terf. You are not exclusionary. Your allowed to hate the word queer. Your allowed to love the word queer. You are allowed to express yourself. Your allowed to be angry about the people who exclude you. Your allowed to be angry about lesbophobia. Your allowed to call yourself a dyke. Your allowed to take up space. Your allowed to be mad at the misusage of lesbian terms. Your allowed to watch lesbian porn. Your allowed to be ok with having sex with any genitalia, genitalia dose not equal gender. Your allowed to be penis repulsed, it dose not make you transphobic, so long as you respect the owner's gender. Your allowed to be vagina repulsed, it dose not make you less lesbian. Your allowed to be asexual. Your allowed to be aromantic. Your allowed to be aroace. Your allowed to love yourself. Your allowed to be happy in your relationships. Your allowed to let your trauma influence your lesbianism. Your allowed to be a lesbian even if its only due to trauma. Your allowed to question your lesbianism. Your allowed to be yourself no matter what.
I say all of this because these are things i and many other lesbians struggle with. The things people dont talk about or veiw as too touchy. Lesbianism was the most freeing thing i could accept about myself. It was the best communtiy i chose to reach out to. Im so damn proud of being a lesbian. I love my lesbianism. I love being a lesbian. I struggle but i know who and what i am.
This post is about lesbians and our struggles. Non-lesbians can reblog but litterally dont say shit because this post isnt about bi/pan or ace people. Not everything is about you and you need to respect our boundaries.
Shoutout to all my wonderful lesbian followers. 💕
You're all amazing, and I'm so grateful for this chance to help foster and build up a positive community of lesbian women on Tumblr.
Let's celebrate us. 💖