who would be the one to randomly adopt a puppy without consultation
arthur! honestly i feel like it can go both ways [michael scott voice] that’s what she said but arthur has such a weak spot for animals or anything cute tbh and lily would just be like “...................................... aNOTHER ONE??????????”
who would force the other to take aesthetic pictures of them
force is such a strong term tho and idt arthur could even force lily to do anything cause i imagine lily is exactly the type of person where if you try to force her to do a thing, she’ll just glare at you until you look away but. ya kno arthur loves that #aesthetic life. even if his aesthetic is basically being poor and not being savages coughGIDEONcough
who would do stuff they think is stupid just to make the other one happy
arthur. speaking on the context of arthur viewing lily as something of a younger cousin or a lil sis or maybe even having paternal instincts towards her, he’s definitely not above making an ass of himself just to get a smile out of her. or out of anyone, but there’s something about lily and her genuineness that arthur wants to protect. as a ship it applies too but i think it would be more?
who picks out the horror movies to watch just so the other will cling to them
lily. because arthur is a scaredy cat masquerading as................ well, i guess he doesn’t really look like he’s tough with those wiry limbs but. muggle horror movies are so intense to arthur which is ridic bc like??? some of the monsters they feature are just variations of the wizarding world’s creatures arthur wth but somehow to him they’re scarier and i’m betting lily is just laughing her ass off at muggle movies with magic and vampires and werewolves like p l e a s e they’re not even close to accurate???
who is constantly studying and who is constantly trying to distract them
lily. i mean lbr she’s the smarter one out of the two of them and arthur is more of the hands on, experience things for himself, figure out how things work kind of person, he doesn’t like reading theory books and textbooks. you can bet your ass that lily is just at her desk, studying, and then arthur keeps popping up beside her with random muggle things going ‘sO WHAT DOES THIS DO? HOW ABOUT THIS? AND THIS?’ god imagine him asking her what the function of a rubber duck is and she’s just like (´・_・`)
who initiates the facetime calls whenever they’re separated
i wanna say both??? arthur constantly wanting to update her on what he’s up to like. if y’all watch himym, it’s like he’s marshall when he’s separated from lily and they constantly call each other to tell each other what they had for lunch and what they’re thinking about at that moment, etc., i imagine arthur like that. and lily calls arthur when she sees something that she thinks he might find interesting like??? imagine arthur’s glowing face through the phone at just lily thinking of him enough to call him? and show him? things??? he’ll cry
who is more likely to storm out after a fight and who is more likely to cry when they do
lily would storm out and arthur would cry. he wears his emotions on his sleeves and lily is the stronger of the two about these things. fights are always taxing for arthur bc he’s someone who’s had to fight for the things that he wants and that didn’t come with its own consequences, he’s fragile in his standing bc he’s been told so much that he’s less than and so when he has a falling out with people love, it’s so much more than it is to him.
who stays up way too late binge-watching their favorite shows
both. together. netflix??? arthur would die. and lily is there pretending she doesn’t like the shows he watches but. how can anyone resist the x-files though? it’s got the holy trifecta of monsters and aliens, bad ass hot ass dana scully and the stupid jokes that mulder makes that always makes arthur laugh really loud while lily rolls her eyes, trying her best not to laugh too. or she laughs but she’s laughing at arthur bc he’s an Idiot.
who bites the other’s ear when they’re feeling frisky
both? arthur has his moments ok and sure sometimes it’s awkward but most times................ it’s still awkward lol
who sprays the other with water when they’re washing the car
arthur loves his ford so much okay he saved up for it and everything and ok it’s not the best car but it’s his car and he’s invested so much in it and washing it is a sacred act and he gets lost in it when he’s doing it and then lily trying to distract him by spraying him with water...... and it dissolves into a mess bc idiots and it’s fun and who doesn’t love fun???
who has more fun decorating the house during holidays
arthur! he loves the holidays a lot and he’s got a bunch of decorations from his childhood so it’s really important to him and i think he’d love to share that experience with lily? i mean depending on when... like... if after lily’s parents... left... i think he would be a little uncertain and careful about it but holidays and celebrations are important and he’d want her to feel loved and important so if she doesn’t want to decorate then he’d give it up for her
who is more likely to give the silent treatment when they’re mad at the other
arthur is the type of person to keep quiet then actually burst into anger when he’s mad so he’d do it but i can see lily being so good at the silent treatment (and considering what’s happening with molly rn i think he’s really got a lot of experience with the silent treatment loool) that it unnerves arthur so maybe when she’s vaguely mad she gives him the silent treatment and lets him grow the balls to talk to her about it and if it’s a serious argument then that’s when the walking out happens
who plays with the others’ hair more
ummm... who wouldn’t want to play with lily’s hair though!!!
who is more likely to climb all over the other one when they’re bored
i wanna say lily just cause arthur is a tree. although now i realize that ‘climb all over’ could also mean...... a different thing........ in which case i would say still lily omg
who tries to kiss the other as often as they can
both. to arthur it’s reflexive really and he kisses lily whenever he passes by her and sometimes he literally just kisses her while he’s passing by and he ends up kissing whichever random part of her head he reaches so if it’s a question if he’s ever kissed her in the eye or even by the ear lobe, then yeah, that’s happened
who pouts when the other one tells them to shut the fuck up
i don’t know that arthur would say shut the fuck up but in others, he’d say something similar to it just for shits and giggles like his heart’s not in it and they both know he’s not being serious and lily just turns to him with a playful pout on her lips like ‘awww arthur’s angry’ and tbh he’d say it just for that bc pouting!lily is adorable af
who initiates the sex and who walks away when the other is riled up
depends on the situation, i wanna say. i mean lbr this man has five kids now so. he must know what he’s doing at least. i feel like arthur walking away from an angry lily would result in him getting a book thrown at his head or s/t, just cause idt that lily is the kind of person who likes it when people turn their backs on her when they’re talking but also sex context............... yeah
who always forgets the umbrella and who holds it when they actually have one
lily forgets... arthur also forgets. they have to run through the rain and hey, it’s not so terrible it’s just water falling from the sky and also hey now we have an excuse to drink hot chocolate later
who demands showering first in the mornings
l........... ily?????????? or maybe neither idk but arthur doesn’t mind either way as long as it’s not like. they smell terribly or whatever though idt lily would ever smell bad she probably smells like vanilla and sunshine and awesomeness 24/7
who sneaks into the shower with the other one in the mornings
i wanna say lily. what an awkward image but also cute tho
who prefers riding the roller coasters and who prefers playing the games
both!!!!!!!!!! THE ADRENALINE AND THE PRIZES THOUGH. arthur loves rollercoasters so much they shOULDN’T EXIST THEY’RE TALL AND NOT MADE WITH MAGIC AND THEY SHOULDN’T BE SAFE BUT THEY ARE IT’S LIKE FLYING BUT IT ISN’T WTH like imagine two gingers at the very front of the coaster shouting their lungs off. when they ride those coasters that take photos of you on the way down, it’s just arthur either clinging to lily or grinning like an idiot and it’s lily looking #coolaf. the games, lily is better at bc she’s naturally competitive and arthur is more interested on how they work that he pm just wastes the time he has to play. but he likes getting prizes after.
who will text the other one thirty times in a row until they respond
arthur. bc he’s a nag and bc he knows it annoys lily and bc he knows she’ll reply eventually and if she doesn’t want to do it on the first text, maybe she’ll do it on the fiftieth. the weasley family motto is basically just wearing people down until they like you and talk to you lmao
who always forgets to charge their phone overnight
lily. she’s so busy and has so much to do and accomplish, it’s just trivial ok. arthur wouldn’t even have anything to charge because he pm just loses his phone all the time and it turns up a day or two later.
who comes up behind the other and slide their hands into their back pockets
idk is this something lily would do? arthur would feel awkward doing this to people bc it’s so personal and going into people’s personal spaces
who tries to get hugs from the other as often as they can
both! i mean i’m sorry but arthur is a great hugger ok he loves to hug and he loves being hugged and he’s not always the best with words so when those fail, hugs speak. and he definitely hugs lily a far amount because she is So Important and Brilliant and it never ceases to amaze him
who is louder and who constantly has the tell the other to be quiet
arthur gets so excited sometimes that he doesn’t realize he’s talking louder but i feel like naturally lily is louder??? idk if arthur would shush her bc he loves it when other people are Enthusiastic about their own things