It's really weird to get a glimpse into how other people see you. I know people act specific ways around people and that could alter they way one is viewed. I know people can look at the same person and see different things. It happens a lot, often for negative reasons. But the vast differences in people's perception is still insane to me.
Even more so when it's people you know and you're the topic. I'm assuming personality plays some sort of role, people you tend to seem more attractive if you think positively of them. But how two people can look at the same person and see two vastly different things is odd. I know how it works and it's still just weird.
In the middle of a chat amongst high level managers my CEO stopped the conversation to say have you seen the Crown? Kerri looks just like that lady. He then stopped me from what I was working on to make me Google "that lady".
I was flattered, the last time he told me I looked like a celebrity it was Justin Beiber.
Fast forward, my HR Manager and dear friend says, you look like Sophia Lillis.
Now these two lovely ladies look nothing alike.
I look like neither of those talented women. At all. Not even a little.
But it sure was a confidence boost.