Manifesting a Romantic Specific Person (SP)
So many people talk about how to manifest a romantic SP. Like, there are manifestation coaches who dedicate their whole YouTube channel to discussing manifesting an SP. I’ve touched on the topic of SPs a few times here, but I figured I’d dedicate a post to specifically romantic ones since most people are looking to manifest romantic relationships. It’s also something I’ve done myself.
Who is your desired romantic partner?
This person can be someone you know or have seen in your 3D (a friend, a celebrity, an attractive stranger you saw), or someone you develop in your mind (whoever you envision as your perfect type). Who is it? It can be anyone. Seriously, anyone.
Like every other manifestation, circumstances don’t matter
It does NOT matter where you currently stand with your desired SP and whatever is going on with them personally. This person could be in a relationship or married already. This person could be working two jobs and feel they have no time for a relationship. This person might not even want a relationship. This person might hate your guts and have you blocked on everything. This person might not even know you exist. None of these things matter. You are in full control of the situation and how this person feels and acts. You can easily get this person to fall for you right away and even propose the next day.
No matter what, it is 100% possible to get yourself into a happy, healthy relationship.
Don’t chase, don’t take action — just manifest
If there is a third party (3P) like another partner or spouse, you can manifest them away. No joke. Don’t homewreck, don’t let them cheat, don’t force them to breakup with this person, don’t confess your feelings. No action is needed. Actions could worsen a situation.
Get into that state of mind that this person is already yours. Affirm that they’re yours and only yours. Affirm what they’re doing and what role they’re playing in your life. It can be as simple as, “[their name] loves me and wants to be with me.” Repeat something like that over and over again.
When I first started developing feelings for my boyfriend, I kept telling myself, “[his name] loves me, he’s obsessed with me!” Boy, did that work. He started walking by my work desk more, he offered his help with something and slid his number over to me. In the time that we’ve been together, he’s told me about falling in love with me when he first saw me and how he somehow just couldn’t stay away.
Thought transmission is helpful
You can control what this person is thinking. They technically don’t have free will, and that’s not just some looney opinion…that’s a fact. Everyone is you pushed out, so, people in your life can think exactly what you’re thinking.
Visualize yourself talking to your SP and they’ll do whatever you say. What would you tell them? Form a thought in your head that tells them something. “Wow, I really love [you].” “I really want to call [you].” “I should go talk to [you].” And, although you might not see action right away, that thought did pop into their head as soon as you formed that thought. They’re absolutely thinking of you.
Revise and watch what you consume
If you’ve had a bad past with relationships or have seen a lot of other bad relationships in your life, revise that you haven’t. Fixing your expectations on relationships as a whole can be so helpful and important. You want the mentality that you experience nothing but good relationships and nothing bad will ever come from one.
When you have a sour outlook on relationships and worry about things like cheating, fighting, the spark fading during marriage, etc, or think negative things in a relationship are inevitable, then you won’t have the perfect relationship you want. Tell yourself nothing but good things happen in relationships. It’s inevitable that the spark never fades, fights never happen - just good communication, cheating doesn’t happen.
Also, don’t consume negative content about relationships. Avoid it like the plague and it’ll disappear. I used to see so much of it on social media and heard complaints in real life. But, if I don’t watch videos about women shitting on men and talking about bad relationship experiences and men having bad assumptions about women, if I keep my distance from bad relationships in real life, the less I see. Both life itself and social media work on an algorithm.
As of now, I’m surrounded by people in happy relationships. For about 7 years, I had a close friend who’s in a terrible relationship that she cried and complained to me a lot about, as well as other things in her life. Now that we’re no longer friends, I’ve had an amazing relationship (and just life experiences in general). I stopped watching TikTok videos and Instagram reels talking badly about relationships. Now, most of what I see are cutesy videos with things like “sweet questions you can ask your partner.” I’m able to notice seemingly unhealthy relationships and avoid them.
