8 Things ENFPs need in a partner:
1. Someone who supports your need for novelty/variety (while having a nice balance of grounding you).
2. Someone whom we can engage with in high quality and intellectual simulation through conversation (who is curious, excited about life, looks at things in depth)
3. Someone who is confident enough to be okay with your huge social circle.
4. Mutual autonomy (as an ENFP, you are really independent as well). We are not good at setting boundaries so having someone who already has a strong autonomy, knows their boundaries and has confidence is helpful.
5. Someone who prioritizes experiences over the “material”. Example: A nice simply home close to fam/friends rather than a huge expensive house 6364 miles away.
6. Someone who has the ability to be fun, silly and light-hearted with.
7. Someone who already has a strong sense of self so it minimizes you putting them on a (false) pedestal.
8. Someone who is excited for growth! Its so important for you to want to motivate, encourage and see best in people. Otherwise, you feel your gifts are wasted. Hence, find someone with a growth mindset
