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[mental-health-advice]

I'm really sorry to bother you as I know how busy you are but I was wondering if you got and/or answered a message about depression and suicidal stuff signed kat. It's over a week old so I either didn't see that you answered it or it didn't go through. Thank you -kat

Hey there, Kat.

I think this could be your question; just click here.

I hope it's yours, so that you get your answer as soon as possible. <3

Let us know asap if it isn't yours and I'll have a second look.

Love Louise xox

[mental-health-advice]

Hey, sorry to bother you, just wondering if you got my ask? Signed Danielle, and if you got it, how close to being answered is it? Thank you :) x

Hey there, love!

Is this your ask here, answered by the lovely Lucy?

Let me know if it isn't asap and I'll look through the box for you. <3

Love Louise xox

[mental-health-advice]

Yeah okay it's humm and I'm sorry I wasn't clear enough. I got really dizzy from crying too much and I don't remember why I was sad but my problem was the dizziness kinda made me feel happy and comfortable and that makes me worried cause it's not normal and I want to know why it happened.

Hey there, love.

It’s OK, don’t worry about it all!

Now, as we are in no way medically trained we cannot tell you why this happened. None of us have the training or the skills to provide that for you sweetie. I’m sorry about this, but that’s just how it is. <3

I would say though to me, this doesn’t sound too healthy at all, and I think the best thing for you to do would be to go see a doctor and let them know about this. They have years of training and experience behind them and are a lot more likely to be able to tell you the cause of this. They will also be able to provide you with support and let you know what you can do in the future to stop this happening again often. They could probably give you a range of reasons why you may have felt like this.

I know speaking to someone about these kinds of things can be daunting, but they are highly trained professionals who have a very vast range of knowledge, and it could really help. <3

Sorry that we couldn’t give you a definitive answer, sweetie.

Love Louise xox

[mental-health-advice]

Hey, for the anon Solarx about growilng stomach, I'm experiencing the exact same thing, i find it embarrassing too, you're not alone. I haven't found the proper solution, but my advice would be to keep your body well hydrated, stick to nutrition that suits you and eliminate stress as much as possible, and for anxiousness in class, disctract yourself, daydream or draw something in your textbook, write anything, etc. and even tell your teachers if your anxiousness is overwhelming. xoxo

For the anon Solarx

Hey there, love.

Thanks so much for sending this in to help out. That's really kind and considerate of you.

I wish you all the best. <3

Love Louise xox

[mental-health-advice]

It feels like every time I make new friends, a number of them become bored with me. Like they don't get anything out of our friendship anymore, so they leave me behind. What's wrong with me? Why do people leave me?

Hey there, sweetie.

I’m sorry that you feel like this. It can really suck when you feel like you can’t find decent friends.

Love, it’s really important that you don’t blame yourself. This is in no way your fault. I think friendships are a lot like relationships in a sense that sometimes you have to kiss a few frogs before you find the right person. So, in friendship terms, I think you have to try out a few friendships before you find the right people. And it sounds like maybe you just haven’t found the right people yet. This doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you, far from it. Please don’t beat yourself up over this love, you are an amazing person and deserve to have good friendships with people who appreciate you for everything that you are. <3

It might be an idea to join a club or a team, something that you enjoy? This way you can meet lots of new friends who will have similar interests to you, which could be better for you? :)

Don’t give up love, you are a beautiful person and you will find the right friends, anyone would be lucky to have you as their friend.

Don’t hesitate to come back if you need anything else at all.

Love Louise xox

[mental-health-advice]

Sorry to be a bother but did you get an ask about sort of/ almost relapsing? I was kind of freaking out in it. /// please tag stationsrain

Hey there, lovely!

I think I may have just answered this for you, I'll link it here.

I hope this is yours so that you get your answer. <3

Love Louise xox

[mental-health-advice]

Hi I sent in an ask about telling my boyfriend about my past struggles with disordered eating and such and I said #dia at the end. Has it been answered? It's cool of it hasn't, there's no rush.

Hey there, lovely!

I answered this for you earlier, you can find it by clicking here.

I really hope it helps. <3

PS. thanks so much for your totally chill attitude and not wanting to rush us, it's really appreciated! :)

Love Louise xox

[mental-health-advice]

Can I just say that all of you girls and guys are all so amazing for running this blog and I appreciates it and it's helped me so much :)

Hey there, sweetie!

Thank you so much for your lovely and kind message, these messages mean the absolute world to us here.

I am so glad that we have been able to help you, this makes us all so happy when we know that we've succeeded in helping people.

I hope things carry on going well for you, lovely anon!

You can always keep coming back if you need anything at all. <3

I wish you all the best,

Love Louise xox