#love help

[casuallycrushing]

you are beautiful inside and out. and don’t let anyone let you forget

[thesarcasticpacifist]

I feel terrible.

We were together since high school. “High school sweethearts”. So much pressure. To be together forever. To survive it all.

We grew apart because we didn’t grow at all. 7 years of the same thing. I didn’t even realize it.

Not until I met him.

I feel terrible.

It was instant. It was strong. It was hard to ignore. It was one of those things you can’t explain.

I didn’t cheat. I would never.

But I met him and he opened my eyes.

I saw all the possibilities. The happiness. A future with everything I could possibly want or need. A future where I would give him all of me. We would give each other the world.

I feel terrible.

I couldn’t do it anymore. I ended it. 7 years of love. 8 of friendship. I didn’t mean to throw it away. I just needed more. I was never going to get more.

I feel terrible.

He makes me happy. He makes me feel special. I gravitate towards him. I feel like I’ve known him for years. Not weeks. I’m already falling and it has been beautiful.

I feel terrible because I feel amazing with him.

You make me feel the best types of way mi querido.

3/28/2022

[love-me-im-pan]

Things my friends say: #18

"Don't let high schoolers help your love life."

[together-translations]

[rosiitea]

so I like this cute shy guy that works at my local pharmacy. I've only spoken to him a few times asking about products, his hands shook when he was explaining it. the only time I got personal was when I asked him what nationality he was. I don’t think asking him questions at work is going anywhere so I was thinking about catching him outside of work and talking to him. Any ideas on what I can say or how to start the convo? x

Awhhh this is so cute😱❤️❤️❤️Uhmmm you don’t wanna scare him off since he’s a shy guy. Maybe you could pretend to learn his language and ask for his help! (I’m assuming he’s a different nationality than you since you asked him what he was). Or you can ask him about what he thinks about working in the store cuz you’re also interested in working there hahah😝When you talk to him tho try to avoid yes and no questions! Shy people tend to give short answers so try to ask him as many open ended questions as possible. Find out what things he likes and talk about that later in the convo! I hope this helps you☺️ Also please let me know how it goes. Im all excited and hyped up for you!!! thanks for asking me for help :)

[galaxygalthemess]

Question: can you fall into some form of love in under a month?

Ok hear me out. I'm not one to think love at first sight is real. It takes work. Ik love is not being around eachother every second. It's not always agreeing. Its not posts on social media. It takes work and time. It takes finding what you disagree on and whether you can handle it. Its not being around them at all times and being ok with that. It's trust. But this guy is different in my head. We encourage eachother. He's not jealous of my friends as im not of his. We bicker. We live far ish apart(i cant impromptu visit but i go over semi often) but im ok with it. I dont need him with me all day but i like to be around him when i can. I also have a habit of facetime when i sleep. I like to know he's there. He's ok with me being me and encourages it and I try with him. It's at a point I actually forcefully hold back those words because I KNOW it is WAAAAYYYY too soon. But, like, is it close to it? Is this developing love? Is it a stronger bond? Idk what to think

[casuallycrushing]

Confidence is key when trying to find a potential boyfriend (or girlfriend). You have to be comfortable with yourself and confident in who you are and it shows when you aren’t. if you don’t love yourself you cannot love another person in the way they should be loved. <3