#confident tips

[agirlwithglam]

Dress to express.

Not to impress.

This year we will be channeling our inner Elle woods, Barbie, hot girl energy. We will be dressing to express ourselves as the most amazing, fabulous, confident person of yourselves! We will dress in a way that makes us feel like THAT GIRL. Like the MAIN CHARACTER.

[lifethroughlenss]

Be Yourself with Confidence.

You should never feel obligated to do or say something just because you think some else wants you to or just to fit In.That’s not natrual or you.The more you stay true to yourself the happier you will be.If you like playing piano,violin,guitar,writting or singing you do THAT.That Is what makes you you! People always have and alway will have In their mind what you can and cannot do,or what you can and cannot say,or how you should and should not dress.Alway remember to be real.Be authentic.Be yourself and you will be happier being you rather than someone else.It will grow you Into a better person, otherwise how can you grow being someone else? You can not.Be confident In your own body, know your worth and grow like a flower In spring.Never rely on someone else to be confident, but always strive to gain confidence on your own no matter what.Be your own cheerleader! Be confident In the way you style your hair,the way you speak,the way you walk, the way you work,the way you write and In everything.Never let strangers and status quo determine who you truly are,NEVER!

[casuallycrushing]

Confidence is key when trying to find a potential boyfriend (or girlfriend). You have to be comfortable with yourself and confident in who you are and it shows when you aren’t. if you don’t love yourself you cannot love another person in the way they should be loved. <3

[agirlwithglam]

👠 The It Girl’s Confidence Guide 👠

Greetings and welcome fellow apprentice, to thee official It Girl’s Guide to Confidence! this guide will be from an actual experienced person. i have been through a phase where i completely hated myself and genuinely thought i wasn't worthy of good things to becoming so confident and completely comfortable on my own. <3 here are the tips that helped me so much 💗 read here for the it girl series!

btw i have a whole guide on self love which i'll add the link of -> HERE.

what is holding you back from being confident? basically ask yourself: what am i lacking that is holding me back from being confident? then work on it. its that easy! something thing that i've done is that i've made a list of what a "perfect" person/ version of me looks like. i've included their personality, intelligence, looks, relationships, mindset and hobbies. so everyday i'm always working towards that and adopting that energy of perfection. but be careful with this! you rly need to have a good self love and self worth to do this otherwise it can bring you down.

affirmations. im ngl this really did wonders for me. every morning i'd either a) repeat affirmations in front of the mirror, or b) listen to affirmations by other people. trust me, it will start to rewire your brain to help you. here is my post on affirmations for self love and confidence. also i highly recommend that you listen to subliminals!

leave. toxic. relationships. the bad people for you will bring you down. good people will hype you up. choose your people.

create a confidence playlist. fill it will songs that make you feel elite and like that girl. if you don't want to create one yourself, you can always search up confidence playlists on Spotify- they have loads of rly good ones.

become obsessed with yourself. cus girlie.. whats there NOT to be obsessed with??

walk, talk, sit, stand with confidence. whatever you do, do it with confidence. when you're walking walk with your chin up and back straight. when your sitting, watch your posture. when your standing, dont slouch- OPEN BODY LANGUAGE. and when you're talking, don't seem unsure or scared, but don't be too cocky/ arrogant. remember: no one is better than you, and you are not better than anyone.

watch helpful videos. for me, the holy grail, the one i'd always come back to and recommend over and over again: thewizardliz and Tam Kaur. let me say that again: THEWIZARDLIZ and TAM KAUR. these are the queens who really taught me to be confident.

alter egoossss. create a new version of you or adopt the energy of another confident icon! i've made a whole post on how to make an alter ego which you can check out.