Letting Go People tend to hold on to the good memories when they are deciding whether or not a person is toxic in their life. This is a mistake that I found myself having. I was holding on to the good in someone because I longed for that friendship again. I had to remind myself that I left that friendship because ultimately it was to toxic. I left the door open by saying I needed time to grow. I didn't need time to grow, I just didn't need them in my life anymore. They were a seasonal person that I tried to make forever. I racked my brain trying to understand why I would allow myself to be back in a friendship that came with rules. Why allow myself to be put on the back burner because their girlfriend wasn't fond of them having other women as friends? I realized that he was going to do whatever he needed to do to salvage their relationship. If he keeps her happy, he's happy. I realized that I don't know every aspect of their relationship. Who knows what's been said about me to save face. You can only tell someone so many times how you want to be treated until you realize it's a not going to happen. We love, live, learn, and grow. I know that it's better to walk away than to say and do malicious things.
