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[lovewitchivy]

How I manifested a 3p out of my reality and got my SP back being my neighbour

Hey guys, it’s been a good while since I’ve posted on here. Since I’m almost at 1k on Loatumblr, I wanted to come on and share a recent success story. I really hope this can help or inspire some of you in some way 🤍

✴︎ context: me and my sp were doing amazing, we literally never fought, just so you have an idea. Then, out of nowhere, I started thinking and worrying about what I would do if he ever replaced me or abandoned me. And even though I never verbalized those fears, arguments started happening. As much as I tried to control my anxiety, deep down I was constantly worried about that made-up scenario.

At the time, I was going through a lot. (If you follow me on my twitter, you know I manifested my dad’s divorce from an abusive relationship.) All of that was happening around the same time. I was emotionally drained and so exhausted that I kept thinking, “If anything happens, I’ll just revise and reverse it.” So yes, I was aware that I could end up manifesting it, but I still gave in to my anxiety.

✴︎ How everything happened: Remember when I said that the arguments with my SP started around the same time I was worried about my dad? So here’s what happened. In the second/third week of January, I was away from home and constantly creating (and stressing overg the possibility of us breaking up for good. Meanwhile, my SP and I were still talking normally. Then, while I was at the hair salon, I got a call saying my dad had officially gotten divorced. It was a relief, but I felt this tension because of everything going on with my SP. Long story short: we broke up, and he told me he was starting to get interested in a third party. That same week, my dad got divorced. It was a shock. I had to deal with my breakup while also processing my dad’s situation.

My friends from loatwt supported me in a way I’ll never forget, there were so many of them, I couldn’t even name them all. I knew what to do, but I just needed to let myself feel everything first.

✴︎ The turning point: I let myself cry as much as I needed to and talk to my friends for about 1 week. I asked them how they handled similar situations, and that really helped me calm down. Then I started affirming (I even posted it on Loatwt lol), “He’s chasing me and coming back regretful.” That was my main affirmation for a few weeks. I archived our chats, muted him on everything, and tried to focus on myself. One random day, though, I was at a pizza place and saw a story of him with the 3P. It hurt a lot. I talked to my friends about it, but I didn’t lose focus. From that day on, I started affirming whatever came naturally to my mind as long as it was in my favor. Usually it was things like, “There’s no other option but for him to come back. He could never live without me. I KNOW he’s coming back because I’M THE ONLY ONE.” And I would say it like a literal decree. I shifted from sudden sadness into intense anger because it had already been 20 days, and I wanted this resolved. I had to come out on top. I’ve manifested so many things before, I wasn’t about to fail at this. Either I win, or I win.

And understand this, guys: from that day on, it wasn’t about him or us anymore. It was about me, about my power.

✴︎ recap:

-I allowed myself to feel my emotions and be vulnerable.

- I chose a clear focus and stuck to it.

- I didn’t ignore the fact that he was with the 3P, I just kept affirming that he would leave them bc I would always be his only option.

✴︎ timeline:

Breakup: 01/19 I was affirming that he was chasing me and coming back.

The day he made things official with the 3P: 02/15, that’s when I started affirming more like a decree.

The day he came back: 03/01.

✴︎ The manifestation: It was honestly crazy because in those 40/41 days, my life changed so much for the better. During that time, I also manifested celebrities, money, new friends, and 3/5 romantic 3Ps. I was also in the middle of moving to my mom’s house. At some point, he wasn’t even a concern anymore bc I just knew he would come back sooner or later. In the first few days after the breakup, people started sending me screenshots of him commenting on and reposting videos about “regret” and “being scared the person you love has moved on.” I ignored it. I literally thought, “pathetic behavior,” and kept affirming. When I felt more solid in my affirmations, he made things official with her. Okay. I kept going. Then weeks later, out of nowhere, he deleted everything about her and unfollowed her. I only found out because people sent me screenshots. A few days later, he texted me saying he had something to tell me.

He told me he was moving to a new neighborhood (the same one I was moving to) and that he chose that area because he remembered my mom lived there, and it would be a chance to be close to me. Right after that, he started saying his life wasn’t “moving forward” without me, that he missed me, that he couldn’t get me out of his head because I had basically become an addiction to him, and that he still had strong feelings for me.

He literally repeated my affirmations back to me. He even freaked out saying he wanted to be my neighbor and now he lives right next to my street. Yes, I know it sounds crazy, but it is what it is. The dates speak for themselves.

Well guys, that’s it! I decided to come back to Tumblr and share this success story because… it really meant a lot to me. I hope I was able to help or inspire some of you who might be going through something similar. I’ve been in that hell before and the only way out is to become the fire yourself. The law is real. If I did it, you can too. Take care 🤍

[lovewitchivy]

How can I detach from the concept of time? I know I can manifest, I don’t doubt that, but I don’t know how to let go of the idea of “waiting for it to appear in the 3D.”

You need to understand that time, as taught, is only a tool of human organization and not an absolute structure of existence. The division between past, present and future is a form of orientation of the mind, not a real limitation of consciousness. On the spiritual plane, this separation does not operate in the same way. I’ll use example spirits bc I’m a witch but lolll they (if they’re elevated) can look at you and see their past lives in the present moment, it doesn’t matter if it’s “past”. What we call the past still exists as something present because everything coexists in the same field.

That’s why the revision works. Bc what was lived is not far away and behind is only sustained by a recognition (memory) that can be changed. When you take on a new meaning, you’re not fighting against something fixed. You are repositioning your own line of experience of time, temporal. The future does not exist as an immutable destiny. It does not form itself, it is a consequence.

[lovewitchivy]

How do you deal with time and circumstances in ur face? I affirm for my desired body but I notice my waist and arms looking big and my skin breaking out despite affirming? Should manifestations take months to happen?

Look, the time it takes for you to manifest something is the time it takes for you to change your mind. How long does it take for you to change your mind? How long does it take for you to fully assume something new and remain consistently persistent in it? That’s the only thing it depends on. So no, it does not take months for it to happen. Never, never. Only if you’re being inconsistent. As for circumstances, like I said, it’s not about actively ignoring the 3D in the sense of pretending it doesn’t exist or running away from it. That’s not the point. It’s about recognizing that it has no real power and that it’s temporary. So, let’s say you’re manifesting a specific person, and every time you check your social media, you notice that they’re ignoring you. What should you do in that situation? You have to look at it and continue thinking what you want. Continue affirming what you want. Because your subconscious mind doesn’t care about what appears to be true or what’s currently happening. It responds to what you’re consistently telling yourself. What story are you telling yourself? That’s the only thing that matters. That’s the only thing that can change your circumstances. Everything you’re seeing right now doesn’t matter, because it will change. So the best way to deal with it (let’s say, to “ignore” it) is by understanding the nature behind it.

[lovewitchivy]

hiii ivy … ik aff = thoughts but still there are a lot of times i dont at all feel like affirming even tho i really want this desire like asap… infact ik if i had been consistent i would alredy had it by now but still i procastinate.. how to deal w this 🥲

Hello, so, your answer is already in your question. Thoughts are affirmations in fact, the problem is that we are used to thinking negative and recognizing the circumstances so it becomes a loop of: I see bad things ➡️ I reaffirm it ➡️ I keep seeing it.

The way you change is as you said: being consistent. What would you think and affirm to yourself if you had? That’s what you have to affirm.

[lovewitchivy]

I don’t understand. I have been thinking in my favor about how I am constantly passing all my test, and i had no doubts. I recently did a test and I was confident in that I’ll pass, yet when it came t my test results I got a 60? Which even if it counts as a passing grade, was not what I originally visioned. What did I do wrong ?

I understand the frustration that arises when you sustain a truth internally and reality still presents the opposite. That confronts us. This ends with the emotional. Ever, my dear, there is a principle that needs to be understood: what you see is not a sentence. It’s something temporary, under YOUR domain.

Therefore, do not treat the present moment as proof of defeat. Treat him as neutral. The emotional can be agitated, this is of human nature, but its internal position should not bow to what is temporary. You don’t interrupt your decree because the reflection hasn’t changed yet, you revise. Reviewing is an act of authority. It is to look at what happened and remove any definitive power from it. It is to reposition the fact within your own will, not within the appearance. Don’t stop because “it was the day” and it didn’t happen. Time does not govern the law. Your persistence rules. Those who manifest are those who remain, always remember this, you force reality to reorganize itself in accordance with what you are. She has no choice. She always delivers what you sustain as truth without contradiction.

[lovewitchivy]

It’s insane when I think of a song or video I haven’t seen in a minute it pops up and I learned that’s because I manifested it, my thing is why isn’t it easy for me to manifest something I truly want in that way? Or how can I apply it? Yesterday I started singing a song I haven’t sung or heard in so long then 5 min later I see it on TikTok lmfao it freaked me out and I was trying to back trace to my thinking process to how I manifested that but I was still confused? And my thing is if I manifested that how come negative things don’t manifest like if my mind says something like “your dog will get sick or something” as an intrusive thought. I just want to fully grasp what’s happening😭

It’s the same thing as someone who says they can manifest random lime green cars but can’t manifest their own SP. Why does that happen? Understand this: the law does not differentiate between a person and a random lime green car. For the law/for the principle that governs all of this, or for your subconscious mind, however you prefer to call it, there is no weight, no hierarchy, no difference. Everything is being materialized, just as it always has been naturally.

So who assigns weight to things? We do. We are the ones who give things meaning and importance. For the law, there is nothing harder or easier to manifest. That distinction doesn’t exist. Again, we are the ones who create that perception. The only reason you were able to manifest things like songs easily is because you had no resistance toward them. You assumed it was easy. You judged it as easy. And because of that, it happened easily. That’s how the law operates.

So if you want to have that same level of ease with other things, you have to tell yourself that it’s easy for you. That it happens quickly for you. Because why would it need to take a long time? Some people find it easy to manifest an SP, and others don’t. Why does that happen? Because some people perceive changing a person as easy, while others perceive it as difficult. It all depends on your perception. The law operates through your assumptions and your perception of the situation. That’s why we say everything is relative. What is easy for me might be difficult for you. What is easy for you might seem impossible to someone else.

So affirm that it is easy for you. Affirm that your desire is easy for you. Affirm that it’s easy for you to receive what you want.

[lovewitchivy]

Oii Ivy!! How can i assume that i've already graduated from university and know the languages i want? everyone knows i dropped out 2 years ago and i feel really bad about myself

Hello! In this case, did you give up from uni and don’t study these languages? I don’t know if I understood correctly but it doesn’t matter because these are circumstances. About the university I would recommend you to say something that assumes that you never stopped studying, something like: “I graduated, I’m graduating, I finished college” and try your best not to care about logic. As for the languages, I would recommend you to state that you are fluent in them or say that you are polyglot/bilingual/trilingual, whatever is natural for you, even if you watch the dubbed movies are subtitled you can tell yourself that it is for hobby because you understand the language. Anyway you will start to understand the language and write it too.

[lovewitchivy]

heyy ❤️❤️

i know that manifestation is real and i consciously manifested some thing but i struggle in particular to manifest a circle of friends. i tried for the past years but i recognize i was alway inconsistent. can you give me an advice please? do you think i should also affirm for manifestation ability or self concept? also, do you have a strict routine while manifesting? ❤️

Hey, good evening. About manifesting a specific friend group, I’m not sure if you mean a group you already know and want to be part of, or a group you’ve imagined. Either way, I think the easiest approach is to affirm that you already have your desired friends, that you have your dream friend group, or, if it’s a group you already know in real life, affirm that you’re already part of that group and that those people are already your friends. Try to picture yourself hanging out with them and think about what you’d naturally be thinking if you were already spending time with those people. If it’s a group that doesn’t exist yet, you’ll either end up creating those people from scratch in your reality or attracting people who already have that kind of social circle into your life. There are so many ways it could happen, and that’s basically the how, and the how doesn’t really matter when you’re manifesting. I’d also recommend saving pictures on Pinterest of places you’d like to go with your friends, activities you’d do together, or hobbies you’d share. As for self-concept, I’ll always recommend working on it because, in my opinion, it improves the whole manifestation process. It helps with discipline and even how quickly things show up. My favorite affirmation for the Law of Assumption is, “I always manifest instantly. Everything I want happens, and only what I want happens.” That way, you’re also removing the possibility of unwanted or negative things showing up in your life. It’s a really powerful affirmation. I’d recommend repeating it when you wake up and before you go to sleep, and then during the day you can focus on your other desires. As for my routine, I don’t actually have a strict one. I just try to saturate whenever I notice I’m procrastinating. So instead of spending an hour scrolling on TikTok, I’ll spend that hour saturating instead. Then, if I still want to go on TikTok afterward, I will. Or if I notice I’ve been on social media for too long or just listening to music for hours, I’ll stop and think, “I could be using this time to create my dream life,” and then I’ll switch to affirming. I don’t have a specific number of hours that I affirm every day. The only thing I never skip is affirming while I sleep. Every night I put on my subliminal with my headphones and fall asleep listening to it. That’s completely non-negotiable for me. I do it every single day. That’s the only part of my routine I’d say is mandatory. During the day, though, it depends. Some days I’m busy, some days I have more free time. On the days I’m free, I saturate more. And of course I don’t spend ten hours straight affirming. I do things I enjoy, then come back to affirming later, or I’ll affirm robotically while I’m doing other things. I’m already used to saturation, though, so if you’re just getting started, you can keep it simple. You could do ten minutes for each desire, or an hour if that feels comfortable. Just go with whatever feels manageable for you.