Im sorry to force you to keep talking about this topic, bc i agree with what youre saying but: how do you feel about angst fics describing the break up? Thats also a time that actually happened, during which paul has stated that he was depressed. I have in the past read quite a few 1980 fics, but you've convinced me that they're problematic, so I'll stay away from them now... but in your opinion would that disqualify any fic which explored the pain they all definitely went through?
okay, this is the last ask i’m going to answer about this because this whole thing has just been blown way out of proportion, all because of an offhand comment i made during an ask game
anyway, i’m glad you understand where i’m coming from, but i never set out to tell people what they should or shouldn’t read (or what they should write). if you’re uncomfortable with the subject matter now that’s one thing, i just don’t want this to become a boycott in typical tumblr fashion: “this thing has been officially labelled problematic so no one is allowed to be a fan of it.”
as for your question, it would depend on your own comfort levels. for me personally, i don’t find fics about depression to be outright disrespectful. it’s very different than using someone’s actual murder for entertainment, imo. but this brings us back around to my original explanation, where i basically said we have no business policing anyone because we can’t know their motivations. i’m actually really drawn to fics that explore depression, i like reading them and writing them, because i suffer from clinical depression myself. could you make an argument that it’s problematic? maybe. but i’ll admit it’s not something i’ve thought about too deeply.
to be fair, i actually don’t think i’ve read a fic about the break up but, as with any subject matter, it would just depend on how it’s handled. if i opened a fic like that and got the vibe that it was written because the author thinks paul is hot when he’s in pain or something, i wouldn’t read it and i would find it disrespectful. it all comes down to the handling of the subject matter and the motivation of the author. that’s all.