I don't forgive my father, and of course, who could blame me ? He's not my person to forgive. However, I don't hate him. I can't hate him, a lot of things went in to making him that way. The way I see it, I can choose to hold a grudge that tires me out, hurts me and gets me nowhere, or I can choose to hold peace for him and understand what happened that led to him ending up the way he was. I don't blame anyone who dislikes him or wants to hold anger for him, I can only hope that they realize it will just hurt them more. I feel..... Very complicated. About him. But I don't hate him, because hate will only hurt me more than anything he could have done. I hope he's full of peace now. I hope everyone is.