#lysigender

[mogai-headcanons]

Lysithea von Ordelia from Fire Emblem: Three Houses is a biromantic demisexual nonbinary onyxgender lysigender person who uses she/her, they/them, and it/its pronouns, and it’s dating Annette Fantine Dominic, a panromantic aceflux transmasculine jadegender person who uses it/its and they/them, but doesn’t mind other pronouns! They’re both in a polyamorous relationship with Cyril, an aroflux bisexual trans opalgender demiboy who uses any pronouns!

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[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Hey! I used to be genderfaun, but now I know I have delusions and it feels like those influence my gender and how seriously people take me and my gender. It seems like my ability to have a gender is fading, or that the gender just... stopped happening? I just forgot about it for a while came back and poof... no more gender. it feels like a variety of other things control it and like yeah its there but its also.. poof gone and I would like a word for it.

Here are some possibilities I could find from what you described:

Delusogender: a subset of posigender (a gender identity that is influenced by the positive symptoms of a schizophrenic person) in which one’s gender is influenced by one’s delusions. Strictly for schizophrenic/psychotic/delusional people.

Lysigender: A gender that seems to dissolve and disappear as soon as you attempt to grasp it or figure it out.

Vapogender: A gender that sort of feels like smoke. One can see it and understand it on a shallow level but if one tried to go deeper it disappears, and one is left with no gender and only tiny wisps of the gender one thought it was.

Squidgender: a gender that, while definitely there, when one takes time to examine and work out what it is, it becomes obscure and can disappear. 

[lgbtq-unity-blog]

So, I'm not sure about my gender. Some days I feel more masculine. Sometimes I feel neutral. Rarely I feel feminine. I thought I could be gender fluid, but it seems like I only PARTIALLY id with any of the genders I feel that day. I normally don't really care about my gender? Regardless of what it seems to be. I sometimes feel more inclined with certain genders, but not really? Every time I decide on a label and feel good about it, soon after it seems to fade away and not fit anymore. Thanks aa-

Okay, so I can think of several different labels that might fit with the different experiences you described here. The part about being fluid between partial genders sounds like demifluid, not really caring about your gender sounds like cassgender, and your gender fading away/changing every time you settle on a label sounds like genderflight, lysigender, or vapogender.

Demifluid: When your gender is fluid between demigenders.

Cassgender: A gender identity where one feels that their gender is unimportant or is indifferent to the idea of gender.

Genderflight: A fluid gender that feels fleeting, that vanishes before one can define exactly what it is.

Lysigender: A gender that seems to dissolve and disappear as soon as you attempt to grasp it or figure it out.

Vapogender: A gender that sort of feels like smoke. One can see it and understand it on a shallow level but if one tried to go deeper it disappears, and one is left with no gender and only tiny wisps of the gender one thought it was.

[ask-pride-color-schemes]

Hey there :) I've been thinking a lot lately about my gender identity and I really want to thank you for this tumblr because it's been so much help. The only thing is while some of these identities feel close to how I feel (I thought I might be nb, but not to what extent) they don't seem EXACTLY right and I was thinking of maybe submitting a new one to fit me? My gender feels sharp and dangerous, but close yet always out of reach... maybe Trexgender? Or is there another similar? Thank you!

I’m glad I could help! I Can’t think of anything existing that fits the bill exactly but there’s a few that might cover parts of it if you haven’t seen them already. Trexgender sounds nice and new terms are always welcome :D

Kakogender: A gender that is dangerous.

Snakegender: When your gender slips away every time you try to reach for it to figure it out, and it’s always changing and it’s really scary to confront so you just try to avoid it. 

Ectogender: A gender identity that is elusive, constantly out of one's grasp, and/or hard to pin down.

Lysigender: A gender that seems to dissolve and disappear as soon as you attempt to grasp it or figure it out.

Opscugender: A gender that feels difficult to see or grasp, as if it is hidden in the dark.

-Hermy

[pride-color-schemes]

Lysigender

Lysigender: A gender that seems to dissolve and disappear as soon as you attempt to grasp it or figure it out.

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