I can't believe that it only JUST occurred to me that my joint problems could have anything to do with why I pick up / handle things in a way that is percieved as 'graceful'.
It isn't finesse. I just don't have an incredibly weak grip with my finger tips.
This is an example of how I've adapted to be able to hold things consistently. It is CLEARLY hypermobility related, and I feel silly for not making that connection sooner.



















