#magicalpaz

[bi-sapphics]

Hey i read your DNI and i have two questions:

1. Whats bad about she-ra o would like to learn

2. What do you mean that people wo think _4_ is like offensive to trans people? (Im a trans guy dating another trans guy and im all for people dating people who get them, its awesome, what could be bad about it?)

- in addition to the entire show having many racist/antiblack undertones (tiktok link lol), the crew itself is problematic; ND (showrunner) has drawn offensive Black stereotypes of bow, a cishet man has said dyke, and someone else made jokes about double trouble being a pedophile. after i post this ask i'll edit a twitter screenshot from when it happened. the entire series is a really bad case of "quantity over quality." their poc rep is diverse and many but very shallow and tossed-aside. it doesn't actually mean anything just because it's there. also apparently both hordak & horde prime’s VAs are Black. so is shadow weaver’s. pretty much everyone else, though...? yeah.

- your guess is as good as mine. there is no issue with it. but some transmeds love to claim that _4_ is oppressive and/or appropriating of t4t somehow, like someone else's relationship choices directly affects theirs. idk, i have too much common sense to know how to explain that to ya.

[kingdomcollective]

Sorry did you and Nathan get married?

Im out of the loop

Not yet! But, we are engaged so I just say husband because I'm really excited for us to be actually married already

[chroma-imp-draws]

Does jay control when they are possessed?

the short answer is "kind of"

the long answer is that it depends on the situation. Jay and Lu basically share the body, so depending on who has the stronger drive to control it at any particular moment is likely to be the one in charge.

Generally it's easier for Jay to stay in control when they're already in control, however if they're not really paying attention or Lu really, really, really wants to take over, he can.

Ultimately though, Queer Happenings has a strong comedic component, so often the aspect of how much control Jay has over being possessed is governed by what would be funniest under the current circumstances.

I hope that answers the question :3

[waitineedaname]

Yo being an aromantic leabian is just fine, bo problem with it at all as long as your partners (in whatever way you want) know what they can expect from you.

Being queer is messy, we shoulsnt have to shive ourselves in boxes, we are walking contradictions.

I am both a gay man and a non binary bi person, like whatever brings joy!! Thats whatever silly words we should use

yeah it just gets even messier bc im ace, or at least somewhere on the ace spectrum lol it's complicated. I love identifying as an aroace lesbian and I feel very happy with that label, but I know some people would frown on it. Whatever

But yeah I absolutely agree!!! The queer experience is so damn complicated and beyond the scope of language, so we're all just trying to figure out how to describe it as best we can

[peachedboyfriend]

Im so so glad I found your blog.

Ive been serching for real trans positive man loving that wasnt inherently sexual and wasnt gross (those stuff are fine but beinf referred to as just my genetalia makes me super uncomfortable and dysphoric)

I love seeing the drawings of trans guys post op just living and it comforts me so much that I can see all of these handsome guys and just chilax and not feel inadequate.

Thanks a lot for having this, i feel it will help me recover better

Hi!! I'm glad you like my blog and it's helping you out! It's always awesome to see art of trans people living and being happy, it's a good reminder that you'll get there too someday :)