If you have a problem with contradictory labels (such as men being lesbians), or any issues with xenogenders and microlabels and say shit like they're "too specific", "unnecessary", or "just use x label instead", fuck yourself. Fuck. Your. Self. Block me and never speak to me again.
Very rapidly, there's not a place in Canada where me and my husband can go where the potential for our health care is to remain a legal right. We will kill ourselves without it. As gay trans men, me and my husband are at a far higher risk of being killed. As a black and native man, I'm at a far higher risk of being killed. As a black and native TRANS man, I am at a far higher risk of being killed.
I don't fucking care. You can't tell people how to identify. That's the end of it. You are not them, you do not know their feelings and experiences, and it does not matter. People can use whatever they want for themselves period. A queer person using an unconventional label or using it "wrong" does not make bigots hate us more. They have and will always hate all of us, and you cannot blame the oppressed for their oppression.
Put that effort, that care, all that misplaced rage towards fixing shit that actually KILLS queer people. Don't fight against us because we use a word you said is off limits.
You know who else claims that "x group can't use x term"? TERFS. "Men can't say they're women; women can't say they're men." You're mirroring their fucking hate and I'm sick and tired of seeing it from allies and other queer people. But no, you think you're right. You're actually correct because "tHe DeFiNiTiOn Is—" TERFS also say that shit. They also think they're right.
The more you attack your own, the easier it is for other bigots to beat us down and kill us. Because that's what you are. You're a bigot if you think and say shit like this.
Change your heart or die.
