Ok compared to all the other asks this is very baby like, but what are your tips for frenching, god im so self conscious about my technique uuuuuugh
Don’t be self-conscious at all! Kissing is just as important. I have two tips for you!
My first and major tip for frenching this: be a fucking tease.
Keep your lips soft, open, inviting. Pause between kisses, pull your head away when he goes in for more so that he only gets a little. Lick the corner of his mouth or up underneath the center of his upper lip with just the tip of your tongue. Suck his bottom lip into your mouth and bite it hard enough to make him gasp and then pull away and smirk at him.
He’s gonna get so riled up at your teasing (at least in my experience) that he’s gonna grab you by your neck or your hair and pull you in deep for a kiss, the kind where you’re knocking teeth and can’t breathe.
This is where my second tip comes in: once he takes control like that, LET HIM.
You can match his tongue if you’d like, you can even try to match his dominance if you’re in the mood for it, but I find that if I’m dominant in oral foreplay and submissive once he’s fully engaged and demanding, the makeout sesh is so much better for me. Let him take the lead, let him move your body where he wants it, part your lips how he wants them. Also don’t forget your hands; tug on his hair, cup his neck or his face softly, rub your fingers up underneath his shirt. Guys like that shit just as much as girls do, if not more so.
So yeah! Don’t hesitate to practice if you’re still nervous about it; I always found and open fist works beautifully for this. Wrap your fingers around your thumb but leave a gap, and your thumb will imitate lower lip movement. Have fun, my queen!
