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Nothing ventured nothing gained…

I swear the next older man who calls me "dear", "babe", or worse "angel".

I am not answerable for my actions

-M

Anyone have tips on how to flirting in 2025?

Only I love when men repeat the words I say?

For example, yesterday I was explaining to a man why I had been 30 minutes late, I had gotten lost several times and I started with "it was a... mystical trip"

He laughed and let himself go on the couch next to me "mystical huh?"

It makes you realize that they really listen to you.

Or rather, when older men find my "Gen Z" words funny.

Like "cringe" "cool" "super", they repeat my words laughing and calling me a kiddo.

I love it when they point out the difference between us, and I love it when they get offended if I call them "boomers," even though they always end up righting me.

And last but not least... when during a conversation they repeat your name.

It's something I started doing too.

Some examples (invented name)

"Ehy Alex"

"How's Alex?"

"tell me everything Alex"

"What are you telling me, Alex?"

If they are distracted while you are speaking they will come back attentive to you, it makes you feel more intimate and makes them feel taken into consideration.

Try these tricks babes ;)

Make fun of them a little when they use some weird words, call them boomers if they're older than you, and point out that you remember their name.

The important thing is to make them believe that they have your full attention

See you next time...

-M

Today a tip for my babes.

How often do you see beautiful girls ridiculing themselves for hitting on men (usually too ugly for them)?

It's because not everyone knows how to flirt, many looks desperate, while the point is to be indifferent.

If you look too caught up in the situation or the person you will give them a power that is not theirs.

Don't get me wrong, you have to never be boring or worse, hateful.

The saying "just be yourself" isn't entirely bullshit. You have to be natural, loose and calm.

Everything must seem accidental, natural, an unimportant and absolutely unstudied gesture.

You have to turn the situation in your favor, you don't care, he's the one who cares about you.

So all the things that can fuel hope in him, for you are simply a coincidence... an accidental touch, a distracted look not specifically directed at him, instinctively adjusting your neckline, the shoulder pad falling off because the dress is too loose, the skirt that rises when you settle into the chair.

Understand me, it's all part of the modus operandi but they don't have to know, so you don't have to make it seem like you're following a script, you don't have to be too rigid to look like a robot. Fluency, confidence and a hint of carelessness (and of course a good dose of malice).

I think I'll split these tips into more posts, also telling you how I use them with men ;)

So see you soon with new tips and interesting new stories

-M

But those men who write to you on Tumblr or other social media, try it with you but then don't want to meet in person?

like guys I need meat (and orgasms thx) not a pen pal.

I need sex so bad.

Haven't done it in so long that I feel like I'm a virgin again.

Lately I've dreamed of doing this with a stranger several times, my body clearly sends signals.

I miss that feeling of having a man on me, the soft of his body and the hard of his muscles.

The breath on me, the moans in my ear, feeling it tremble on me, the acrid smell in the air, the wet kisses on me, the lips everywhere.

-M

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New story, same man.

We're talking about Alan again today (I've already talked about him on my profile).

Alan is perfect to set an example for men.

Burned by an old story, he knows how to deal with women but prefers to be submissive and mysterious, at the same time when you get into confidence he has no problem exposing himself a little more, even if he usually regrets having done so.

An impenetrable fortress for many... but I found a side entrance ;)

So take notes girls because that's another flirting tip!

Early summer night, I find myself at a dinner party where I wasn't even invited, I see a red car parking in the spot I had already pointed at from afar (HATE).

I look carefully, red car, not too big, some black pieces and a hooded figure inside, it's Alan! it means he will be there too. (always memorize the car, to be prepared for the meeting)

I park a little further on, "you stole my parking lot, if I can't get it out of the hole I put it in then you move it for me!" I scold him. (Which is very funny, scolding a man twice my age.)

Then I don't think about him too much, I join the others at dinner and sit down, if he wants he will be the one to approach, I won't chase him through all the rooms of the house.

If you make a man think you can't wait to talk to him you'll give him too much power.

No, I don't mean that "if he doesn't write to me, I don't write to him" nonsense. If you think you'll find this kind of advice here, you've got the wrong page.

If you feel like talking to him and think it's the right thing to do, go and talk to him, he'll appreciate the courage and probably even be scared of it, so you'll be in control of the situation.

If, however, you notice that he has something to do or simply looks at you, wait for him to come closer, don't appear too eager to talk to him without even having anything to say. (Although the ones who play these games are usually kids, older men are more direct although they can sometimes be scared by the age difference.)

In fact, he won't let the evening go by without even talking to you... and he did.

After a short while he was sitting in front of me and didn't move from there until 3am, even though he kept complaining about the cold and even though I kept joking on him telling he was too old to stay up late and in the cold.

so how was night? tell you about it next time ;)

-M