it now makes perfect sense that teor kept the real reason kattigan left to himself. imagine telling thjazi fang that someone else left the rebellion to be with the woman they loved

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it now makes perfect sense that teor kept the real reason kattigan left to himself. imagine telling thjazi fang that someone else left the rebellion to be with the woman they loved
Primus deals death to nobility and commoners alike with nary a shift in expression ("I bear your house no ill will." "She's annoyed me.") He also doesn't seem to enjoy having blood on himself. He delegated Occtis's surgery to Ethrand. He held the back of the cab driver's head while Wick slashed her throat. He pulled Raimond's skull out from behind with incorporeal fingers, leaving the gore. He wiped his chin and flicked his hands clean after Julien cut him.
Yet Primus emerged from his attack on Marienna and Esme with a blood-spattered face and a smile so wide Brennan mentioned it twice. Which could mean nothing.
this is basically that one cold open right???
(as per @trailertrashgrog’s suggestion vol 3)
While I do believe that "battle buddies" for sure has spicier undertones, the more deeply romantic notes of the relationship seem painfully unrequited on Teor's end given the way the knife was making active parallels between the way Teor sees Kattigan and the way Kattigan saw Marienna
I'm not sure if I buy into the theory that Marienna is Occtis' mom precisely because Primus spared Kattigan. If this was truly motivated by her leaving him, he would want to get rid of the man she left him for. So I don't think it was a personally motivated murder at all. My personal theory right now is that she, like Azune, might have been part of the lost lineages of the Obradimian sorcerer houses – so this is why he killed both her and her heir, but left Kattigan alone.
So, what's the deal with Marienna Vale and her child? What made her so important that Primus Tachonis himself had to track her down solo to kill her and little Esme off?
A) She was part of the Cloak. She had connections to Thjazi or others in the group without telling Kattigan, employing the 'don't tell them anything to keep them safe' rule.
B) Marienna knew something she shouldn't. Perhaps something she and Esme witnessed. Loose threads in need of trimming.
C) Remember that talk about how the Deva Vindicta was attempted on Halovars, only for the process to fail? If Marienna and Esme were of the Halovar family tree, we can guess why no bodies were left behind. Perhaps they weren't even dead yet. Not until they were delivered to Tannesar.
D) Primus just felt like it that night. Did it just because he could.
Occtis' mother is not Marienna Vale
I know we want a fun and juicy twist, but this theory is automatically bunk because Kattigan would have crashed out from Occtis' theoretical resemblance to her by now.
But there's much more about the storyline and the lore making this theory impossible, both in-game and out-of-game. Some of these are rehashing points others have made in their own debunking posts, but I expand upon them under the cut.
Petra & Ryah are in their late 30's. If they and Occtis share a mother, she'd be too old to be Marienna because Kattigan is 40-something. They have never been mentioned as half-siblings, either.
(Though for the sake of the theory, let's say they ARE half siblings.)
I do wonder if "killing" (no body, not dead? though almost certainly dragged off into the Tenebral Reaches) Marienna and her and Kattigan's kid was even about Kattigan.
I don't know that there's any reason for Primus Tachonis (or possibly an undead spirit allowed to pilot him? the wild expression described at the time makes me feel like mind-fuckery was possibly laid on the sorcerer) to even know who Kattigan was. Primus certainly didn't show any signs of recognizing Kattigan in the now.
So alternatively, the killing might have specifically been about Marienna and a child of her blood. Not necessarily anything to do with a Falconer who stepped out before the war ended. Otherwise, why not kill Kattigan too upon his rush home?
If Marienna was a member of a vassal house, her running off to live a happy life, have a kid, with a Falconer could have been the kind of betrayal to warrant getting hunted down and killed/disappeared.
Or, it's possible Marienna was of a (sorcerous?) bloodline that Primus wanted to see wiped out. So that meant her kid had to go too, but the father didn't matter enough to stick around to kill.