Nothing works than your significant other throwing something in your face that you did in the past, and NOT GET THE FACTS STRAIGHT. And then they act like your lying when you correct them.
A few months after we first got together, I started at Virgina College to get a bachelor's in Business administration. He told me that if we were going to be together for the long haul, then I better make sure I finished college instead of dropping out so that I'd at least have a degree to go with the debt. Well, they had a time frame of a month where if you decided it wasn't right for you, you could drop out and not owe anything. I stayed in and finished my first semester and was half way through second semester when I learned I was pregnant with my middle child, his first child. And I knew that I wouldn't be able to go through college with a newborn. My oldest spent the days with his father's family or my family while I was in school, but I couldn't do that with a newborn, so I dropped out to avoid having even more debt.
BUT THE WAY MY HUSBAND REMEMBERS IT, I dropped it immediately after the time frame was up for no reason except me being lazy.........
I have never wanted to smack him upside the head with a cast iron skillet so much in my life. He's lucky I got rid of then yesterday because I never used them.