NatashaStark

Hi I'm Bia :) inbox open, send prompts pls <3 I just really like Tony Stark. Header made by @kelslk-art. Talk to me about Tony ships. She/Her.

[natashastarkotp]

okay sooo I'm gonna start doing a little bit of reorganizing for this blog because I want it to be more organized? right now I'm so lazy I'm not even tagging things but that's not the kind of blog I wanna have, and there are also some new things I wanna be posting about

I'm gonna start doing taylor swift lyric analysis stuff and talking about her way more in-depth than what I do now, which is just some reblogs here and there and gifsets. this blog is gonna have two main fandoms and it's gonna be ironwidow (thought i'm mostly tony focused) and ts.

like I just said tonynat isn't going anywhere!!! so if that's why you followed me in the first place don't worry.

If you like my rare pair bullshit but not my taylor bullshit you will have to live with it, and vice versa. start sending me even slightly miffed posts about this and your ass is getting blocked.

I'm still multifandom, I go on reblog sprees for whatever my current obsession is and post metas. I'm probably gonna keep in a masterpost whatever pairings and fandoms i talk about and i'll keep consistent tags on them if you want to block those posts.

occasionally i talk video games, and I plan on doing that a lot more now. you're gonna have to live with that too.

I'm trying to be more creative so I'm gonna try posting moodboards and fics (whichever size they may be. i surprise myself often).

[unique-ones-enlightened]

[thesylverlining]

I wish more people got this because some ‘low-empathy’ people are the most compassionate and sympathetic in the universe, and I hate it when that’s taken to mean ‘unfeeling and probably hostile’ when nothing could be further from the truth

[quantum-jump]

Or, as my dad put it,

Sympathy: I know how you feel Empathy: I feel how you feel Compassion: is there anything I can do to help?

[paramourblessings]

Sympathy: that sucks bro empathy: I feel that compassion: want me to send you some puppy and kitten pictures to make you feel better?

[autisticcaleb]

Posts like this make me feel so much better. It always seems like society treat responses to others pain as though empathy is the most important kind. I am around 85% compassionate and this post helped me not feel like I am a monster because of that for once.

[blackheart-biohazards]

😈 You are not bound by the Hays code.

😈 You are allowed to have evil characters who are not punished by the narrative by the end of the story.

😈 You are allowed to have evil characters who win.

😈 You are allowed to have evil characters who make evil look fun and cool.

😈 You are allowed to make your fun, cool evil character the protagonist.

😈 You are allowed to glorify, romanticize and eroticize evil characters and villainous acts.

😈 You are not obligated to teach your audience a moral lesson.

[dovesndecay]

[gaytommykinard]

"you don't like mpreg?" i don't even like fpreg

[avengerscompound]

IRON MAN 2

[shouldntbeaskingmyselfwhy]

the only place i can take taylor opinions from is my tumblr dashboard and even that's on thin ice

this is so real i am right there with you

[mariacallous]

[perfectlyvalid49]

I want to be very clear on this. You can be out drinking with your friends on Friday night and dead on Sunday because of meningitis. Does that sound a little specific? Guess why I have such a specific scenario in mind.

And getting vaccinated is an easy way to prevent that. There is no medical reason to stop recommending that vaccine. There's no new study that shows that it's unsafe, there's no replacement that's better. This is literally the government making its citizenry less safe for no reason.

[seljepw]

This is the most accurate vaccine schedule as laid out by the AAP, who have stated that they think JFKjr is bullshit: 

If you have a kid, either download this or print it and confirm with your pediatrician that this is what you want to follow.

[ganondorf]

i think this captures the defining pathology of the collective social media psyche right now. we are in the thrall of people who are wantonly cruel but who also demand to be coddled at all times in every way

[cages-boxes-hunters-foxes]

People are on Twitter telling everyone they need to provide context when posting the video so they don’t get hate for it. We can’t even enjoy a silly video now without being worried about what the haters or snarkers might say apparently

i know others said this last night but the fact that people (who are new to the fandom, btw) just stormed in and set rules for how everyone else has to operate based almost entirely on what snarked might day, and then enforced those so aggressively that the majority of long time fans have stopped participating in the community, just sucks. if people are too dumb or dense to figure out context, let them have that. not my problem.

[starlitsecrets]

Remember when joining fandom as a younger person meant lurking for a bit and figuring out the vibe and etiquette instead of coming in on day one and calling people weirdos for liking weirdo shit in the weirdo factory.

[victusinveritas]

[black-crested-jaybird]

I always think of the description I saw years ago: Self-imposed deadlines don't help me, because I know the person who set them, and they're full of shit.

[makingtrouble]

Give yourself the treat before you start. I'm serious. And ideally during the task and afterwards too.

Executive dysfunction comes from a lack of available dopamine. Common advice is wrong. You need to provide your own dopamine before you can start. Otherwise you're trying to run your car on empty.

"But what if I still don't do it" well you already weren't getting it done anyway. Now you have a little treat. Try again later.

You deserve kindness and care even when you aren't being productive.

(Also read How to Keep House While Drowning by KC Davis)

[berdymane]

[senatortedcruz]

[corneliaavenue]

She looks so record breaking 4th aoty midnights album right now

[nowimhaunted]

[maryoliveoil]

OKAY TAYLOR

[natashastarkotp]

simply impossible to participate in autism communities made for women because every 3 posts someone is using the most misogynistic radioactive anti-feminist rethoric you can imagine to talk about neurotypical women