I have some inherent issues with dating shows. First, authentically romantic attachments to people cannot be born in a timed, filmed, competitive setting. Most of the ‘feelings’ the contestants claim to have is based on attraction. Granted, physical chemistry is integral in a relationship, but the love that is engendered on these shows is not genuine. Second, I personally feel like the shows are glamorized auctions, where the women (or men) flaunt themselves shamelessly to warrant the bachelor or bachelorette’s attention. This is very dehumanizing to the competitors, and also to the object of the competitor’s desire. While there is no harm in flirting, I can’t help but equate the scenarios of the girls/men putting their best foot and smile forward to them basically saying ‘here’s my ticket, bet on it’.
I will admit that I Wanna Marry ‘Harry’, an American television show, is rather entertaining. The women competing for ‘Harry’s affections all seem like reasonably intelligent human beings…except for not being able to tell the obvious physical differences between Matt and the actual Prince (the lack of freckles and length of face being the most obvious differences). And I will admit that, although at times their behavior is not suited for a future princess/duchess, their flirtation and outgoing behavior is good for ratings and the ‘party’ attitude that Harry has portrayed recently in the media.
What I do not like about the show is this: that this individual Matt, that the producers of the show, the network it airs on, and probably some of it’s viewers, can derive entertainment based on the fact these women are being tricked. I know it’s every girl’s dream to marry Prince Charming, but the show should not be taking this idea and spinning it into a show of deception. It is demoralizing to the women, because it suggests they cannot be wooed without the royal treatment, the money, and the glamorous lifestyle.
All attempts to be professional aside, I cannot believe that these women think that, based on the other women around them, that Matt is legitimate. Look, ladies, if you can't handle talking to someone without yelling or swearing (I understand it's a TV show, and that personality sells), then you are not fit to be future Mrs. Harry. Also, I don't even know which girl it is, but during the side interviews, she calls Matt babe. That's a little strange seeing as they aren't even in a relationship. If they were in a relationship, then that petname is fine... as long as it's said in private. It would be completely inappropriate for her to call Harry babe in any other scenario.
