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Volatile Relationship Aspects 🫣

Of course all of the aspects include Mars ruler of Aries and the 1st house. Mars is how we fight, or deal with our anger, how we go after what we want, and our sex drive. So the following aspects not only cause a magnetic pull because of the "square" but also in some cases strong physical attraction. With these aspects there is a "thin" line between love (Venus) and hate (Mars). But let's be honest any connection where there is intentional or unintentional harm to someone mentally, physically, spiritually, and emotionally could be considered abusive and or toxic which results in negative relationship karma for one or both individuals involved. Just because you have these aspects in synastry does not mean that what is being shared will be your outcome. We never want to manifest negativity in our connections, but we also want to be aware of the energy that is possible. This is my observation from reading numerous charts and also my own personal experiences.

Mars square Chiron- Mars person's anger may trigger the Chiron person and or remind them of past situations or childhood buried subconscious trauma. Mars anger can cause the Chiron person to be traumatized or feel victimized all over again. Mars person is not doing this intentionally but Chiron's reaction may cause the Mars person to re-evaluate how their actions and words can hurt or trigger another person.

Mars square Mars- Strong physical and magnetic attraction but a connection where there are power struggles and ego battles. They have a different way of going about getting what they want, as Mars is the planet of assertion, and taking action, so they do not always agree and each feel like their way of doing things is the right course of action. This connection tends to be on again off again. Because they can't seem to stay away from one another, the way to mitigate this "square" is compromise and mutual respect for each other's differences.

Mars square Uranus- The Uranus person's erratic energy and outlook is exciting and stimulating for the Mars person in the beginning, but once the newness of the connection wears off and the energy does not stabilize, it is a cause for major frustration, anger and anxiety for the Mars person. This connection tends to be on again off again, as Mars anger is off putting and too much for the Uranus person, they do not understand it because they are just being themselves. The way to handle this "square" is for the Mars person to accept the Uranus person as they are and not try to control them or the connection. The Uranus person can stand to be more understanding that their unpredictable flighty nature is triggering for the Mars person. Communication about expectations is key at that start of this connection and during.

Mars square Ascendant- The Mars person is magnetically attracted to the Ascendant person's energy. There is a strong intense sexual attraction, and the Mars person is aggressive in their pursuit and approach. The Ascendant person may find Mars attractive but also at times can find Mars forwardness to be off putting and may begin to distance themselves or shut down which angers the Mars person. Or the Ascendant person may push back and assert their boundaries, which then causes power struggles and discord. The Ascendant person attracted this connection to learn how to speak up for themselves and not let anyone bully or intimidate them. I have had this aspect with two masculine's in the past who were very physically attracted to me but they could also be forceful and aggressive when it came to the bedroom. One masculine was very touchy feely from the start and did not respect the boundaries I put in place physically. As the Ascendant is the 1st house which is the physical body and Mars (Aries) rules the 1st House. I find that it does not matter what sign Mars is in, this aspect brings an aggressive energy towards the Ascendant, if there is other hard Pluto or Mars aspects in the chart like Mars square Mars, Sun square Mars, Sun square Pluto, Mars square Pluto, or Pluto square Ascendant, this can manifest as controlling behavior, jealousy, stalking, and verbal, physical and or ***ual abuse. Be careful and mindful.

Mars square Lilith- Mars is magnetically, and physically attracted to the Lilith person's energy and vice versa. Lilith is our raw, untamed feminine energy, she will not be controlled and will not bow down. This causes power struggles and discord between these two. Because of the volatile energy of both, there is a potential for things to get physical. This connection tends to be on again off again, this aspect is similar to Mars square Mars because of the ego battles and inability to stay away from one another, no matter how toxic it gets.

Mars square Mercury- This aspect causes constant miscommunications, misunderstandings, and verbal arguments. Verbal abuse and threats are not out of the ordinary for this aspect. Name calling and mind games can also be a thing. This aspect is highly toxic because communication is the back bone of all romantic connections. And the inability to not understand one another mentally, but also for it to cause such vitriol is unnerving.

Mars square Pluto- This aspect on the onset causes intense physical attraction to one another. Pluto tends to stir or even exacerbate Mars shadow side. Mars being the planet of physical action and Pluto the planet of transformation both are after one thing. Control. The goal is to obtain this by any means, even by means of physical force (in extreme circumstances) This connection is plagued with power struggles, conflict, and possessiveness, the toxicity is not one sided in this connection, both parties are equally conferrable. This connection tends to be on again off again, and it indicative of a love/hate relationship.

Mars square Sun- The Sun is our ego, pride, and self esteem, while Mars is how we go after what we want and how we deal with our anger. These are two bold masculine energies with the same goal in mind. Winning. Initially this aspect seems like a match made in heaven, because there is a lot of energy being generated as well as attraction. If there is mutual respect, this couple can be a force to be reckoned with, a power couple. If there is competition between them instead of working together, this will result in back biting, sabotage, and volatile power struggles, where neither individual is willing to back down. This aspect can turn two people into enemies if there are not soft supporting aspects to the Moon, Venus and or Neptune.

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Madison 💕

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There have been situations where you walk on the edge of danger, holding your breath, yet instead of fear, you feel an insatiable excitement that you constantly crave. Venus square Mars, Lilith square Mars, Venus conjunct Pluto... In the previous post, I expressed the woman's perspective in this passionate, tense synastry. Now let's look at what the man feels.

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He sensed her presence before he saw her. Before she entered the room, before her name was even spoken. The air shifted; the darkness grew denser, the silence heavier. His breathing shortened without his noticing. This was not a passing desire. Desire came and went. This was a pressure—something that reached a sealed place inside him and made it ache.

When she came closer, he tried to restrain himself. He knew he should. He knew where his hands were supposed to stay, which boundaries his voice should not cross. But her silence unraveled him. The soft openness in her eyes—not directed at him, but at the world—awakened something he had kept locked away. The moment her emotion touched him, it transformed into something else inside him. Sharper. More urgent.

When he kissed her, he was not gentle. He wanted to be, but he could not. There was a haste in his mouth, as though stopping would cause him to fall apart. He did not want to hurt her, yet he did not want to let her go. He could not manage both. That was where the tension came from; that was why they chose the night. Daylight would betray him. Light made visible the things he was struggling to control.

When he held her, he was not holding another person. He was trying to seal a void within himself. But that void had taken her shape. Each time she pulled away, something tore inside him; each time she came closer, it drove itself deeper. This was not the language of love. It was the cry of a place that had been silenced for too long.

Sometimes she would look at him—as if she wanted to protect herself from him, yet without fleeing. In that moment, he understood: he was not her refuge. He was a threshold. And thresholds are not safe places. There, one either crosses—or falls. He had already fallen.

That was why they remained in the dark. Because in the shadows, he could exist as the man who tried to restrain himself and failed. He could not say that he loved her. But without her, he did not know who he was.

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mars in pisces square lilith in sagittarius

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mars in pisces makes a square to lilith in sagittarius. mars and lilith bring unfiltered, or repressed (lilith), action (mars) into movement. this is energy that will put into action new paths that will bring in liberation and freedom. you might have felt repressed in the past, but with this sqaure, although difficult, will later on heal that part of yourself that is afraid to take action towards what you desire.

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Astro observations (part 3)

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🔮 Juno conjunct/trine/sextile Adonis (2101) or Aphrodite (1388) increases the probability of you either marrying your ideal type or you putting your spouse/life partner on a pedestal

🔮 Saturn in the 5th could indicate a father figure who was extremely critical of the child's passions and self expression. The native could repress their talents until they learn that life is worth living however they want, and stop fearing the spotlight. Could actually make an impact with their talents. It could also indicate a parental figure with a gambling addiction

🔮 Saturn in the 10th could be very cold towards their s/o in public, often avoiding pda, even if they're the mushiest person in the world.

These natives are quite reserved about their private lives, most often they don't want people in there business, not even their friends lmao

🔮 Saturn in Capricorn/Taurus is a Sugar daddy placement once they've achieved their goals and financial stability

🔮 Taurus placements/Taurus in the 2nd folks have the most melodious and contagious laughs. It's like their laugh has a beat to it lmao

🔮 Pisces in the 7th people need to be protected at all costs

🔮 Lilith/Saturn aspects gives me daddy issues energy, while Lilith in the 7th gives me outlaw/Bonnie and Clyde energy

🔮 From what I've noticed Lilith square Mars women have a visceral hate towards bossy masculine figures. These natives HATE being ordered around. This could manifest as the native taking revenge on the person, manipulating and pushing their buttons, doing things out of spite to piss them off.

Its manifestation depends on the house Lilith is in: Lilith in 5th - first educators, Lilith in 4th - men in the family, Lilith in 9th - male teachers (I use men here but it applies to any figure that , regardless of gender, presents a more masculine energy)

🔮 Virgo placements like to help the people they love. The thing is they are also painfully selective about who they love. To them time is energy. If you prove to these natives that you're wasting their time, Virgos will ghost you in milliseconds

🔮 When the Moon is transiting in your native moon sign you tend to feel more comfortable in your own skin

🔮 Scorpio Mercury/Mercury in the 8th people are so observant, it's actually scary. They notice little details in their environment and about the people around them. They're very connected to their intuition/gut feeling (whether they consider themselves to be spiritual or not) which helps them get out of dangerous situations.

Side note: at this point I think Sherlock has a Scorpio Mercury , you can't convince me otherwise

🔮 Aquarius people have instant crushes that fade just as quickly, while Leos take longer to get over someone and can go back and forth about their crush

🔮 I've noticed that Cancer Suns with Leo placements are weak for Sagittarius Suns?

🔮 Neptune in the 7th people are very patient and sensitive with others. People could find it easy to vent to them because they listen without judgement. The downside is that people tend to step over the native's boundaries.

The native's friends and partners won't know them completely while the enemies will spread rumors based on assumptions with 0 proof

🔮 Pluto in the 7th folks have a hard time getting over their exes/might have experienced trauma in their relationships

🔮 People with afflicted Moon in the 1st could've been bullied/shamed for being too sensitive as a child

🔮 People with prominent Venusian (Libra/Taurus) placements look huggable 🥺🥺

🔮 Sagittarius and Aquarius, when being asked to stick to one thing/stick to the crowd: No, I don't think I will

🔮 I'm just starting to dip my toe into vedic astrology (very slowly but yes) and I've noticed that: If you're an artistic person the themes of your art pieces/art that you admire from other people, correspond directly to the themes of the nakshatras your personal planets are in

I have a Magha Sun (symbol : the throne, royalty), house lord Ketu (the occult, mystery) and as a teenager I used to draw a lot of chairs, thrones, royal gold patterns and I was also interested in witchcraft (still am)

Hi, Someone i just got to know have scorpio venus in 8th house, mars square lilith and mars square pluto. I feel like this person come on too strong too soon, where this person literally call several times a day even though we just got to know each other for a few days, can you tell me if this placements are indications of a love-bomber ? I hope this makes sense. Anyway, thank you so much hehe

Hello!

Before I get into astrology, I want to mention that if you have the feeling they are love-bombing you, please don’t wait for confirmation, trust your gut and set boundaries, or leave them if you have the feeling they are a manipulator/narcissist.

Coming off too strong for some people can be expected with these placements. Of course they could think you are the right one for them/they have a connection with you from the beginning and that’s why they are courageous enough to let their guard down and just feel at full expense. Scorpio Venus/Venus in the 8th is known to spare their own feelings for the right one and are usually very choosey who they show their devotion and interest to. It’s exactly because the reason that they can go from 1 to 100 in love and get deeply hurt if that same amount of devotion and intensity isn’t reciprocated.

With the other aspects adding to the mix, this can add to the desire to want something, someone who’s very set on getting what they want. Especially the mars square Pluto indicates that they are motivated by their strong feelings and sometimes even oppositional desires. It’s all about the extremes, innerly and outwards, they have an extreme drive, which can lead to coming off too strong and not knowing ones own/others limits or restrictions. Can potentially lead to losing morals due to ones ego and desires getting the upper hand. Lilith here doesn’t ease the tension, as Lilith is all about ‘inappropriate’ needs as well as ones ‘inappropriate’ nature. Can lead to developing sly and unfair methods in order to get what one wants.

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Could you describe mars square lilith? Thank you! ❤️

Mars Square Lilith🔮

problems expressing sexuality, aggressive in sex or tend to appear aggressive when you want to show your feminity. intense in sex as well, you may attract people that wanna repress that part of you or partners that tried to “suffocate” that individuality and sexuality of you.

Your welcome :)

#mars square Lilith

The Clash of Fire and Shadow

“Even when the stars do not touch, their vibrations begin a war. And sometimes, the most dangerous union is the one that never truly unites.”

In the depths of the heavens, the Mars of the Man turns in a fiery orbit, while the Woman’s Lilith stands against him, silent in the shadow of the void. They do not merge — they challenge each other. This is not the lust of conjunction, but the collision of the square.

Mars seeks to command his desire; Lilith bows to no command. Mars says come — Lilith smiles and pushes the fire back. For her power is not in surrender, but in the magic of resistance.

This aspect is known in the ancient scrolls as “The Clash of the Flame and the Dark Moon.” The two forces provoke one another; their magnetism burns as they near, and calls across the void when they part.

The man sees in this woman the most perilous form of desire: uncontrollable allure. The woman sees in him the very force that seeks to contain her power. And thus begins the dance — the dance of desire and defiance, attraction and challenge.

Mars battles, for Lilith shows him his own limits. Lilith resists, for Mars reminds her of her own strength. Both are wounded by this bond, yet from those wounds, a seed of awakening is born.

“The square is a trial a forge where love, desire, and identity are reforged in fire.”

Thus, those bound by this energy both burn and exalt one another. It is not love — it is a test.

The sages of time once said:

“When Mars squares Lilith, the soul looks into a mirror and no longer recognizes its own face.”

For this aspect drags up what has been buried — repressed desire, forgotten anger, and denied power. The woman, in Lilith’s tongue, declares “I am free.” The man, in Mars’s voice, demands “Be mine.” And in the silence between them, the stars catch fire.

This encounter — or conflict — transforms them both. If one tries to dominate the other, the energy turns to destruction. But if they learn to see and honor each other’s darkness, then from that fire emerges the spark of pure creation.

“When fire strikes shadow, it becomes either smoke — or light.”

And here the manuscript ends, a seal sketched upon the margin: two triangles, a circle between them — the spear of Mars clashing with the crescent of Lilith, and in their center, only the spark of wisdom remains.

“This aspect is the soul’s battle with its own darkness. And whoever survives it, learns not love — but freedom.”

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mars in leo sqaure lilith in scorpio

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mars in leo makes a challenging square to lilith in scorpio. mars in leo represents the courage to act bold, proud and the ability to attract attention through action. lilith in scorpio represents the repression of personal power but during lilith in scorpio there is actually a regaining of that power through transformation. when these two fixed signs meet in a square there is friction because whatever needs to pass through is not going as easy as it should. it feels like these two planets are working against each other and that is exactly the feeling the event associated with this square is going to feel like. it's like your working against each other, even when working together would be the better option.

affirmation: Every experience, good or bad, shapes me into a better person.