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Sun square Mars- These individuals may at times come off combative, competitive and aggressive. They may also be selfish, self absorbed and controlling. In relationships this can be a turn off. Because the Sun which is connected to our ego (solar plexus) is ruled by Leo (5th House) and Mars (1st House) which is how we deal with our anger, our motivation and our sxx drive is ruled by Aries which are both fire signs, the energy is felt almost immediately no matter the natal Sun and Mars sign. Because Mars is connected to the physical body these individuals tend to have a very intimidating physical presence. They can be looked at as dangerous or a bully. Even if that is not the case. If Mars is in a water sign you may tend to let your emotions get the best of you. Look at the Sun and Mars signs to get an idea of how this energy is projected.
Mars in Aries/Leo/Sagittarius- The definition of sh**t first ask questions later. Mars rules all the fire signs particularly Aries (1st House) which is connected to the physical body. Fire sign Mars can be incredibility intimidating and egotistical. The best thing about Mars in this placement is they have the stamina and the confidence to go after whatever they want. The con is they can be quick to anger and have a hard time cooling down. People can view them as reckless and, unpredictable. In relationships they can be passionate, but arguments or simple disagreements can turn dramatic. Masculines with these placements may get into or look for situations that can physically escalate because they have so much fire energy running through them engaging in physical exercise is recommended. Feminines with this energy may be viewed at times as forward, harsh and or masculine because of their yang energy and can benefit from yin practices, like yoga, breathwork and journaling.
Moon in Capricorn- You never know what they are thinking or feeling because they rarely share their feelings or show emotion. This can be intimidating in a relationship. A person who never or rarely shows vulnerability can be hard to partner with for the long haul. When they are hurt or betrayed they can give off a cool, detached icy reaction, like they are unbothered. This is because Capricorn (10th House) is ruled by Saturn the planet restriction, duty, hard work, limitations, rules, and contracts. They are uncomfortable with emotion or displays of emotion and feel like they are above it. An individual with this Moon sign may also make you feel like you have to earn their affections or like you have to put in the work or the time before they will open up to you. This can either be viewed as self preservation or fear. Personally I believe two things can be true. It takes a lot to get a reaction or to make them angry so they tend to attract partners who are constantly testing their patience and or emotional limits, this is by design. They are attracted to individuals that are passionate or emotional because they secretly admire or wish they embodied that energy.
Mercury in Gemini- Mercury is already Gemini's ruler so to have this placement is a double edged sword. Gemini Mercury's are highly intelligent and creative minds are constantly spinning and absorbing data and energy around them. Because of this ,this placement is prone to over thinking, paranoia, anxiety, and mental illness. This placement has a vivid and impressive imagination and they may blur the lines between which is real and what their mind perceives as reality. With this placement an idle mind really is the devils playground. Famous and talented lyricist like Tupac Shukar, Kanye West and Kendrick Lamar share this placement.
Pluto in the 1st House- When someone has this placement, they are constantly going through transformations. Pluto (Scorpio) the planet of death, rebirth, transformation, sex, and the shadow, makes sure that they are not comfortable. With the 1st house being ruled by Mars (Aries) which is connected to the physical body, situations and people are constantly brought into their lives to test their patience and boundaries. People can be triggered or intimidated by their presence. These people may experience violations physically and energetically which may result in paranoia and distrust of either the people around them or just people in general, as they never know when a line will be crossed. This placement is highly empathic and able to sense people's motives quickly. This placement is also highly attractive and magnetic and may draw people and situations that force transformation as a result. They can also have this effect on others.
Lilith opposite/square Ascendant/Mars-This untamed unapologetic dark moon/dark feminine square our physical body may bring jealousy, projection and volatile energy and people to our front door. With Mars (Aries) being the planet of aggression, anger and action square our Lilith may also be an energy that is carried. It can be intimidating and magnetic to the opposite sxx and triggering for the insecure and repressed feminine collective. Both feminine's and masculine's can project their hidden shadow and xxxual fantasies onto them. They may gossip, make up lies, put bodies on them, sl*t shame, talk about their clothing, their makeup, hair or their body. They can be viewed as xxx objects and constantly objectified. It is incredibility difficult to have feminine friends with these aspects because there is always a secret competition, or destiny swap energy. Friendships (with non Lilith doms) and romantic relationships may be about proximity to gain the upper hand and energy siphon.
These are a few placements in the natal chart that in my personal opinion make a persons journey and connections more difficult than they have to be as well as their affect on the people around them. Because we are all empathic in some way and can feel one another's energy. Some of these placements/aspects can be off putting, intimidating or triggering for some people.
I have already pointed to the green flags now let's list the red flags, which are not always apparent at the start of a connection, this can be due to Neptune, or Pluto natal or synastry placements which tend to cloud our judgement or we just like the person and ignore our intuition because we want to focus on the positive and hope for the best (fingers crossed). This is the beauty of synastry, even when we choose to turn a blind eye to what is energetically obvious. The energy is still there, lurking beneath the surface in our ocean of disillusionment. When we come out of our "love" coma usually when something happens and we can no longer ignore the obvious the reality can be daunting and for some of us "heartbreaking". These connections are lessons and generally are not meant for long term. Here are a few important aspects to look out for that point to a connection that may be a hard lessons in love.
Sun square/opposite Mercury/Mars/Uranus/Pluto/North Node*
*This is my personal list based on observations of various charts and my own experiences. One or a few of these aspects will and cannot make or break a connection. Synastry is just a guide to the energy, please take the whole chart as well as the individual natal charts into consideration.*
Stay Lifted,
Madison 💋
Have you had any of these aspects? What aspects do you consider red flags?
Alicia Silverstone (Libra) and Stephen Dorff (Leo) met on the set of Aerosmith's "Cryin" video and dated for an entire year. They had a fiery and passionate romance and synastry included aspects like, Sun/Moon square Uranus, Moon/Mercury square Mars, Sun/Moon square North Node, Mars opposite Mars, Sun/Moon square Chiron, Lilith square Sun.
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Since I can remember, I have been placed in triangulations.
(Disclaimer) As a Venus opposite Neptune native I still believe that "true love" exist and is written in the stars, we just have to know what aspects to look for, realistically speaking you need to take the rest of the chart into consideration and just because you have these aspects do not mean your connection will be smooth sailing, or that the relationship is going to sustain, that depends on the emotional maturity of you both and how invested you are in making the connection work. Soft aspects (sextile, trine) can create a connection that feels too easy and because of that one or both people may take the connection for granted, or may feel like the connection is boring or stagnant. If you have a lot of these aspects in the synastry and are experiencing an abundance of toxicity you may want to look at the state of the individual natal charts to see if there are hard aspects, to the personal planets. Two or more of these aspects to Sun, Moon, Venus should help relieve the push/pull energy of Uranus and Mars in the synastry. But the key word is "should" the sign and house placement of these planets should be considered.
These are my synastry observations and interpretations of non planetary aspects in the 12th house (Pisces) ruled by Neptune. For reference the 12th house is often connected to the divine, spirituality and our past lives, so it is not unusual for the house person to feel a sense of Deja vu or a recalling of emotions and or scenarios. These 12th placements further highlight the inner workings of the connection on the metaphysic and energetic level.
North Node in the 12th House- The house person can feel like the connection is ethereal or spiritual. There can be a feeling of having known the Node person before and also some confusion as why they have come together or where the connection is going. This Node person can be a spiritual lesson for the house person.
Lilith in the 12th House- The Lilith person can activate the house person's hidden subconscious desires and shadow energy. The house person is magnetically attracted to Lilith energy. Lilith dominates (dark feminines) can feel seen, accepted, understood and empowered. If the house person is not Lilith dominate they may feel exposed, raw and triggered by the illicit and carnal feelings Lilith evokes in them. Hidden or repressed feelings of jealousy, anger, possessiveness, obsession, and passion may be activated in the house person.
Chiron in the 12th House- the house person's wounds may be triggered to be healed, there is a deep spiritual connection to the Chiron person, who may help the house person overcome wounds connected to their natal Chiron at a soul level. Chiron can feel called to help or heal the house person. This can be a deeply empathetic relationship, activating unconditional love in both individuals.
Ascendant in the 12th House- the Ascendants very presence can have a profound effect on the house person subconsciously. The house person can be sensitive to the Ascendants energetic shifts. They may unconsciously absorb their energy and can have trouble distinguishing the difference. This is a strong telepathic energetic connection that can trigger the house person's spiritual ascension and or activate dormant spiritual gifts.
Fortune in the 12th House- This placement points to powerful spiritual alignment and evolution for the house person as a result of this connection as well as healing and clearing of past and current lifetime subconscious blockages and trauma imprinted on the soul. Fortune can also be a guide and a healer, who awakens the house person to their purpose and their untapped gifts.
Vertex in 12th House- the "point of fate" being in the 12 house point to a connection that is divinely guided and protected. There is an important lesson(s) that are conducive to the house person's path. The house person will never be the same as a result of this connection or brief encounter. The house person can feel a strong sense of fate and intuitively know they were meant to meet the Vertex person.
MC in the 12th House- the MC person may illuminate or enhance the house person's spiritual path and gifts. The MC and house person may have a divine purpose for being together, as the house person may inspire the MC to find a higher purpose on their path in healing or collective community endeavors that are good for the mind, body and spirit rather than just financial gain. The house person could be a spiritual guide or healer to the MC person, or someone they go to for metaphysical support. They could be a counselor or therapist or someone who knows the MC's secrets or parts of themselves that is not known or shown to the general public or peers. The house person could be private confidante, that the MC relies on for support in private or business matters.
Juno in the 12th house- the house person can feel a deep "soul tie" and devotion towards Juno and feel like they have found their soul mate or divine counterpart. This is a 5D (Divine) connection that transcends time and space. The house person's unconditional love and ability to look past the actions of the physical is immeasurable. This connection is psychic, telepathic and empathic. The house person may have a hard time setting energetic boundaries and may feel lost without Juno and may grow codependent. The house person and Juno may also have a secret or private affair or relationship that may be hidden from the public, friends, or family.
Eros in the 12th house- This 5D (Divine) connection has the house person is caught in Eros erotic web. Eros awakens the house person's untapped desires, at a subconscious level. They can feel a strong spiritual and physical connection to Eros in the bedroom and may dream or fantasize about them constantly. This is a excellent placement for tantric manifestation and Kundalini activation for the house person.
Amor in the 12th House- the house person may obsessed or deeply in love with Amor but does not show or express it. They may have a hard time expressing their feelings or feel ashamed or exposed around Amor. They may dream or fantasize about their connection and may idealize or put Amor on a pedestal. They may feel like they have met their soul mate or that their connection is written in the stars (Divine) or fated. They can love Amor unconditionally and be extremely sensitive to energetic shifts in their energy.
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Fortuna (19)* Fate, Luck, Karmic Wheel
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Enterprise (9777)* Career, Business
Gold (33076)* Wealth, Success
Destinn (6583)* Fate, Destiny, Destined Path, Soul Purpose
Fama (408)* Fame, Popularity, Spotlight
Tyche (258)* Luck, Fortune, Prosperity
Midas (1981)* Success, Value, Good Luck
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Enterprise (9777) trine/conjunct Saturn
Gold (33076) conjunct MC*
Destinn (6583) conjunct MC**
Fama (408) conjunct MC*
Fama (408) conjunct Fortuna (19)
Tyche (258) conjunct Pluto 💰
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Yes, the dreaded and beguiled 12th house (Neptune) ruled by Pisces is the planet of all things spiritual, otherworldly, and divine love. It is the higher octave of Venus because of it's connection to soul mates and unconditional love and devotion, because it is the soul of person that envelopes us. In it's lower octave (which is the default) it is the planet of deception, illusions, delusions, and secrets. After reviewing countless charts these are my personal observations of how the 12th house plays out in each planet in the synastry chart.
Sun in the 12th house- The house person may not see the Sun person for who they really are, may be disillusioned about them or project attributes or energy onto them they don't carry.
Moon in the 12th house- The house person may feel or intuitively sense that the Moon person is holding back emotionally. The Moon person may have a hard time expressing themselves or being emotionally vulnerable in the connection, the house person may not know how the Moon feels about them or the connection.
Mercury in the 12th house-The house person may hear what they want to hear or may not get clarity on some things they may discover down the line. There can be secrets or things that are hidden from the house person. There could also be lies told or fabrications of the truth.
Venus/Saturn in the 12th house- Venus/Saturn could be keeping the house person a secret, the connection could be hidden or not out in the open. The house person could be confused about the state of the connection or where it is going. Venus/Saturn in the 12th is usually seen in casual relationships, flings, situationships, friends with benefits, sneaky links and affairs, or where one partner is involved with another person(s) and is not being honest about it with the house person.
Mars in the 12th house- Often called the house of hidden enemies in Mars. The house person may not be fully aware of Mars motives, or there could be deception in order to get needs met. The Mars person may be a wolf in sheep's clothing or may be hiding behind a good girl/guy persona, while they are the complete opposite. Usually the house person finds out too late that the Mars person is not the knight in shining armor but a nightmare.
Uranus in the 12th house- Uranus person may appear illusive, can be distant or seem out of reach, there could be sudden ghosting or periods of separation, when closeness is desired by the house person. Uranus unpredictable nature can trigger unresolved abandonment wounds in the house person.
Neptune/Jupiter in the 12th house*- The house person may feel like they have met their person or feel like the connection is meant to be or fated. They can feel as though they have met them before in another life or like the relationship is written in the stars. The house person may feel like they have a telepathic connection with the Neptune/Jupiter person. They can be very forgiving on the Neptune/Jupiter person or feel unconditional love for them no matter what. This connection may blur the lines between what is real and what the house person projecting onto the Neptune/Jupiter person, as they may have a hard time seeing them for who or what they really are.
Pluto in the 12th house- The house person may be constantly triggered by the Pluto person until they undergo the necessary shadow work needed to evolve, the placement is very karmic and spiritual and trigger "The Dark Night of the Soul" for the house person. The Pluto person may mirror back all of the house person's unresolved or unhealed fears and insecurities. The house person can feel heavily bound to Pluto. They can feel vulnerable and exposed in the connection.
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When one partner repeatedly ghosts, breadcrumbs, is hot and cold, have one foot in and one foot out, out of fear of rejection, vulnerability, commitment or loss of freedom and autonomy, they are considered a runner. When the other partner pushes for communication, connection, and applies pressure to the runner, they are considered a chaser. Chasing can be energetic which includes, constantly mentally ruminating over the runner's actions, last conversation and interaction, imagining scenarios of reconciliation, checking for signs and synchronicities, checking their phone for missed calls or text messages. Constantly talking about the runner to family, and or friends, getting/watching tarot or synastry readings about the runners current actions or the future of the connection, constantly calling and texting even when you get no response or when response is sporadic. This is different from limerence where the connection is imaginary, because the runner and chaser may actually BE in a relationship with one another, regardless of popular opinion, if you have been involved physically, and have emotional attachment to one another even if it is not spoken, it is still considered a relationship, however serious or unserious one or both parties consider it to be. Physical and emotional attachment is still a energetic contract and still valid and the laws of relational karma still apply. Runners may start to chase once they sense the chaser energetically detaching which results in a push pull dynamic that can be neverending if Saturn is in hard aspect in the chart. Runners do not run in every connection they are in, which is why I am not going to apply this to the natal chart. I have post for non committal placements but right now I am focusing on the synastry because different connections bring out different energies in us based off of the aspects the chart. Certain aspects to our planets can invoke either the runner or chaser in us all. I have been on both sides of this. If you feel you are in a runner/chaser dynamic and you are the chaser, it is because your persons rejection may be triggering something within you that has to do with abandonment and trying to rewrite a past story that has happened that we do not want to happen again, but the emotions that it brings up for you is the what really needs to be worked through. If that is not the case they may be triggering how you truly feel about yourself, as you may tie your self worth to how you are treated, or seen by others. You may be chasing approval or have a need to feel chosen to feel valid. For most of us it is both of these things. If you are the runner, the connection to this person may make you feel exposed or vulnerable, the feelings they bring up within you may make you uncomfortable so you may pull away to regain the upper hand or a sense of control. You may have been abandoned yourself and or feel so deeply for the chaser that you fear their abandonment, so you do it first. You may feel unworthy of their love and devotion and it may bring up questions of how worthy you are of being loved. You may have secrets, or things that you are ashamed of or feel like the chaser may judge you for or may not approve of, or leave you for. You may feel like if you keep your distance, you can control the pace, outcome and intensity of the connection. The one thing that the chaser and runner have in common is that they both want: CONTROL. Runner/Chaser dynamics are intense especially if there are oppositions because the energy tends to flip, and the roles reverse where the Chaser becomes the Runner, these are the Breakup to Makeup dynamics. Below are a few of the aspects I have noticed studying countless charts, with this dynamic. Per usual look at the condition of you and your partners charts and their aspects separately before looking at the synastry.
Sun opposite/square Venus
Sun opposite/square Uranus Synastry/Composite
Venus conjunct/opposite/square Pluto
Venus conjunct/opposite/square Lilith
Venus opposite/square Uranus Synastry/Composite
Venus opposite/square Neptune Synastry/Composite
Mars opposite/square Neptune
Mars conjunct/opposite/square Pluto Synastry/Composite
Mars opposite/square Moon
Mars opposite/square Lilith
Mars opposite/square Uranus
Mars opposite/square Saturn
Pluto opposite/square Sun
Uranus 2nd/4th/7th House Synastry/Composite
Moon conjunct/opposite/square Uranus
Saturn 4th/7th/8th House Synastry/Composite
Pluto 7th/8th/12th House Synastry/Composite
Neptune 7th/8th/12 House Synastry/Composite
North Node in the 4th/8th/12th House Synastry/Composite
The majority of runners are not conscious of their behavior and the damage it causes to their person or the connection, they are just reacting and playing their part in the story the stars have written. If they were self aware they would see they are just running from themselves, their own feelings, their own shadow. Usually the chaser stops chasing when they have been triggered to heal what caused them to chase in the first place. That's when the energetic cord snaps and the runner no longer has the same control over the dynamic. The runner always runs back because the intent is never to stay away, it is to ground themselves and regain control. Once that is taken away, they are just left with themselves, the fear of what they ran from in the first place which is abandonment becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. But instead of leaning into what this is triggering and try to heal it, they begin to chase and the chaser who by then is awakened to the toxicity of the runners ways, runs from the connection, if the chaser takes the runner back, the runner will just run again, especially if they have not healed what caused them to run in the first place. They are not coming back because they have finally chosen the chaser or realized how much the chaser or the connection meant to them, they are coming back to feel in control again. If they can win back the chaser this validates that for them. Understand and overstand, it is chess not checkers. It is only a game if two people are playing. To no longer be the pawn you must remove yourself from the board, energetically, mentally, emotionally and physically. A dynamic where you have to wonder where you stand and makes you question your worth is not built to last or sustainable, what it is, is a lesson.
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Madison 🕊️✨
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We all know the couple who is always on a break or in separation but cannot stay away from one another and always seems to come back together. I will list a few of the aspects to look for in synastry and explain why the connection is so hard to break away from.
Sun square Mars- This aspect causes magnetic physical attraction (Mars) and power struggles (Sun), this the couple that is always arguing or throwing each other under the bus in one way or another. From the outside looking in you would think they are opponents and not partners. Mars (Aries) is how we fight and assert ourselves and the Sun (Leo) is our ego and personal power. This aspect is the definition of "Toxic". Breaking up and making up is par for the course with these two, as they both are not willing to back down. Because Mars and the Sun are both masculine planets and in fire, it is hard for things to cool down once they get heated.
Venus opposite/square Uranus - Venus (Libra/Taurus) is the planet of love and romance and Uranus (Aquarius) is the planet of freedom, upheaval, sudden and events and what is unconventional. (Opposition) The connection may have started suddenly for both individuals or come at a time when both were not ready or looking for a connection. The connection can be unconventional somehow, and may have a push/pull dynamic, where each has one foot in or one foot out at some point or another during the connection, causing a Hot and Cold dynamic. There can be periods of separation, could be days, weeks or months of not seeing or speaking to one another. There maybe obstacles or timing issues that get in the way of them fully coming together. With the opposition that couple has to actively choose one another, in order for the connection to sustain. (Square) The connection could have started off suddenly or moved very quickly. Uranus can be reluctant to fully commit to Venus, causing a push/pull, hot and cold dynamic due to commit issues or just wanting to be free. Venus can grow frustrated with Uranus and walk away from the connection, causing Uranus to chase them only to repeat the same behavior time and time again, there could be timing issues or they could have cultural, religious or personality differences that get in the way of the connection. The connection could be a affair, sneaky link, friends with benefits, situationship or casual encounter. The square makes magnetic pull hard to ignore and or walk away from. When the opposition is in the composite chart, the couple has a choice and has the option to stabilize, when it is in a square the connection may not be sustainable for the long term. The connection may be short lived and a lesson to be learned by both.
Mars square Mars- This dynamic causes explosive passion and can also be volatile as well. Strong physical and magnetic attraction but a connection where there are power struggles and ego battles. They have a different way of going about getting what they want, as Mars (Aries) is the planet of assertion, and taking action, so they do not always agree and each feel like their way of doing things is the right course of action. This connection tends to be on again off again. Because they can’t seem to stay away from one another.
Pluto opposite/square Ascendant/Sun- The Pluto (Scorpio) person mirrors back all of the things the Sun person does not want illuminated. The Sun (Leo) is connected to our ego (Solar Plexus Chakra) and how we view ourselves, Pluto is our shadow energy and the ugly parts of ourselves that we do not want to face or try to conceal. This connection energetically activates both individuals, the attraction is magnetic and triggering, there can be jealousy, possessiveness and power struggles on both sides with the (Opposition) but Pluto has the upper hand because they are the transformer, the Sun unconsciously knows this and will run from the connection, sabotage, or distance themselves but they always tend to come back as the chemistry and physical connection cannot be matched with anyone else. This creates a push/pull, runner/chaser dynamic that is ongoing until one or both individuals walk away, usually after the karmic contract is fulfilled or the lesson is learned.
Mars opposite/square Uranus- (Opposition) With Mars (Aries) being ruled by fire and Uranus (Aquarius) being ruled by air, this makes the chemistry in this connection explosive. As neither of these individuals will or can be controlled, but Mars will still try. Uranus does not conform, is autonomous and likes their freedom. In this connection the energy seems to flip back and forth in a game of cat and mouse, push pull, off and on. One may purposely pull away and avoid the other just to get a reaction. Arguments and discord may be foreplay. With the (Square) the energy is less fun and games, Mars can be pushy, forceful and controlling toward the Uranus person, and in turn the Uranus person may pull away or distance themselves from Mars, fueling the chase even more. Once at a safe distance and Uranus feels the fire has simmered they may allow Mars to come back into their energy only for Mars to revert back to their ways and Uranus to retreat again. Mars may want commitment, or control or both and Uranus just wants the passion.
Mars square Lilith- Mars (Aries) is magnetically, and physically attracted to the Lilith person’s energy and vice versa. Lilith is our raw, untamed feminine energy, she will not be controlled and will not bow down. This causes power struggles and discord between these two as a result. This connection tends to be on again off again. Mars person tries to control the Lilith person and cannot which results in frustration, Lilith may run away from Mars person only to be relentlessly pursued (Knight of Wands) and drawn back in.
Venus conjunct/opposite Lilith- (Conjunction) Venus (Libra/Taurus) person’s love limits are tested in this connection, with Venus being obsessed with pinning down and possessing their muse. They are chained and bound to Lilith and captivated by her elusive nature. She is the forbidden fruit. It drives them crazy but they cannot get enough. (Opposition) The obsession goes both ways, but Lilith can be manipulative of Venus and may hide her true feelings and obsession. This is even more magnetic than conjunction where the magnetic pull feels unavoidable. This may cause a push pull off and on dynamic between Venus and Lilith, as they both struggle to understand what they are feeling and why they both cannot stay away.
Moon square Uranus- The Moon person's moods or vulnerability can be too much for the Uranus person. The Uranus person can not be as emotionally invested but energetically siphons off of the Moon's emotions, but does not emotionally invest back into the connection, at least not the way the Moon feel's they should. The Uranus person although exciting and enticing is emotionally, distant or unavailable. This triggers the Moon's abandonment issues and Uranus's issues around commitment and investment. This connection tends to be off and on, as both individuals cannot let go of the connection (because it is a square of course) as there are lessons to learn here regarding child hood wounding and the shadow (Moon) and learning vulnerability and how your actions or lack thereof has lasting and karmic effects (Uranus).
Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars in the 8th house- The 8th house is ruled by Pluto (Scorpio) and tends to invoke intense obsession and fixation on the planet person. The ironic thing about this placement is that the feelings are usually one sided and unrequited. The planet feels the magnetic irresistible pull of Pluto, but if they do not share the same intense placements although they like Pluto's attention and devotion it can be triggering and off putting, causing this connection to be on again off again, because the planet person comes off hot and cold. When the planet person pulls away this only makes Pluto want to apply more pressure. It is a hard connection to walk away from and is not casual although the planet person will try to convince themselves that it is.
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Madison
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Having someone's Mars in your 8th house can make you obsessive and highly physically attracted to the planet person. If you are a feminine and the planet is masculine it can put you in a "chaser" energy. You can feel like you are pursuing the planet person.
King of Wands/Knight of Wands (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius) in the tarot can indicate someone maybe non committal or for the streets. It gives here for a good time not a long time energy.
Mars/Ascendant* hard aspects in synastry are there to teach the Mars person restraint and self control and show where the Ascendant person needs to speak up and or assert their boundaries, to protect their body and energy.
Conjunctions in synastry are considered hard aspects because it is a blending of both individuals energy to become one, but when one person is out of alignment this throws the connection. Conjunctions give more "free will" to individuals to either make it work or walk away.
The Moon in the tarot as feelings point to hidden emotions, fears or things unspoken, since the Moon is ruled by Cancer, they could be hiding their true feelings.
Mercury not only rules the 3rd House (Gemini) of communication but also the 6th house (Virgo) of daily routine, so harsh mercury aspects in synastry also point to disagreements on how the other lives their life, there could be nitpicking on how they cook, clean or drive their car.
4 of pentacles in a finances reading can point to having a scarcity mindset or stinginess when it comes to money. In a love reading it can indicate holding back feelings, or holding on if the connection has ended depending on the clarifying cards.
Cancer Sun's and Risings are more nurturing and empathetic, than Cancer Moon's, since the Moon is our innermost emotions, Cancer Moon's tend to hide their emotions and struggle with outward vulnerability. This energy is amplified because the Moon is in it's home sign of Cancer. (Tarot Card: The Moon-talks of what is hidden, as well as a vast flow of emotional energy that is repressed.)
When you pull the Judgement card in a separation reading, it means that the connection is under karmic review by Saturn (Capricorn) and or the Divine.
Masculine's with Aries Ascendant tend to come across as competitive and arrogant, they are self serving and have a me first attitude. They can also be aggressive and need to regularly engage in physical activity (exercise and or sports) to temper their energy.
Page of Pentacles and The Magician in a reading point to energy manipulation.
Pluto square North Node in the natal means your life is not easy and there will be many rebirths, transformations and adversaries along your path toward your North Node.
8 of Wands in the reverse can point to blocked movement or energetic blockages and feeling stuck. (Mars square Saturn)
Venus in the 7th house in your Solar Return or Profection chart can point to a very significant relationship forming or meeting your soul mate.
In Pluto opposite Sun synastry the Pluto person is teaching the partner how to evolve the attitude of "me" into "we", as the Sun has issues with ego, pride and selfishness that needs to be transformed. it is a hard lesson in partnership and a bond that can only be released by Pluto.
Moon in the 11th house ruled by (Aquarius) in the natal can indicate a person who gets fulfillment by being a part of a social group or helping the collective. They may be activists, healers and or teachers. They can blend in easily and their friends may be from various backgrounds, cultures and religions.
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Madison 🕊️✨
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hi 👋 i know people typically only refer to conjunctions when talking about nodal synastry but what if her north node was trine my sun and south node sextile my sun while my north node was sextile her sun and south node trine her sun? and her north node is in my 8th house
People prefer conjunctions because they are more felt, and cause more of a magnetic pull than a sextile and a trine. So trines and sextiles tend to get minimized, over the harder aspects for this reason, but they are still important, it causes an ease and natural flow of the planetary energies that get minimized by the harsher aspects in the chart like the oppositions and squares. Depending on how many sextiles and trines are present and the personal planets they are aspecting on either side, like the Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Saturn and Ascendant, also taking into account the signs and house placements the energy will hold space for the connection during periods of friction in the connection. Because the North and South Node are our past and our future, in reference to your connection specifically, the Sun being connected to the both of your sense of self, ego and vitality, the connection will be one of support and ease when moving toward your soul's purpose this lifetime (North Node) which is continuing from a past life connection (South Node). Her North Node in your 8th house points to her role as being a transformer in your life. This connection will trigger a transformation within you and you will not be the same as a result, because of this you will be pushed further towards your soul's purpose. Just because it is not a harsh aspect does not mean the transformation will be easy or welcome energetically, as the 8th house can be triggering for individuals who do not have 8th house placements natally. 8th house is ruled by Pluto (Scorpio) and is the house of transformation, merging of the physical body and finances, sex, obsession and the shadow.
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Hi!
How to build a healthy and not secret relationship with Aries Venus in the 12th house?
(In synastry) Transparency on both sides. The 12th house ruled by Neptune doesn't just indicate what is hidden, it is also connected to our unconscious behaviors, ideals, and illusions and how they are projected onto the other person and or the connection. The planet person should be aware of their motivations for entering into the connection, and the house person should practice discernment, ask questions, and assert boundaries where necessary to prevent feeling "taken advantage of or taken for granted". As lines can get crossed and boundaries tend to get blurry with this aspect. (In natal) Aries Venus (Knight of Wands) tend to lead with their passion (Ace of Wands), and may not think of the consequences of getting attached or getting physical too soon. That is the shadow of Aries Venus, when they want someone they can be hasty, impatient, lustful and relentless. Aries Venus in the 12th house may project their desires or desired outcome onto the other person. Connections may seem "meant to be", "fated" or "spiritual". Venus fire signs are very attractive, and can also attract individuals who like to "go with the flow", "just have a good time", and or "not looking for anything serious". So with this aspect honesty and open communication about expectations and whether or not commitment is the goal is non negotiable to avoid any illusions or disillusionment.
Note: Please look at the natal chart to see how Aries Venus is aspected look for hard and soft aspects, and pay attention to Venus transits. Recommended apps for real time transits are: AstroMatrix and TimePassages.
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Fatal attraction aspects tend to invoke intense triggering, emotional responses, obsessive tendencies, jealousy, delusions and possessiveness. Individuals with these aspects in the natal chart tend to continuously attract highly karmic or toxic connections. People tend to either love them or hate them, or sometimes both (Venus square Mars). Some of these aspects have a great deal of relationship karma to work through this lifetime. These relationships can be emotionally and physically volatile but necessary for the individuals growth. The connections tend to involve themes around learning how to set boundaries, self love, selfishness, sacrifice, and emotional vulnerability. Our choice in partners at any given time show how evolved we are as individuals mentally spiritually and emotionally, when we choose partners who neglect us, or when we convince ourselves to neglect ourselves for our partnerships, the result is a hard love lesson. (Venus square North Node) Getting a synastry reading at beginning stages of a connection can show us what energetic pitfalls may lie ahead. Not to scare or deter us, but to help bring awareness. When we know what is ahead it takes away the energy and we are empowered to make different choices and navigate our responses. People with abandonment wounding and issues with self worth have fragile egos may crash out when rejected or when they perceive they have been taken advantage of, and can be vengeful (Scorpio Moon, Mercury). On the flip side, certain planetary aspects like Pluto and Neptune can bring out energies a person never knew existed within them, as Pluto brings out our energetic shadows and lower vibrational energies, (Mars/Venus opposite/square Pluto) and Neptune can make someone blind to the nuances of their partnership. (Neptune opposite/square Venus).
Venus square Mars (natal/synastry)- in the natal this aspect tends to attract partners who are toxic or volatile. They mistake toxicity and possessiveness for passion and dedication. They tend to jump into physical connections rather quickly and they tend to end just as fast. In synastry this aspect indicates a highly magnetic physical attraction that may have started off physical very quickly. There may be arguments, power struggles and the couple may be off and on.
Pluto square Mars (natal/synastry)- In the natal this person may meet people who are constantly challenging them and testing their limits. Because Mars is the physical body, physical altercations that result in bodily injury to themselves or someone else is likely. In synastry there can be magnetic physical attraction, obsession, possessiveness, power struggles, as well as verbal, and or physical altercations.
Pluto square Venus (natal/synastry)- In the natal chart this person may be attracted to toxic or low vibrational partnerships, they want their partners to be obsessed with them as they are just as obsessive, they want all or nothing, and will use their sxxxual energy to manipulate their partner if they have to to get what they want. In synastry Pluto can be highly obsessed and possessive of the Venus person. If the relationship is physically consummated and then Venus pulls away, ghosts or tries to walk away because of Pluto's intensity things can get ugly really fast, as Pluto's shadow energy is then activated.
Pluto opposite/square Sun (synastry)- The Pluto person is magnetically attracted to the Sun person's energy and light, once the connection is physically consummated, Pluto's obsessive, possessive energy is activated. In the opposition the obsession can go both ways.
Lilith opposite/square Mars (natal/synastry) Lilith may attract obsessive, possessive and controlling partners. People that want to challenge or dominate. Connections can be volatile or tumultuous. Stalking from current or ex partners and strangers can be a thing as well. In synastry there will be power struggles, passion and a push pull dynamic between Lilith and Mars. With the Mars person asserting their dominance in the connection and Lilith constantly pushing back, this may lead to verbal or physical altercations.
The dark feminine is intimidating and exudes mystery and energetic sexual magnetism that brings shadow energy to the light in those around them. They evoke strong volatile responses in women and visceral primal responses in men. They do not have to do or say anything it is their presence alone that causes this. Her energy is untamed and unapologetic. She does not apologize or bend and will not compromise. She is seen as forbidden fruit or unattainable even within her intimate connections, although the dark feminine energy is carried whether in connection or not. I am going to speak on the most dynamic placements.
Lilith opposite/square Ascendant- She is seen as physically alluring, men and women can project "304" energy onto her, she can be seen as stuck up, unapproachable, or standoffish, as the Ascendant (Rising) sign is connected to the physical body (1st house), how we show up, and our Aura. She can invoke jealousy in other women because of the attention or and primal or visceral reactions she get's from men, even if she is not considered (collectively) conventionally attractive or pretty. She can be viewed as xxxy no matter what she wears and may view herself (in her youth) as unattractive or not good enough and or not recognize her own power energetically. She may attract obsessive partners or stalkers.
Lilith opposite/square Sun- She is a rebellious, and can be egotistical, as the Sun (Leo) is connected to our self worth and our ego. Her all or nothing attitude can be the first impression you get of her. There are power struggles with authority figures, or when she feels she is pushed in a corner or forced to conform.
Lilith opposite/square Mars-She tends to attract men that are abrasive, pushy or selfish, they can be controlling and demanding, as Mars (Aries) is the planet of taking action, assertion, aggression and our xxx drive. If these men have their Mars in a fire sign this energy may result in physical altercations or threatening behavior. Her rebelliousness can be triggering to a masculine who is egotistical, insecure or jealous.
Lilith opposite/square Venus- There is a contradiction between her desire for harmony and partnership and her need for freedom and autonomy. She may seek out non committal or unavailable partners. She may unconsciously sabotage her romantic connections. She is the epitome of "forbidden fruit", she is the "dark divine feminine" in the flesh. She is viewed as attractive, xxxy, and alluring with a hint of mystery. She may struggle with boundaries and may confuse lust with love, she is viewed as seductive and intense, but may struggle with trust or vulnerability in connections.
Lilith square Saturn- She is at odds with embracing her authentic self or conforming to social and community pressure, this manifest as a need to preserve a "good girl" image projected and expected by her family. She could have a strong religious upbringing or affluent family linage. She can be judged or outcast for not fitting into the cookie cutter mold of how a feminine should be or act. There can be shame around sexuality, and pressure to conform. She can attract masculine's who are drawn in by her energy but try to control and restrict her in an effort to humble her or dim her light. Her partners can be jealous, possessive, controlling and insecure.
Lilith in Scorpio or Lilith in 8th House- She is drawn to esoteric or metaphysical practices, she may also be magnetically attracted to problematic relationships or people who need healing or saving. She is naturally a healer and is not afraid of her shadow or the shadows of others. Which may draw in lovers who are wounded, have addictions or obsessive. She can also be obsessive and possessive in her dynamics.
Lilith conjunct/opposite/square MC (10th House)- She has a dynamic energy and draws attention wherever she goes, the 10th house is connected to the career and public so she may not fit into societal norms, she may work for herself or create a business where she is able to utilize her talents and express her individuality. She is the "it" girl, everyone is drawn to her and curious about who she or who she is with. People may gossip about her or project their insecurities onto her. She may have a huge following on social media or public platforms. Her relationships and or private life may be on public display and she may use her xxx appeal to garner attention and for monetization. She may be a healer, tarot reader, astrologer or a high priestess.
This post is for those hopeful and optimistic romantics out there who would like to share their life and world with their SP someday, or would like to know what aspects to look for in synastry and composite that point to the "potential" for marriage. The synastry and composite chart show you the energy available and what the two of you can manifest in time. In marriage synastry you want to see Saturn aspecting the Moon (4th House) and or Venus (7th House) in soft or hard aspect. I did not include less romantic planets like Mercury (3rd House) and Mars (1st House) although they are just as important. Communication and physical compatibility get over looked a lot, and does not become a concern until verge of separation. Here are the aspects below. I have included asteroids as they are just as important and valid in the compatibility charts and tend to be over looked. I used the word "potential" as the aspects listed below in retrospect do not guarantee a proposal or a happy marriage. But are considered favorable for marriage in my very humble opinion. Always reference the signs and house placements for more clarity. 🪽
Sun/Moon/Venus/Jupiter in 7th House Synastry/Composite
Note: Immaturity, selfishness and wounding can keep one or both individuals from being able to see what is in front of them and what is possible. A person can only give us what they can give themselves and that reflects where they are spiritually, mentally and emotionally at the time. I do not recommend waiting on anyone (because of synastry/composite aspects) to see your worth or the connection for what it is, life is for the living, trust that if long term commitment is fated that the "wheel of fortune" will turn and attempt to bring you back together a few more times, in the future. What's meant for you will never pass you by, and that includes connections. Detachment from all outcomes is key in Divine Timing, and as with all fated/karmic connections it is three strikes your out. After the third attempt the contract is null and void. It's up to the both of you to value the importance of the connection to one another, make the relationship work and keep it together. Saturn in the 7th house in synastry and the composite indicate a delay in marriage or committing due to the Saturn person's reservations or prior commitments. There may be long bouts of separation before the couple actually comes together. Mars in the 7th house in synastry and the composite indicates a connection that may have started off quickly and passionate, the house person may want to rush commitment or settle down and the Mars person maybe focused on the physical chemistry and not ready for serious commitment. This can also indicate a connection where there is a lot of discord, and power struggles. Marriages that contain hard North Node aspects tend to have a tumultuous union especially if North Node is square Venus, Moon, Mars, Mercury, or Saturn. If there is a fair amount of soft aspects to Venus and the Moon this may balance the energy but does not eradicate the tension of the square. The only thing that can do that is self awareness, grace, patience and understanding. Remember you attracted this connection for a reason the universe makes no mistakes there are lessons to be learned on both sides. 💍✨
(Tarot) 10 of cups, 10 of Pentacles, 2 of Cups, The Hierophant, King of Pentacles
A Neptunian relationship, is a recent title that practical astrologers use to describe relationships that feel divine and fated and or have multiple hard and soft Neptune placements in the synastry chart. Note: All of our significant relationships are fated. You may see multiple Neptune placements in soft and hard aspect to personal planets, in the charts of unrequited, twin flame, and limerence connections. Because there is a high level of idealization, projection and confusion. Neptune is the higher octave of Venus, it is the planet of all things spiritual and higher unconditional love. Dreamy seven of cups, energy. As it rules the 12th house (Pisces) of illusion, delusions, and what is hidden from us. Neptune is also connected to the Crown Chakra which is our connection to our higher selves and the spirit world. A lot of Neptune is not bad as long as there are grounding aspects and both individuals are honest with themselves and each other about the connection. Disillusionment, heartbreak and betrayal happen when boundaries are not set and or respected and intentions on both sides are not clear. This especially true with Mars/Venus opposite/square Neptune. There can also be a high level of telepathy and emotional empathy in these connections as well, and it can be hard for one or both individuals to walk away and or stay away from the connection. Individual with placements to Mars/Venus/Neptune in the natal chart may be prone to and or unconsciously seek out Neptunian connections, and some are more comfortable with the idea and fantasy of the interaction than the actual reality. They may choose to ignore the red flags and choose to focus only the best in their person, they will only focus on the potential of their person or the connection rather than the present. They feel like the connection is meant to be and they have found their soul mate, and if they are patient, loving and supportive that everything will work out. This is where the unconditional love comes in. Some individuals (not all) may endure and tolerate a lot in the name of love. Unrequited love, ghosting, bread crumbing and third party situations are also common in Neptunian themed relationships. These connections are deemed karmic because of the karmic lessons and debt that gets attached to the person who is taking the other for granted or being disingenuous. Because of the high level of emotional and psychic sensitivity in these connections transparency, communication and knowing where each of you stand emotionally and mentally is important. These conversations maybe uncomfortable for some, but the discomfort, turmoil and potential karmic debt accrued down the line from not providing or having clarity on the connection is far worse. When these individuals are hopeful and the Neptune person is not clear but says things like, "maybe, one day, not right now, I am not sure, This leaves the door open and feeds the delusion. Even if the intention is to not hurt them this can be considered, "leading them on". Strong boundaries and clear words and actions are very important. I will list below the aspects that may be prone to unrequited, one sided or Neptunian connections in the natal and synastry. This list is subjective, signs and house placements in the natal and synastry should be considered. ✨
In her natal chart Sade Adu has Venus Square Neptune (4°36’, Separating) "This aspect may create a longing for perfect love, which can lead to confusing or idealized relationship dynamics. These individuals are often highly imaginative, sensitive, and creative, but they may need to stay mindful of distinguishing fantasy from reality in matters of the heart. Their artistic talents are considerable, and they often find deep emotional expression through creativity. With gentle self-awareness, they can bring great beauty and empathy into their connections." (Astroseek)
Neptune conjunct/opposite/square Venus-(Synastry) The Venus person is unable to see the connection for what it is, maybe delusional about Neptune's true intentions or feelings for them. Will only see Neptune's protentional as a partner. Neptune could be lying to them about their relationship status, finances or true intentions. Could be using Venus for ego boost, place holder or finances. The Venus person can find it hard to detach from the Neptune person and or the delusions regarding the connection. They can feel like Neptune is their soul mate, and or twin flame. (Natal) Venus over idolizes partners who's Neptune is opposite or square their Venus, and only see's potential. May attract partners who are deceptive, or disingenuous. May attract partners who see them as naive, push overs, gullible, or a easy lick. Idolizes romance and happily ever after over reality.
Neptune conjunct/opposite/square Moon-(Synastry) The Moon person may feel overly emotionally connected to the Neptune person, may be unable to distinguish their emotions from Neptune. Can become emotionally codependent on the Neptune person. It can be hard for the Moon person to walk away. (Natal) May take on the emotions of those around them or the environment.
Neptune opposite/square Mars- (Synastry) Mars uses manipulative or calculated means (7 of swords) to attract or get the Neptune person. Mars is so focused on Neptune and getting what they want, they may act aggressively or recklessly. Maybe relentless in their pursuit of the Neptune person, may not see Neptune for who they really are, because they are lustful, and only focused on getting what they want or their needs met. (Natal) Acting on impulse due because of strong intuition, attracts partners that are deceptive or potentially harmful to their physical body.
Neptune opposite/square Sun- (Synastry) The Sun person can be either too trusting of Neptune or not be able to trust them at all. The Sun person can feel like the Neptune person is hiding things, secretive or being disingenuous. Or can be completely in the dark of the Neptune person's motives. The Sun person may also project qualities that are not there or see only the good in the Neptune person. The Neptune person may try to live up to the ideals or projections that have been placed on them. This connection is highly spiritual in soft and hard aspect. (Natal) Has a hard time staying grounded, confused about life path, and does not see their worth and value. Takes on other's ideals and projections of them. Seeks validation outside of self. (with Oppositions the energy can go either way, flip flop or partners can mirror one another.)
Venus/Neptune in the 4th, 8th, 12th House- (Synastry) The planet person can feel like home to the 4th house person, can be triggered by child hood issues with abandonment, or self worth, 8th house person's obsessive, possessive, jealous, and untapped xxxual energy can be activated. 12 House person can be delusional about the planet person and the connection. They can be in dark about planet person's motivations.
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Madison 🪽
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