i sometimes masturbate, and i find that penetration like fingering doesnt make me feel anything at all, only clit stimulation. is this normal? am i doing something wrong? i also find it hard to get aroused
It’s completely okay to not like fingering, or feeling like it doesn’t do much for you. Most people with vaginas and vulvas prefer clit stimulation over penetration (although not everybody and that’s fine too).
When you find it hard to get aroused, do you mean it like getting into the right headspace, or more physically aroused? Both take practice to get right, and especially with physical arousal it may take time depending on a lot of things.