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"Ren," Max began, clearing his throat. "You look beautiful today."

"I.. Max... Thank you?" she was confused by his compliment, she had on the helmet helmet she always wore

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[ Your account is the bee's knees. You're really the cats pyjamas. I love you.] - Maxiehux

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http://www.helpguide.org/articles/personality-disorders/helping-someone-with-borderline-personality-disorder.htm

What you need to know about BPD People with borderline personality disorder (BPD) tend to have major difficulties with relationships, especially with those closest to them. The wild mood swings, angry outbursts, chronic abandonment fears, and impulsive and irrational behaviors can leave loved ones feeling helpless, abused, and off balance. Partners and family members of people with BPD often say it’s like being on an emotional roller coaster with no end in sight. You may feel like you’re at the mercy of your loved one’s BPD symptoms—trapped unless you leave the relationship or the person takes steps to get better. But you have more power than you think. You can change the relationship by managing your own reactions, establishing firm limits, and improving communication between the two of you. There’s no magic cure but with the right treatment and support, many people with BPD can and do get better and their relationships can become more stable and rewarding. In fact, patients with the most support and stability at home tend to get better sooner than those whose relationships are more chaotic and insecure. Whether it’s your partner, parent, child, sibling, friend, or other loved one, you can improve both the relationship and your own quality of life, even if the person with BPD isn’t ready to acknowledge the problem or seek treatment. Learning all you can about BPD If your loved one has borderline personality disorder, it’s important to recognize that he or she is suffering. The destructive and hurtful behaviors are a reaction to deep emotional pain. In other words, they’re not about you. When your loved one does or says something hurtful towards you, understand that the behavior is motivated by the desire to stop the pain he or she is experiencing; it’s rarely deliberate. Learning about BPD won’t automatically solve your relationship problems, but it will help you understand what you’re dealing with and handle difficulties in more constructive ways. To learn more about BPD, see Borderline Personality Disorder. Recognizing the signs and symptoms of BPD Recognizing the signs and symptoms of borderline personality disorder is not always easy. BPD is rarely diagnosed on its own, but often in conjunction with co-occurring disorders such as depression, bipolar disorder, anxiety, an eating disorder, or substance abuse. Your family member or loved one with BPD may be extremely sensitive, so small things can often trigger intense reactions. Once upset, borderline people are often unable to think straight or calm themselves in healthy ways. They may say hurtful things or act out in dangerous or inappropriate ways. This emotional volatility can cause turmoil in their relationships and stress for family members, partners, and friends. Many people in a close relationship to someone who suffers from BPD often know that something is very wrong with the behavior of their loved one, but have no idea what it is or if there is even a name for it. Learning a diagnosis can often come as a source of both relief and hope. Does your loved one have borderline personality disorder? Do you feel like you have to tiptoe around your loved one, watching every little thing you say or do for fear of setting them off? Do you often hide what you think or feel in order to avoid fights and hurt feelings? Does your loved one shift almost instantaneously between emotional extremes (e.g. calm one moment, raging the next, then suddenly despondent)? Are these rapid mood swings unpredictable and seemingly irrational? Does your loved one tend to view you as all good or all bad, with no middle ground? For example, either you’re “perfect” and the only one they can count on or you’re “selfish” and “unfeeling” and never truly loved them. Do you feel like you can’t win, that anything you say or do will be twisted and used against you? Does it feel as if your loved one’s expectations are constantly changing, so you’re never sure how to keep the peace? Is everything always your fault? Do you feel constantly criticized and blamed for things that don’t even make sense? Does the person accuse you of doing and saying things you never did? Do you feel misunderstood whenever you try to explain or reassure your partner? Do you feel manipulated by fear, guilt, or outrageous behavior? Does your loved one make threats, fly into violent rages, make overly dramatic declarations, or do dangerous things when they think you’re unhappy or may leave? If you answer “yes” to most of these questions, your partner or family member might have borderline personality disorder. @maxiehux Let's review okay? My friend has BPD. I, also a sufferer of BPD, understand both sides. Now analyze how he reacted, yes? Now let's read and brush up on what it means to be friends with someone who suffers from. B. P. D. Yes? Okay. Good. This doesn't justify any actions, But it explains the why and the how.