meremere21 a réagi à votre billet “You were supposed to lose weight” How much do I wanna be honest and...”
Part 1: God I am so sorry you have to deal with that. That's horrible, especially coming from your family. The only member of my family I've actually told that I'm ace is my dad, because I just know that all I'll get from the rest of the fam, specifically the WOMEN in my family, is "Oh you just haven't met the right man yet" and "You can't say you don't like sex if you've never had it!" and "How are you supposed to get married and have kids if you don't have sex!"
Part 2: And I'm so so sorry that your family is using your weight as a way to bully you about your lack of interest in a relationship or sex. That's just awful. And I can't pretend to understand just how bad it is for you, seeing as I'm nowhere near what anyone would call 'fat', but I do know what it feels like to be poked and prodded at about your body. My mother and sister are currently in the process of giving me a body image complex by always mentioning my lack of a toned abdomen.
Part 3: I know that I can't completely relate to your situation or yours to mine, but if you ever want to talk I'm available
Well so far I don’t think they’ve actually said anything like that but they (and basically the rest of the world) have gotten into my mind that because I’m fat, I’ll never find anyone and I guess with anxiety and all that shit I just start overthinking everything? :’) They do constantly talk about my weight (my aunt even keeps on comparing us, it’s awful)
I can feel your pain for the ace thing with the rest of your family, given the number of comments I get like “you’ll see when you have your husband and kids” even without being out lmao I wish romantic and sexual relationships weren’t seen as so essential orz
I’ve ended up telling my brother I’m aroace, and got the sooooo original comment of “like the provincial herbs?” for aromatic -w-
anyway I ate and forgot what I had to say sorry :’D