Feb 24, 2013
Regarding your post about Cas being innocent/non-sexual - it's canon that Cas associates sex with love. "If the pizza man truly loves the babysitter, why does he keep slapping her rear?" More reason why canon Destiel isn't a problem - Cas loves Dean.
Oh yeah, I’m quite aware of that example! The reason I hesitated to include it is because Cas cites the pizza man when he kisses Meg, even though he doesn’t “truly love” her. So while the assumption says something about his natural mindset and curiosity, I think the message is a bit muddled, and the line could be chalked up to naivete based on the porn’s dialogue. I personally feel the prostitute example makes for stronger evidence of Cas’ love/connection-before-sex preference.