#metamors

[polyamorouscultureis]

Do you have any tips for helping metamors get along? My wife and I have a metamor that has a really hard time getting along with my wife because plain old communication difficulties due to extrovert/introvert personalities.

Honestly, I really dont. Sometimes people just dont vibe with each other, but I think that's ok! I have a metamor who I've told my partner I dont really like to be around, so when the two of them hang out, my partner either goes to their place/goes out or picks a day when I'm busy to have them over.

If theres an unavoidable situation where the two of them have to be around each other, is it instantly tense? Do they start drama with each other when given the chance, or can they put things aside for the time being? If the former, it's worth sitting down with the two of them to find the root of the problem and address it, or finding a codeword of some kind to mean they need some time to themselves or to change the subject of conversation. You cant force people to be best friends, but you can find creative ways to avoid conflicts!

[theopenphotoproject]

Robert talking about co-writing a book and sex education with his 2 partners.

9/2016

Robert:  Well, I have retired from sex education as of last year but I’m still active. Not so much socially anymore but active as a theoretician more likely. My family and I are writing a book: Carol Queen, Dr. Carol Queen, and my partner Dina, she’s (Dina) my wife. Dina came into our life about ten years ago. She and Carol are – I hate to say it’s a southern thing, but [in southern accent] they’re just like two peas in a pod. They are so sweet. Interviewer:  [Laughing] Robert: And both really, really brilliant. Each one individually smarter than I am, and it’s just fun to watch and to listen to them. The book is coming out through this gestalt of all three of us.

[the-royal-blue-network]

Story Prompt#4

[archipelago-siren]

My nesting partner very briefly popped her head on-camera during my weekly DnD game the other night, run by my long distance anchor partner. His face when he saw her lit up as he wished her a Goodnight.

They get on really well and are perfect metamors and it makes me very happy 😊

[arcticvixen]

#polyamory #polygyny #sisterwives #villiage #family #nationbuilding #communitybuilding #tribe #pack #blendedfamily #metamors #openrelationships

[queer-polyam-emperor-penguin]

I have the best metamor ever and I'm sorry no one else will ever have such an awesome metamor.

@polyam-fam-batman ^ such a fucking nerd but too damn awesome.

[polyglittery]

I get to be the Worst Man at my boyfriend’s commitment ceremony, while the not-bride’s boyfriend is the Matron of Dishonour. I think the Buck’s night (not organised by me) (Why is there even a buck’s? They’re not being locked into eternal monogamy. I asked the boyf that and he was all “it’s traditional” and I was all “yeah, like the rest of this not-wedding”) is going to involve pirates, and possibly a ship. So excite. Also, I’m going to go to the hen’s, because high tea. Also also, I’m making a speech.