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I wanna say thank you to admin Lena and other admins who answered my question about psychiatrist and psychologist. You guys really helpful

Hi lovely :)

I just passed this alongto Lena for you, and she said: ‘You’re welcome lovely and I’m glad I/we couldhelp! <3’

Thank you for sending thisin and being so sweet! I hope you’re doing okay, and remember that we’re alwayshere for you if you ever need anything else!

Keep fighting!

Take care and lots oflove,

Dani <3

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I'm in photography class but the topic we have doesn't give me any inspiration at all and I'm worried that it'll stress me too much. I'm not sure what to do.. Should I switch to a class where I don't really know anyone and to teachers that are really strict or should I just stay with my friends and hope for the best. I really like photography but the tasks we get and the topic really suck. It's for my a-levels so it's a really hard decision and I'm afraid I'll chose wrong Sorry for my English

Hey Darling!

I’m sorry that you’ve been struggling with this lately and that this ask doesn’t got answered sooner!

I can imagine how difficult this decision must be to make. I know it’s really hard to change to a class without any of your friends but if you feel like, do it! I think it’s important to get good grades and in a new class you maybe can find some new friends! And maybe a teacher who seems strict can make fun too and hopefully the new topic and stuff you’re doing there will be new for you and you will make new and good experiences. From my own experiences I can say that a class without friends can be absolutely amazing. It will take time but you get to know new people, new faces. Maybe people who are super interesting and you thought they are not that great and then you think ‘Hey this guy seems really nice, why didn’t I notice?’ I think on the one hand it’s great to be in class with friends and on the other hand it’s exciting to be with new people. So it’s your decision… When you’re in class with friends you may have a bad grade BUT you have your friends. But when you’re in another class you may have a good grade and you have the opportunity to meet new people! But you have to remember that only because one topic in photography class gives you no inspiration, doesn’t mean that you will have this problem with every topic. But when the change is because of your grades you should only change when you know in this other class you’re good. When you’re not, you can also stay in photography class with your friends. Please remember you are confident and independent and you can do this!

I’m sorry if I messed this up a little bit and I hope I helped you!

(You’re English is good!)

I hope you’re doing well,

Lena

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Hey guys! I hope everyone's having a good day :). I needed some advice on something and felt you guys were the best place to come! I have anxiety, and of course, I've developed a huge crush on this guy. Him liking me is completely impossible, and I know this, but it hurts so much and I don't know what to do. On top of that, I always, always embarrass myself around him and I don't know how to stop. Do you guys have any advice on handling this?(please tag Jen)

Hey Jen!

I’m sorry that you’ve been dealing with this lately!

At first thank you for contacting and trusting us! I’m sorry that this was not answered sooner and I hope I can still help you.

So, I want to remind you that no one can be forced to love anybody. I think you know this, but just as a little reminder! I know it can be hard to love someone or have a crush on somebody who you never would expect to like or love you back.

I think at first you should know things about him. Do you really like him or is it just a tiny little crush that’s over in two weeks? If you’re sure you to honestly like him you could get some information about him. Or you get some information and decide then if you really like him (Maybe there’s some information about him you don’t know and when you know it he’s no more interesting for you?). When you know him better it’s maybe easier to speak to him too. Ask your Friends or keep your eyes and ears open for information about him. And maybe ask them what they think about him (this step’s not good for everyone; you have to figure out for yourself what information you want to have and which not). If this step’s done or not needed you could go over to just speak with him in discusses in class (if you’re going to school) or maybe you’re friends with some of his friends or someone who know one of his friends and can get some information or his phone number or whatever for you without mentioning that you have a crush on him. Here’s a tip from my own experiences: never tell someone you don’t totally trust about your crush. Someone told my crush about my crush on him and I can’t look him into his eyes since two years now. But that’s only MY own experience and it doesn’t mean that would happen to you too!

To the embarrassing situations: That’s totally normal! You don’t notice something like that when you’re with your friends normally. You notice it because you want him to like you. But most guys like little bloopers. What you have to remind is that he’s only a human too and he gets into this situations too, so don’t worry about this!

Maybe you can get in contact with him slow (maybe over text messages, Facebook, Instagram, twitter or e-mail!(asking for help with your homework or asking him easy things like “what’s your favorite color”)) And if you’re feeling safer about your connection you can start talking to him. It sounds really scary but the rest comes in the most cases from alone. And just because you think he don’t like you, doesn’t mean it’s true! And if there’s no connection between you and him, then there are other guys who are a option, even if it takes time!

I hope I helped you and I hope you’re doing well!

Lena

(Feel free to contact us if you need something - sending in an ask or submit something - live chat)

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A warm welcome to you Lena!!! Looking forward to getting to know you!! :)

Thank you for this nice message! I’m excited to help :)

I hope you’re doing well,Lena

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Good luck, Lena! -Indigo

Aw, thank you! I will try my best :)

I hope you’re doing well,Lena

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Hi again, im the person with "bad dreams". Idk if you answered my question or its still in the box. Can u answer it again? Tag me like meerkatt, btw thank you so much

Hey meerkatt! We do have your question.I’m about to answer it right now! It should be on in a few minutes!

I hope you’re doing well,Lena