#mhamille

[mental-health-advice]

I miss Millie. Why is she not on the page anymore? I need to talk to her, she understood me and helped me....

Hi darling,

Mille left the blog quite a while ago! I believe she left because she was too busy to keep doing blog work, but I could be misremembering. It’s been a while so I don’t trust my memory to know it perfectly. It’s really great that she could help you so much though! I’ll see if I can contact her to let her know that she’s been of great help for you. For now, know that we’re here for you! Mille might not be an admin anymore, but maybe someone else can help you too <3 I hope you’re okay lovely!

Sometimes what seems impossible, is just hard.

Keep fighting beautiful <3 Love Pauline

Update: I talked to Mille and she said to thank you and she’s glad that she could help

[mental-health-advice]

Hello I'm sorry about asking this if you already explained this, but I sent a few asks last year and an admin named Millie really helped me out and said such kind things, I think she also spoke to me on livechat once and was always so sweet. I wanted to thank her but it seems she's not an admin anymore and I was wondering if you could pass on my thanks to her please.

Hello lovely! 

This is such a sweet message and I’m going to send it to Mille right away :D She’s going to be so touched that you wrote in. I’m glad that she could help you, she’s fab isn’t she? 

I hope you’re having a lovely day and that things are going well for you! 

Lots of love and cuddles, 

Paige <3 

[mental-health-advice]

My father just said that I'm ruining his and my mothers' lives and they'd be better off without me. So now I'm 100% sure I'm gonna kill myself.

Hello love. I have been through this as well and I understand this so much. The thing is, you are not ruining anyone's lives. He is kind of ruining yours, by making you feel like that and you do not deserve to die. You need to stay alive and get a family of your own, if that's what you want. You can make sure your family will never feel this way and if they do, you can help them. You can be the change in the world, that you want and need right now. You just need to stay alive and stay here with me. I was so close to running away, but I am here and so can you be. You are strong. So strong, dear. I know the pain and the voices are saying it never will get better, but it will. They are lying. You are okay, you are safe and you are for sure, not ruining anyone's lives. You are living and you are entitled to do that. I love you. Lots of Love, sweetheart!-Mille

[mental-health-advice]

I wanted to ask if you guys got an ask about a therapist denying therapy bc of no diagnosis that was tagged tanyaa (at least thats what i think I tagged it)? i send it about 8/9 days ago, was just wondering if it got through. keep up the great work! x

Hello love. It is in the box and it will be answered very shortly. Lots of Love, sweetheart!-Mille

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Hi, today I found out that my crush (who is also my close friend) is gay. I found out through my best friend because he kissed a guy at a party last night. I'm cool with the fact that's he gay and I want him to be happy, but I don't know how to stop having feelings for him. I've really fallen for him and it's tearing me up that I can in no way be with him. He'll always be my friend but I don't wanna feel this way about him because not only is it upsetting but it's awkward. Please help, B x

Hello love. This is a hard one to help with, as there isn't a lot of things, which you can do. Of course, I think you should tell him or I do just advise you to. He can't change the fact, that he's gay, but he might be bisexual. I haven't had any situation, like this, but my friend had and she just took it as nicely as she could. She didn't tell him, but they grew closer and now they look at guys together. I know it's silly and all, but I think you should try to tell him, if you feel comfortable doing so. Otherwise just try to be friends with him. If you can't get the crush to kind of cool off, you can take a little break or keep yourself busy. I had a crush on my ex for a long time, but I then chose that it wasn't gonna turn out again, and I have moved on. I just advise you to talk it through with someone you trust, keep yourself busy or even just try to forget the crush.I know it hurts to know you will never be with him, but in some sense, there is a fifty percent chance, that he might be bisexual or it was just a one time thing. Try to talk to him about, if he really is gay and just tell him, that you are there.  Lots of Love, sweetheart!-Mille.

[mental-health-advice]

quick correction! bisexuality is the sexual attraction to two genders! not romantic and sexual. wasnt sure if it was a mistake or not, just thought id point it out! love the blog, by the way, you guys are all so kind and helpful, it warms my heart to see people like you guys, oh gosh. keep being awesome!!

Hi love.

I am not sure what you are referring to, but still thank you! And thank you so much for that amazing and lovely message. Lots of Love, sweetheart!-Mille

[mental-health-advice]

(Pt 1) I was wondering, is it abuse for a parent to pressure their kid (teenager) to get high with them? Near the middle of my junior year of high school I did drugs with my mom to feel closer to her, but I chose to stop on my own. I just don't...

Hello love. We didn't receive the second or other parts of your ask, can you please resend it? Lots of Love, sweetheart!-Mille

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thank you so much for what you do, all of you. this blog has helped me so so much, because without it I would have no one to talk about my problems with. I have always felt so accepted and understood, you are all so great! thank you again, much love. 💕

Hello dear. Thank you so much for sending this. It means a lot to us and I hope that you are doing well in your recovery, which I know you are. Lots of Love, sweetheart!-Mille