mars in gemini || part two: how to regulate when everything feels fast
if you read part one, you already know what we are working with. mars in gemini runs through august 11th and the energy this summer is fast, mentally stimulating, and a lot. add the mercury retrograde in cancer, the full moon, jupiter shifting signs, and the year of the fire horse as the backdrop and your nervous system has a real job to do between now and fall.
this post is about giving it some help.
regulation is not a luxury right now. it is how you stay functional, make clear decisions, and actually hear yourself think during one of the more activated summers in recent memory. here is what the science says works, and what i personally do to keep myself grounded when things start moving too fast.
meditate
even short term meditation practice alters autonomic nervous system activity, activating the parasympathetic nervous system and lowering heart rate, blood pressure, and stress hormones. research published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences found that just a few weeks of consistent practice changes how your brain and body respond to stress. your nervous system literally learns a different default. i meditate every morning before anything else. on heavy days i come back to it as needed. it does not have to be long. it just has to be consistent.
journal
psychologist James Pennebaker's research, replicated across more than 200 studies, shows that writing about your thoughts and feelings for 15 to 20 minutes reduces cortisol levels and lowers psychological distress. UCLA research found that the act of putting emotions into words reduces activity in the amygdala, the part of the brain that fires anxiety and stress. journaling gives your feelings somewhere to go so they stop running in the background of everything you do. i journal every morning and sometimes before bed when something needs to move through me. during mercury retrograde in cancer especially, this one is non negotiable.
move your body
research from the American Psychological Association confirms that while exercise initially spikes the stress response, cortisol and stress hormone levels drop lower after physical activity than before. a year long study published in 2026 found that participants who exercised regularly showed a measurable drop in accumulated cortisol compared to those who did not. regular movement trains your body to handle stress more efficiently over time. it is not just physical. it is a nervous system workout. i go to the gym and i treat it the same way i treat everything else that matters. i show up whether i feel like it or not.
take mindful walks
a review of 127 research papers found that time in nature reduces cortisol, anxiety, and rumination. research published in Springer Nature found that nature based walking interventions effectively reduced anxiety and stress while improving mood and mental wellbeing. the combination of movement, fresh air, and present moment awareness is one of the most accessible regulation tools available and you do not need a gym or a plan. just step outside and pay attention to what is around you instead of what is in your head.
try cold showers
a study published in ScienceDirect found that cortisol levels dropped measurably three hours after cold water immersion, and research in the Journal of Neuropsychiatry and Clinical Neurosciences found that cold water triggers the release of dopamine, serotonin, and norepinephrine, neurotransmitters directly linked to mood, stress regulation, and emotional resilience. i did one this morning and the shift is real.
if you are a woman, this one comes with some nuance worth knowing. a UCL study of over 1,100 women found that nearly half reported improvements in anxiety and over a third reported relief from mood swings through cold water exposure. but women's hormonal fluctuations across the menstrual cycle affect how the body responds to cold stress. research suggests the follicular and ovulatory phases are generally the best windows for cold exposure. during the luteal phase and menstruation your body is more sensitive to temperature changes and cold immersion can feel harsher and add unnecessary stress rather than relieve it. listen to your body and adjust accordingly. you do not have to push through every practice every day of the month.
build a routine and get robotic with it
this is the most cap moon thing i will ever say but it is also just true. when things get really rough i build a routine and i follow it whether i feel like it or not. not because i am suppressing what i feel but because i know that discipline is a form of self trust. consistency builds neural pathways. your nervous system learns safety through repetition. the routine does not have to be elaborate. wake up. meditate. journal. move. that is enough. do it on the days it feels good and especially on the days it does not.
the fast energy this summer is real and it is not going anywhere. but you are not meant to match it. you are meant to move through it with enough groundedness to still hear yourself. that is where your intuition lives. that is where your clarity comes from. and that is what is going to make the difference between a summer that overwhelms you and one that actually changes your life.
more on this transit coming. if you want personalized support navigating this season in your chart, readings are open at casa de novas.
