Jan 14
The combination of afamiliality & asensuality hitting when my family members for some reason force me into a hug, after years of them respecting that I don't wanna be touched.
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The combination of afamiliality & asensuality hitting when my family members for some reason force me into a hug, after years of them respecting that I don't wanna be touched.
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Aaaaa
Im so sorry that I've been inactive on this blog lately! Schools rough haha. As a sorry ill be working on whatevers in my askbox! And as a special im sorry heres a face reveal!
our asensual experience is never finding any actual discussion on asensuality outside of MAYBE the most cursory mentions, and our tag always being completely flooded with other super general aspec posts :')
(i'm glad this blog exists 🙏)
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Asenspec culture is making a touch averse writing blog bc I'm sick of it.
Hello. 👋
- @t-aversed
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Asensual culture is hating these emojis:
🫂 🤝 💋
Like GO AWAY EW
And hating that theyre so common to react to ppl with for support or solidarity like no, no thank you, stop 🤚 that's not the support you think it is..
[Plus all those aspec support posts like 'hugs/cuddles/pats/headpats/pets/fistbump/high-fives/handshake/kisses/etc. to you guys you're awesome!' after they just mentioned asensuals in their list is like. Y'all I think you missed a spot. Um]
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My average asensual experience in other aspec communities is that whenever someone asks the community their stance on touch (mostly within friendships) and I mention that I don't want people to touch me at all, I get at least 1 mf who tries to convince me I should just let people do it despite my discomfort.
As if there was no other way in terms of showing affection besides letting some mf land their hand on me. Cause consent & discomfort suddenly don't matter, those are only important in sexual situations 🙄
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My asenspike experience is willingly giving some a hug once in a blue moon and everyone being super surprised.
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my demisensual and afam experience is constantly telling my blood relatives that i don't like physical touch and then being confronted with "but you don't mind when some of your friends touch you" yeah! but i don't want you near me. stop please. don't force me to kiss your cheek
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