I try not to get too worried about what other people think about me after having realized that the only way people are able to judge you is via using themselves as a barometer to compare; and, that the circumstances of everyone's life are truly and wholly different.
I think that casting judgment is a great limiter in not only how one perceives others, but also sees themselves.
One time, while eavesdropping on the people directly behind, I overheard them gawking at my bed head hair. Initially, this perturbed me and the thought of turning around to say something crossed my mind. But instead, I had an epiphany about the role of perception in social relationships: these people were not talking about me in an earnest sense. To them, I was an abstraction to compare themselves to and engage with one another. Turning around to give them a piece of my mind would only foster that connection!
(Post inspired by my friend @katherinemargot !)












