Idk if there is an ace version of monster fucking but I desperately need there to be because who else looks at eldritch horrors and thinks stuff along the lines of "I wanna cuddle them and kiss them and show them love and affection they've probably never seen because people are too scared to look past their scary physical appearance" and then you do all sorts of domestic fluffy stuff and care for each other and an added bonus is people leave you offerings and try to stay on your good side because you partner is a monster that could level their town but they don't know that your partner just wants to be loved and appreciated rather than feared but they can't control how they look and they decided to play into the role they were given for their own safety than try go convince people otherwise even when they were going to believe them anyway
I nominate that this is now called monstercuddling thanks for coming to my tedtalk
