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[moodymoonbitch]

You know you’re really over them when you delete their birth chart ✂️

[moodymoonbitch]

What should a Virgo north node do to stop playing the victim as a way to avoid taking responsibility in life? I have moon, POF, Venus mercury and Lilith in Virgo and in the 2nd house including north node. If u can help I’d appreciate thanks for your time

The escape from Victim mentality

Hi! Risingstar✨

First things first, you should be very proud of yourself for seeing and recognizing your own negative patterns. Everybody has their own ways of self sabotage.

You’re leaving your south node behind which is in Pisces, known for being scatterbrained and also known for playing victims. However a victim mentality is a pretty common thing in this world, because every body will at some point feel like a victim. It is how we deal with feeling wronged that determine who we are.

Here are my tips on what you do.

✨Do not beat yourself up✨

1. sit yourself down with a pen and a paper and make it very clear for yourself what you wanna do in life and what you’d like to experience. write down all the good things you want to accomplish. (Partner? Goals? Travel? Financial freedom?)

Why?: For you to be able to avoid responsibility and play the victim there has to be an element of something you’re avoiding.

2. Now I want you to write down the things you’re struggling with or avoiding. This can be anything.

3. Lastly, I want you to write down the things you feel you’re lacking in your life. Things that stress you and make you feel bad about yourself. It could be anything from your hairstyle to your current friends. Pinpoint. (This can also be things and events that have happened to you years ago)

Now see if you can connect the things that make life hard to why you don’t feel like doing certain tasks that you may need to do to live the life you want.

Example: Tina was rejected from her dream college, now she avoids applying for jobs and procrastinate because she’s emotionally broken down from not accomplishing her goal.

Conclusion: To take accountability of anything in life, we must first figure out why we don’t want to. Then we can see the full picture and make a conscious choice.

Virgos are perfectionists, so that’s the astrological connection but I’d like you to go beyond your chart.

read the next part knowing that this applies to pretty much every human walking this earth.

Closure: Sometimes we avoid taking accountability because doing so confirms to us that we’re not perfect. A victim mentality exists because we’re finding external reasons to why we can’t live up to our high standards before we even try. That way your perfectionist tendencies can’t get to you because you’re not trying. People who make many excuses often struggle with low self esteem and self worth. Get in touch with your self again.

Extra message: I have a feeling you know where to go, you just have to act on it instead of thinking on it. Whatever you’re making excuses for is something you know how to do already, it’s just fear.

Find out what you’re afraid of, what you want and what you need to do to achieve it. Then you ACT.

You can do it! 💕

Xoxo//moodymoon

[moodymoonbitch]

pisces mars(9H) culture + what’re they like in bed?

🪐Mars in Pisces 9th house 🪐

- Open minded

- very idealistic

- goes with the flow in life

- can have trouble taking action on dreams and passions

- truth seekers

-blunt and honesty but tries their best to come off polite and kind

-needs to have a creative outlet for emotions

- might feel uncomfortable expressing negative emotions

- commitment issues but only because there are so many things they wanna do

- loves to read, may be into mythology and conspiracies... Atlantis, Area 51, the secret (LOA)

- religious or spiritual

- gives good advice but doesn’t use it themselves

- professional procrastinators

-wanderlust x100 probably wants to travel the world.

-scatterbrained

-empathetic and kind

- always tries to be fair

Pisces Mars (9H) in bed💦

Very open minded people, Mars in the sign of Pisces softens the drive and power of Mars and leave us with a person who might enjoy being submissive to their partner, they might get turned on by their partner getting off. In bed they are intuitive to the needs of their partner and can almost sense what to do. Since Pisces is a mutable sign and in this chart placed in the 9th house, the case may also be that they are able to easily switch gears. What they like in bed today may not be what they like in bed tomorrow. Many different kinks may co-exist. They are pretty much sexual chameleons and will become whatever is requested, probably because of their enjoyment of the fantasy element. They feel most comfortable with sex when they’re emotionally attracted to somebody and might enjoy foreplay(kissing, touching and stroking) just as much as the actual act. To finish it off i’ll say that Pisces Mars in the 9th house will be far more experimental and bold than many other Pisces placements. Plus sex can also be viewed as a sport to them and they might feel the need to outperform themselves. Since Pisces rules over hands and feet whilst 9th house controlls hips, thighs, hair and back those may be sweet spots for you.

Thanks for asking love. Hope it helped a little :)

Xoxo// moodymoon <3

[moodymoonbitch]

So I have a Saturn in Leo (5H) and when I was born, it was in retrograde. What would that mean for me, like personality/career wise? Or just in general cuz idrk what that means lmao

Hi gurcereal! ✨ Happy holidays!

Sorry for my delayed response.

Natal Saturn in Leo (retrograde )

What is a planet in retrograde?:

Planets in retrograde can a be great trouble for some and not bother others at all. In astrology all the planets have their own functions/ enegries and when the planets display those effects without struggle they are direct. A planet in retrograde is a planet that appears to be spinning backwards. Which is only an optical illusion from earth but still considered to hold astrological significance. Depending on which planet this happens more or less often but when it does it’s called retrograde. During retrograde the usual enegries of the planet get distorted or changes temporarily.

Example: Being born with a well placed/aspected Mercury (in direct) grants the gift of speech, communication and an analytical mind. The same person born during a Mercury retrograde can experiment those same benefits yet struggle to use it properly and find it more difficult. They may feel that others do not understand them.

(I’m one of those people, my Mercury placements/ aspects are all beneficial but I make grammar mistakes frequently no matter how hard I try to spellcheck and correct them. It’s always been this way even thought I do not have dyslexia)

This explains the energy of retrograde:

it’s like a problem you have that never reaches a solution because it’s out of your control. It’s a skill that takes constant work and is never mastered.

In your case saturn is in retrograde in the sign of Leo.

Saturn is detriment in Leo meaning it isn’t at home or comfortable with Leo as its houseguest.

Saturn becomes forced to restrict the more confident, risk taking and outgoing side of Leo. It forces Leo to be more disciplined, private and serious. This placement may make you doubt yourself and your abilities to succeed and you might struggle with going with the flow.

The planet Saturn and the sign Leo are very different but they are very similar at the same time. (Hence detriment but not in its fall)

Saturn values hard work and rewards those who apply its lessons. Saturn is power hungry and ambitious, it sees that when Leo wants something and will sto at nothing to achieve it. It works because they both enjoy success and power. So Saturn allows Leo to stay.

Because of this you have great chances of aquring succes and abundance because of the hardworking nature of these two signs. If you choose a creative profession you will be the most hardworking person in the room. You could thrive in self employment and would do great as an Agent, singer, musicisian or a manager.

Now here comes the retrograde... chances are there will be a delay when it comes to fifth house matters.

Saturn being in retrograde carries effects such as.

-You constantly feeling like you’re not doing enough or that you’re not worthy of what you want. Therefore taking longer to act on your goals.

-You may feel uncomfortable in situations that call for rule following or disciplinary work. Not doing great in a social hierarchy.

- Struggle with setting up boundaries for yourself, being walked all over because of the fear of asserting yourself.

- become too stubborn at times and asserting yourself too much.

Saturn retrograde being in the 5th can cause trouble with conceiving children, take this with a grain of salt it does not mean you won’t have them or that something horrible will happen, but it can be delayed or harder.

Don’t feel discouraged, there is so much potential in you and this placement. Find your weaknesses and work on your confidence, if you do that there’s nothing you can’t accomplish!

P.S When your Saturn returns I can see things getting easier for you, this normally happens around 28-30. that’s when we’ve typically cleared the majority of our Saturnian karma. By then the things causing you trouble in work or life will turn into blessings and realizations instead of more lessons.

Xoxo// moodymoon

[moodymoonbitch]

Hi! What are some of your favorite synastry aspects? A couple of mine are Sun conjunct Moon and Mercury conjunct Venus

Hello! Oh, very nice aspects they’re so important for a mutual understanding and respect amongst eachother! My favorite Synastry aspects that make my jaw drop are, Venus/Mars conjunct ASC. It’s really nice because it creates this sexual attraction that’s quite obvious. It’s in your face and you can’t deny it. It’s extra nice if you’re the ASC person because you get to be on the receiving end a little more.

2. Moon/ Mercury trine Jupiter mostly bc I’m a Jupiter dominant. An awesome aspect if you’re a person who doesn’t take life too seriously or enjoy laughing til your belly hurts. Mercury and Jupiter bounce of each other and can talk for hours. Very lighthearted though. But can get deep depending on houses.

3. Hehe here I am again with the Sun conjunct ASC Simply because it feels like you’ve find somebody who really sees you, and who’s maybe a little bit of an extension of yourself.

These are a little superficial but they’re nice for sparking initial attraction. If I was looking for something long term I would go in another direction I think🤔 these aspects couldn’t float on their own. They’d need some cool houses like 7th, 4th to go the long haul.

<3

Thanks for askin :)

[moodymoonbitch]

Hi everyone! Since I’ve started this blog I’ve gained a few new followers. I’d love to get to know some of y’all. Feel free to send me asks n If you want to, we can privately chat and talk about your chart and some of your favorite aspects<3

I don’t do full readings but I’ll happily discuss some synastry and some individual placements in natal charts.

xoxo//Moody