I just got broken up with. She was the girl of my dreams. I dated her for over a year, I can't get her out of my head. I've tried and tried. I'm lost, I cant move on help me
Hey man, I have experienced this before, last summer actually. It was the worst one and also 3 months ago. Anyway I’ll tell you my story and hopefully this will help you out. Last summer, my girlfriend broke up with me, I dated her for over two years, and like you, I also thought she was the girl of my dreams, I thought she was perfect and I am not surprise that you would think the same as I did because like both of us, we dated our girls for over a year. We spent a lot of time with them, but don’t let that break up put you down. I regret how I acted, when she broke up with me I blamed myself, I didn’t eat, I just stayed in bed and I was alone in my house for a month. It sucks and don’t let that ever happen to you. Don’t treat yourself like trash, you are better than this, it might be hard in the beginning but you need to distract yourself. What I did was I told myself I am better than this, and I can tell you that exercise helps so much, you can take your frustration and anger out on exercising. I hang out with my friends, remember to talk to them, don’t fight this alone. It will eventually get better and I don’t know how old you are but Im guessing you are still young (like me), anyway you are still young man and don’t let this girl be the one that puts you down, she is not the only solution, just remember there are always another girl just waiting for you to make that move. Things does happen for a reason, you just need to overcome this first and I promise you, it will get better.
Anyway message me if you still need help. Remember you are not alone.
- Mr. Advice