What is your real, birth name? What name do you use? Grayson Luca Zaccaro. I use Grayson Zacarro.
Do you have a nickname? What is it, and where did you get it? Gray mostly, and sometimes my mom would call me Gracie if she was feeling affectionate. Big Z was thrown around in Hollywood from time to time.
What do you look like? (Include height, weight, hair, eyes, skin, apparent age, and distinguishing features) I’m 5′11″, I weight about 165, my eyes are light brown and I have pale skin with a lot of moles. My hair is brown and usually kept on the shorter side. I’m 25 and have been told still look 18. I’d say I’m in decent shape and that’s about it.
How do you dress most of the time? I have a decent style of dress I guess. I know how to dress up when need be, but I like to keep things casual otherwise. T-shirts, khakis, jeans, are all things I like.
How do you “dress up?” I like to do suits, but sometimes a dress shirt and bowtie is all I need.
How do you “dress down?” Sweats, basketball shorts or whatever is comfortable and clean.
What do you wear when you go to sleep? Boxers and sometimes a shirt.
Do you wear any jewelry? Does a watch count?
In your opinion, what is your best feature? Those weird crater things in my face called dimples.
What’s your real birth date? October 13th 1990
Where do you live? Describe it: Is it messy, neat, avant-garde, sparse, etc.? I just moved in to a new place. So right now it’s full of boxes and I have a great view of Saint Laurent.
Do you own a car? Describe it. Yes, I do. I own two actually. A Ford Mustang convertible, it’s gray with black interior four seater. I also own a BMW, but I’m thinking about trading it in for a Camaro.
What one word best describes you? I think that question is better answered by those who know me.
What was your family like? Dysfunctional. My mom was my manager and my dad took off.
Who was your father, and what was he like? I don’t know much about my dad except that he was a slut and walked out on us.
Who was your mother, and what was she like? My mom was my manager and she wasn’t the warmest person. She was very protective and looked out for me-- but my career always seemed to come first to her.
What was your parents marriage like? Were they married? Did they remain married? My dad took off on us and I don’t think they were ever married.
What were your siblings names? What were they like? As far as I know I don’t have any, but my mom said she wouldn’t be surprised if I had half siblins all over the place.
What’s the worst thing one of your siblings ever did to you? What’s the worst thing you’ve done to one of your siblings? Not available.
When’s the last time you saw any member of your family? Where are they now? I saw a cousin of mine not too long ago. Other than that I haven’t seen anyone since my moms funeral when I was fourteen.
Did you ever meet any other family members? Who were they? What did you think of them? I met my cousin Cam. He’s the other family I know the most besides my mother.
What is your first memory? The first thing I remember was getting donuts after a good audition when I was three. Then we went to the pumpkin patch.
What was your favorite toy? I was a big fan of my Hot Wheels and Legos.
What was your favorite game? The Game of Life.
Any non-family member adults stick out in your mind? Who were they, and how did you know them? Why do they stick out? Nope.
Who was your best friend when you were growing up? Uh, is it sad to say no one? I didn’t really have time for traditional friendships growing up. I made friends on set, but we all moved around so much with work that we never kept in touch really.
What is your fondest, childhood memory? Is it sad to say the pumpkin patch thing? Also, when I got to stay on set late as a kid. That was always fun.
What is your worst childhood memory? Seeing my mom get a little too intense about things or watching her die, but I was a teenager then.
How old were you when you went on your first date? Twelve
It is common for one’s view of authority to develop in their adolescent years. What is your view of authority, and what event most affected it? I would say yes, but sometimes a bit earlier. I don’t know my view really, but it’s good to an extent. My mom’s death because then I had to take control of everything.
What were you like in high school? What “clique” did you best fit in with? I was home schooled or tutored on set.
What were your high school goals? To hurry up and pass.
Who was your idol when you were growing up? Who did you first fantasize about in your life? My Idol was Leo Dicaprio, Brad Pitt, etc. I had a crush on Jennifer Love Hewitt, Jennifer Aniston, Drew Barrymore, Reese Witherspoon. As for starlets my age, I’ll keep that a secret, haha.
What is your favorite memory from adolescence? My first on-screen makeout session. It was awkward and great.
What is your worst memory from adolescence? Watching mom die.
Do you have a job? What is it? Do you like it? If no job, where does your money come from? I’m an actor. I love my job more than anything. My money comes from my job, haha.
What is your boss or employer like? (Or publisher, or agent, or whatever.) My agent is pretty cool. They listen to what I want and get me the best deals.
What are your co-workers like? Do you get along with them? Any in particular? Which ones don’t you get along with? Currently, my co-workers are great. I’ve had some places where people aren’t the best, but for the most part, I can’t complain.
What is something you had to learn that you hated? Crying on cue. It gives me such a headache, but it was one of the best skills I ever acquired for my career.
Do you tend to save or spend your money? Why? Yes, I save my money. I just like knowing that I always have a safety net to fallback on. I make my splurge purchases now and again though.
Likes & Dislikes Questions
What hobbies do you have? My hobbies include things like surfing, snowboarding, skateboarding, writing, reading. I’m kind of boring, haha.
Who is your closest mundane friend? Describe them and how you relate to them. Not sure what you mean by mundane, I wouldn’t consider any of my friends mundane. My closest friend at the moment is Calli. She’s my wing woman and we both understand what it’s like to be in the spotlight.
Who is your worst enemy? Describe them and why you don’t get along. Don’t currently have one.
What bands do you like? Do you even pay attention? I like Blink 182, Dave Matthews Band, Mayday Parade, Academy Is, etc.
What tape or CD hasn’t left your player since your purchased it? Why? No clue.
What song is “your song?” Why? That’s another question I don’t know the answer to. Ask me again later, haha.
What’s been your favorite movie of all time? The Outsiders is probably number one, and then it’s gonna be cheesy, but I’m a big fan of The Breakfast Club. Also like Ferris Buller's Day off, and Die Hard.
Read any good books? What were they? Party by Tom Leveen is a good one.
What do you watch on the Television? Friends, The Big Bang Theory, How I met Your Mother, Fullmetal Alchemist, Death Note, Mythbusters and anything I find on Netflix.
When it comes to mundane politics, do you care? If so, which way do you tend to vote? If not, why don’t you care? Don’t vote and I don’t care.
What type of places do you hang out in with your friends? Coffee shops, bars, lounges, restaurants, each others’ places, etc. I’m not picky.
What annoys you more than anything else? People who act really entitled and those who chew with their mouth open.
What would be the perfect gift for you? Something simple that shows you put a lot of thought into it and know me.
What’s the most beautiful thing you’ve ever seen? Sunsets in every city all over the world.
What time of day is your favorite? The night
What kind of weather is your favorite? Big fan of rainy weather and cold weather in general.
What is your favorite food? What is your least favorite food? Curly fries or chilli cheese fries. Any type of sea food is my least favorite.
What is your favorite drink? (Coffee, Coke, Juice, Beer, Wine, etc.) I’m a coke guy I guess. I also really like orange juice and tea. Coffee and espresso keep my functioning at work and who doesn’t love drinks after a long work day? Guess you could say I’m not picky.
What’s your favorite animal? Why? Dogs. Loyal as hell.
Do you have any pets? Do you want any pets? What kind? No, but I would love to get a dog.
What do you find most relaxing? (Not as in stress relief, but as something that actually calms you down.) Music and the sound of rain
What habit that others have annoys you most? The food chewing thing.
What kind of things embarrass you? Why? When people just act entitled or bratty, make big scenes in public, etc.
What don’t you like about yourself? A lot
How would you like to look? I have no issues with how I look, but I guess different color eyes might be cool.
Would you consider yourself straight, gay, bi, or something else? Why? Straight
Who was the first person you had sex with? When did it happen? What was it like? How well did it go? It was a co-star in Hollywood. She was a little bit older than me like seventeen, and I was fifteen. It happened one day after work in her trailer and it was pretty awkward. She wanted to lose her virginity before she turned eighteen and I had no clue what I was doing. I think we both thought it was amazing that night, but the next morning we acted really weird with one another. Needless to say most first times suck.
Have you ever had a same-sex experience? Who with, what was it like, and how did it go? No, but I wouldn’t be against it. A guy kissed me once for work, but that’s not the same thing.
What is your deepest, most well-hidden sexual fantasy? Would you ever try it? I can be just a little into a girl dominating the hell out of me-- alright a lot into it. But then I like to do the same in return to her. Also, public sex can be kind of a turn on. I don’t know if I have a huge fantasy I’m hiding. I’m game to try anything at least once.
What was the wildest thing you’ve ever done, sexually? Who was it with and when did it happen? Some things should be kept secret for legal purposes, haha.
Is there any sexual activity that you enjoy and/or practice regularly that can be considered non-standard? (Bondage, Fantasy Play, etc.) Why do you like it? Nah, like I said I enjoy a mixed bag and will do anything once.
Is there any sexual activity that you will not, under any circumstances, do? Yes, anything with human body fluids. That’s gross and I will never be into that.
Do you currently have a lover? What is their name, and what is your relationship like? What are they like? Why are you attracted to them? Nope.
What is the perfect romantic date? I’m not giving away all my secrets. But I usually tailor it to the girl and what she likes.
Describe the perfect romantic partner for you. Someone that understand the high pressure or my job and knows that I would only have eyes for her. Someone that could be my best friend, wants to travel, but also wouldn’t mind settling down at some point in the near-ish future. I’m a simple guy at heart and so I’d want that girl with a good heart to match.
Do you ever want to get married and have children? When do you see this happening? Yes, I want both. Sometime within the next 2-5 years.
What is more important - sex or intimacy? Why? Both, I think sex is one of the best ways to connect with your partner. It keeps you connected to one another. Also, the intamacy is great and it has you connected emotinally and sharing everything sometimes without words. I think both are equally important.
What was your most recent relationship like? Who was it with? (Does not need to be sexual, merely romantic.) It was with a girl named Holly and we went out for a while. It didn’t end that well and that’s all I really want t say about it.
What’s the worst thing you’ve done to someone you loved? I think I got scared and I didn’t let myself fully get involved in the relationship.
How old were you when you first got drunk? What was the experience like? Did anything good come out of it? Did anything bad come out of it? Fourteen and I hated myself the next morning. Yeah, I had a great time with some friends. Yes, vomit and it was terrible.
Do you drink on any kind of regular basis? Yeah, I guess so. Just socially though or to unwind after a long day.
What kind of alcohol do you prefer? I’m not picky.
Have you ever tried any other kind of “mood altering” substance? Which one(s)? What did you think of each? Just weed brownies. It was fine, but I mean nothing to write home about.
What do you think of drugs and alcohol? Are there any people should not do? Why or why not? I’m not a fan of drugs and alcohol is pretty great. Yes, those that have a problem with it.
What one act in your past are you most ashamed of? What one act in your past are you most proud of? I would say I’m most ashamed of sometimes pushing people away. My career and how I’ve used what I have to help others through charity and etc.
Have you ever been in an argument before? Over what, with who, and who won? Who wasn’t been in one? My mom and she probably won. It was usually over my career.
Have you ever been in a physical fight before? Over what, with who, and who won? Nah, only on set, but that’s for work.
What do you feel most strongly about? People. I like people and I wish I could protect all of them from the bad things in this world. I like getting into their heads as far as acting goes and getting to know the characters I play.
What do you pretend to feel strongly about, just to impress people? Nothing.
What trait do you find most admirable, and how often do you find it? Compassion, true compassion for others and their issues. Very rarely.
Is there anything you think should not be incorporated into the media or art (sex, violence, greed, etc.,)? If so, what and why, and if not, why not? Nope, i think it should all be in there. We need to know what is out there and if anything I don’t think we include enough-- we can’t censor the kids or anyone forever. If we can shed light on these issues in a respectable way-- it might be for the better.
Do you have any feelings in general that you are disturbed by? What are they? Why do they disturb you? I guess feeling alone or seeing someone get really angry messes with me. It just rubs me the wrong way to see people act out like that.
What is your religious view of things? What religion, if any, do you call your own? I guess I would say Christianity. I’ve never thought too much about it, but my mom said we were Christian. We went to church every Sunday until I was five.
Do you think the future is hopeful? Why? Yeah, I do. I always think better things are coming for us.
Is an ounce of prevention really worth a pound of cure? Which is more valuable? Why do you feel this way? This is the first time I’ve heard this so I don’t know what I think, haha.
What’s the worst thing that can be done to another person? Why? Way too many things so I can’t list any. Anything that hurts another human being is pretty awful.
What’s the worst thing you could actually do to someone you hated? I’ve never truly hated anyone. I guess it would be just to hate them, maybe say some bad things about them? I don’t really act out on my anger very often.
Are you a better leader or follower? Why do you think that? If you think the whole leader-follower archetype is a crock of shit, say so, and explain why? Leader I guess. I’m not afraid to take control or the lead if needed, but I don’t mind staying behind either if someone has it handled.
What is your responsibility to the world, if any? Why do you think that? To portray the characters I am given to the best of my ability and to leave a good mark on it. I just do, it’s an honor to get those roles and because we should leave the world a little better than we found it.
Do you think redemption is possible? If so, can anyone be redeemed, or are there only certain circumstances that can be? If not, why do you think nothing can redeem itself? Yes, but you have to want it and work for it. You also need to accept that not everyone will be able to forgive you and you have to live with that.
Is it okay for you to cry? When was the last time you cried? I don’t really cry very often, I guess. I don’t know-- for roles I do-- for me, not so much. A while ago.
What do you think is wrong with MOST people, overall? They can be too into themselves and it makes them act arrogant.
What is the thing that has frightened you most? Do you think there is anything out there that’s scarier than that? What do you think that would be? I don’t want to talk about it.
Has anyone or anything you’ve ever cared about died? How did you feel about it? What happened? My mom. I felt awful, how do you think I felt? Car accident, I was the only one that survived.
What was the worst injury you’ve ever received? How did it happen? Several fractures, lacerations and more from the car accident.
How ticklish are you? Where are you ticklish? I’m not answering this, it gives you incentive to tickle me.
What is your current long term goal? To continue to get roles and make a difference with them. On a personal level it would be to find the one.
What is your current short term goal? Settle in and make Montreal my home.
Do you have any bad habits? If so, what are they, and do you plan to get rid of them? I bite my nails and stay up way too late. I try, but they both always comes back to bite me in the ass.
What time period do you wish you had lived in? Why? (Looking at this as an attempt to change history doesn’t count.) What appeals to you about this era? The 20s seemed like a cool era, but I like where I’m at.
How private of a person are you? Why? Pretty private. People don’t need to know about my personal life. A lot of my life is already in the public eye and honestly they don’t really want to know, trust me.
If you were to gain an obscenely large sum of money (via an inhertiance, a lawsuit, a lottery, or anything else) what would you do with it? I would save it and donate a good chunk of it. I know that’s boring, but it’s the truth.
What would you wish for if you found a genie? I honestly have no clue. I guess I would wish to find the one, to continue to have a successful career and save the last wish for when I really need it.
What do you do when you are bored? Read, watch Netflix, hang out with some friends.
What is the most frightening potential handicap or disfigurement you can conceive of? What makes it so frightening? I guess not being able to use my legs again or losing a limb. It would make things so much harder and that would be pretty scary. I don’t know that I would do well with that type of change in my life.