#mtf partner

[lavieont]

Kyra Asks

As a gay woman dating a trans guy, I feel a huge separation from both the straight and lgbtqia communities. 

I’m out of place in both of them and I feel like it’s hard to find people to relate to because of my relationship. 

If you are in the same position as me, do you ever feel this way too?

[transmanpartner]

this blog is super great and i'm glad it exists, but it seems to be mostly resources for partners of trans men. do you know of any blogs or resources like this one for partners of trans women?

There are a few out there! I don’t really know a ton about them as my experience and thus my blog centre around my partner being a transsexual man, but I know I’ve answered this question before… Let me dig around. 

I would check mytransgirl.tumblr.com, it’s not really active very much anymore but it’s a cis woman and her transfeminine partner, and what is up there is lovely. Autostraddle published an article for partners of transfeminine folk by a trans woman called "Getting With Girls Like Us: A Radical Guide to Dating Trans* Women for Cis Women". There might be some info in the comments section or just within the article itself that you can use as a partner.

Though Annika Penelope has taken a blogging hiatus, her blog has some really lovely and thoughtful reflections on her relationship was a trans woman with a cis female partner. 

Partners of MTF is a blog specifically for partners of MTFs, so that’s worth taking a look at.

I hope that helped somewhat! I'll put these links up on the "Other Blogs" page as well. The more resources, the better!