#muhkimalone

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I know it’s truly a hard concept because we’ve programmed this way but DECENTER MEN from your life.

Go extremely hard for yourself to the point where the idea doesn’t even come up.

Meeting men after you decenter them is completely different bc you hold all of your power. You’ll realize that you’re no longer caring about a text back or super nervous for a first date. It’s because you’ll be WHOLE. A man is not your other half. You don’t want half of a man, you want a WHOLE 🫶🏽💋

DECENTER (and I can not stress this enough) MEN from your life.

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You are the most important love of your life ❤️

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What should I be focusing on in high school during the whole four years?

Honestly, if I could go back and do it all over… I would focus on building routines and learning myself.

Pay attention to the things you do and don’t like.

Build study routines for college.

Build workout routines so you can stay in shape in college.

(Having no routines really messed me up my first year of undergrad) 🥴

Read lots of books, join lots of clubs… find your interests.

If you have a dream college, figure out their requirements to make sure you stay on track.

If you have a dream career, start volunteering NOW (even if it’s a hour a week at a law firm or something). A lot of people don’t talk about this part but start volunteering, it will help A LOT when you graduate college and get your first job.

Create a LinkedIn profile and put your volunteer work and high school clubs on there.

Avoid boys… I don’t know ONE relationship from my high school that lasted. Don’t give your youth to anyone who doesn’t deserve it.

Most importantly, learn to not care about the opinions of others. I know high school can be mentally challenging but I promise that none of it matters. Just focus on your self! 💖

Have fun, you only get to do it once! ✨

[thefemmation]

“People often say that ‘beauty is in the eye of the beholder,’ and I say that the most liberating thing about beauty is realizing that you are the beholder. This empowers us to find beauty in places where others have not dared to look, including inside ourselves.”

- Salma Hayek

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Manifesting & Goal Setting

I’m currently in the process of creating a personal Instagram... Last night, I was going through my photos to find the pictures I want to post and came across my very FIRST affirmations list...

I created the list in 2018 and i was very pleased to see that I have achieved MOST of my goals! 

However...

I want to talk about the ones that I did NOT complete... and that’s not to be negative or focus on the bad, but it’s good to reflect.

Upon reflection, I immediately notice that the goals that went uncompleted are a direct result of little to no effort.

You can not expect to complete your goals if you don’t actively chase them. You have to meet your affirmations half way.

For example, 

one of my goals was to get clear skin... 

After deciding that I want clear skin, I started getting hydra-facials and adopted a daily skin-care routine. Now, my skin is clear and I literally get one million compliments on it. 

Notice how I didn’t just say “I have clear skin” every morning and hope for the best.. I took the necessary steps that would get me where I wanted to go.

You can’t just ask, you have to act 🦋

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