The conflict between Gemini and Pisces
I have written before about the signs that square each other in astrology and their conflicting energies. In this post I’m honing in on the Gemini-Pisces square. This conflict can play itself out within your own natal chart if you have planets in both Gemini and Pisces or between you and someone else. For example, if you have a Gemini Sun and a Pisces Moon you’ll experience this archetypal friction within yourself. Or, say that you are a Gemini Sun in a relationship with a Pisces Sun - then you’ll experience friction between yourself and the other person. I’m going go over hypothetical scenarios inspired by everyday life and my own personal experiences with this square. Needless to say, no one is only Gemini and only Pisces and people are more complex than these scenarios reflect. But it’s sometimes useful to simplify and generalize.
Scenario 1 (Gemini Sun – Pisces Sun)
Gemini: What have you been up to lately? Gosh, I went skiing last night the moon was absolutely stunning. You should’ve seen it. I tried to take a photo of it but I actually dropped my camera and couldn’t find it. It’s a bummer, really. Oh well. I thought we could go out together some time.
Pisces: That sounds beautiful, I would love to go with you some day. I’m sorry you lost your camera - at least you got a memorable moment.
Gemini: How about next week? Actually the camera was expensive and I didn’t even get to use it that much. I lost a lot of good pictures. You know, I would really like to have a picture of us two; do you have a camera we could use?
Pisces: I do, I use it everyday, it’s like an escape for me to go out and take photos of nature. Early morning is the best; it’s such a perfect time of the day to be awake. There’s something transcendent about it.
Gemini: Great! Ideally we should go around the next full moon because it won’t be the same otherwise. It would be in a month or so. Make sure to schedule this in - we can’t skip another month.
Pisces: I will, for sure! I just don’t want to lose my camera, it means a lot to me. I’m not saying that you will because you lost yours, but I don’t have the money to buy a new one at the moment and I’m not sure I want to risk it, I care too much. I’m sorry – I’m sure we can have a great time anyway.
Gemini: I don’t know. I don’t think so. I mean - the whole point of going back was to get some pictures taken. Obviously, I’m not saying that I don’t enjoy your company; I just think you could take a risk. What are the chances that the same thing will happen this time? I promise, I’ll buy you a new one if I can afford it.
Pisces: That’s so nice of you. Wouldn’t you want to buy yourself a new camera first? I guess I could take a chance.... I want us to have a good time and take pictures. You know what, I’ll do it. I’ll bring it. It’s something that I could sacrifice for the sake of creating some magic with you.
This scenario highlights a few interesting differences between these signs. Gemini is an air sign – it is communicative and eager to engage with people mentally. Pisces is a water sign – it’s emotional, but it doesn’t draw lines between personal feeling and universal feeling. It’s very sentimental and reflective. Gemini is quite careless because it’s all about the movement and mental stimulation that it can experience. It’s not a big deal if everything that is said isn’t completely honest and reliable. Gemini just wants to have a fun time, which usually means some kind of exciting and unexpected twist. It’s difficult to trust a Gemini – they can play all kinds of characters and roles, while it certainly makes them exciting and fascinating, it also makes them deceptive and unpredictable. Pisces on the other hand, places great weight on not losing precious time and precious moments with people. They care so much that they feel the” loss of self” closing in on them… and then they either snap one way or the other; either they decide to agree to everything another person wants and needs – or they stop caring all together because they can’t handle the loss. In this scenario Pisces agreed to Gemini’s request – knowing that a sacrifice would be necessary either way. Pisces is a sign of profound feeling. It’s translucent. Gemini is a sign of profound creative exchange. It is dualistic.
Scenario 2 (Gemini Sun – Pisces Moon)
Gemini-Pisces: Could you run down to the store and get some milk? Every time I go I’m tempted to buy something more even though I don’t need it.
Friend: Sure. I don’t want to go alone though; if you come with me I can help control your urge to buy more.
Gemini-Pisces: I really want to come with you but I don’t think it’s a good idea. I know you don’t like going alone, I’m sorry to ask this of you, but I really need your help. It’s not just that I’ll buy more, I get terrible anxiety – do you know what that feels like? It’s horrible. Anyway, I don’t want to force you into anything. Just this time - for me? I’ll make it up to you.
Gemini-Pisces: You’re the best. You’re my best friend, really. I’m so lucky to have you.
Friend: Relax; it’s just a small favor.
Gemini-Pisces: No, it means a lot to me. Here, I’ll give you some money - buy yourself something.
Friend: This is way too much. I’ll take it, but are you sure?
Gemini-Pisces: Take it before I change my mind, then. (mischievous smile)
In this scenario the Gemini Sun is quick to ask for a favor in a light and quick way but the Pisces Moon is sabotaging the light-heartedness since it experiences everything on a universal backdrop. The Gemini Sun can ask for something without a problem, but the Pisces Moon can’t because it’s so much implied in asking someone for help and it’s such a profound thing. The person ends up overcompensating through giving the friend money (Pisces must go over the top and blow the situation out of proportion). Still, it’s done with the Gemini Sun’s trickster expression.
Scenario 3 (Gemini Mars – Pisces Mars interaction)
Pisces: Where have you been? I was so worried!
Gemini: I had a little chat with our neighbors. They’re really nice; I think we got along well. They even gave us some cookies they had made. Well, I asked if we could have some, they looked so good. It’s what neighbors are for, right?
Pisces: I don’t think it’s appropriate to ask them for it, if they offer – sure, if they don’t you shouldn’t ask for it. I’m sure you didn’t mean any harm; it’s just a little bit too forthright and demanding. They wouldn’t say no, of course, because they wouldn’t want you to feel bad for asking.
Gemini: Why? Come on, I’m not one to tip toe around people, it’s not like they can’t ask us for things. It’s an exchange; it’s a way to establish a connection. I said that they should come over any time.
Pisces: Perhaps they don’t want to and now you’re making them. It’s better to be more suggestive and unobtrusive. You wouldn’t want to force them into anything.
Gemini: I wasn’t forcing them, I just told them what I was thinking. There’s no crime in that.
Pisces: No, I don’t mean it like that. Sometimes things unfold naturally and it’s better to roll with it.
Gemini: That’s exactly what I did. Look, you wouldn’t even have gone over in the first place.
Gemini Mars typically asserts its will through making conversation and making deals/exchanges. It’s through establishing a line of communication that the person gets what he/she wants out of life. This placement is indicative of great persuaders. Pisces Mars typically asserts through picking up on nuances and blending with the environment enough to make people comfortable. A Pisces Mars might not come off as particularly aggressive but it has a way of swaying people and carefully “lulling” them into things that they wouldn’t agree to any other way.
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Posts about the conflicts between the signs:
Sagittarius-Pisces (available on Patreon)
Leo-Taurus (available on Patreon)
Gemini-Virgo (available on Patreon)