Most Difficult natal Aspects & Placements
Sun square Mars- These individuals may at times come off combative, competitive and aggressive. They may also be selfish, self absorbed and controlling. In relationships this can be a turn off. Because the Sun which is connected to our ego (solar plexus) is ruled by Leo (5th House) and Mars (1st House) which is how we deal with our anger, our motivation and our sxx drive is ruled by Aries which are both fire signs, the energy is felt almost immediately no matter the natal Sun and Mars sign. Because Mars is connected to the physical body these individuals tend to have a very intimidating physical presence. They can be looked at as dangerous or a bully. Even if that is not the case. If Mars is in a water sign you may tend to let your emotions get the best of you. Look at the Sun and Mars signs to get an idea of how this energy is projected.
Mars in Aries/Leo/Sagittarius- The definition of sh**t first ask questions later. Mars rules all the fire signs particularly Aries (1st House) which is connected to the physical body. Fire sign Mars can be incredibility intimidating and egotistical. The best thing about Mars in this placement is they have the stamina and the confidence to go after whatever they want. The con is they can be quick to anger and have a hard time cooling down. People can view them as reckless and, unpredictable. In relationships they can be passionate, but arguments or simple disagreements can turn dramatic. Masculines with these placements may get into or look for situations that can physically escalate because they have so much fire energy running through them engaging in physical exercise is recommended. Feminines with this energy may be viewed at times as forward, harsh and or masculine because of their yang energy and can benefit from yin practices, like yoga, breathwork and journaling.
Moon in Capricorn- You never know what they are thinking or feeling because they rarely share their feelings or show emotion. This can be intimidating in a relationship. A person who never or rarely shows vulnerability can be hard to partner with for the long haul. When they are hurt or betrayed they can give off a cool, detached icy reaction, like they are unbothered. This is because Capricorn (10th House) is ruled by Saturn the planet restriction, duty, hard work, limitations, rules, and contracts. They are uncomfortable with emotion or displays of emotion and feel like they are above it. An individual with this Moon sign may also make you feel like you have to earn their affections or like you have to put in the work or the time before they will open up to you. This can either be viewed as self preservation or fear. Personally I believe two things can be true. It takes a lot to get a reaction or to make them angry so they tend to attract partners who are constantly testing their patience and or emotional limits, this is by design. They are attracted to individuals that are passionate or emotional because they secretly admire or wish they embodied that energy.
Mercury in Gemini- Mercury is already Gemini's ruler so to have this placement is a double edged sword. Gemini Mercury's are highly intelligent and creative minds are constantly spinning and absorbing data and energy around them. Because of this ,this placement is prone to over thinking, paranoia, anxiety, and mental illness. This placement has a vivid and impressive imagination and they may blur the lines between which is real and what their mind perceives as reality. They may use their intelligence to manipulate others and are able to talk their way in or out of anything. With this placement an idle mind really is the devils playground. Famous and talented lyricist like Tupac Shukar, Kanye West and Kendrick Lamar share this placement.
Pluto in the 1st House- When someone has this placement, they are constantly going through transformations. Pluto (Scorpio) the planet of death, rebirth, transformation, sex, and the shadow, makes sure that they are not comfortable. With the 1st house being ruled by Mars (Aries) which is connected to the physical body, situations and people are constantly brought into their lives to test their patience and boundaries. People can be triggered or intimidated by their presence. These people may experience violations physically and energetically which may result in paranoia and distrust of either the people around them or just people in general, as they never know when a line will be crossed. This placement is highly empathic and able to sense people's motives quickly. This placement is also highly attractive and magnetic and may draw people and situations that force transformation as a result. They can also have this effect on others.
Lilith opposite/square Ascendant/Mars-This untamed unapologetic dark moon/dark feminine square our physical body may bring jealousy, projection and volatile energy and people to our front door. With Mars (Aries) being the planet of aggression, anger and action square our Lilith may also be an energy that is carried. It can be intimidating and magnetic to the opposite sxx and triggering for the insecure and repressed feminine collective. Both feminine's and masculine's can project their hidden shadow and xxxual fantasies onto them. They may gossip, make up lies, put bodies on them, sl*t shame, talk about their clothing, their makeup, hair or their body. They can be viewed as xxx objects and constantly objectified. It is incredibility difficult to have feminine friends with these aspects because there is always a secret competition, or destiny swap energy. Friendships (with non Lilith doms) and romantic relationships may be about proximity to gain the upper hand and energy siphon.
These are a few placements in the natal chart that in my personal opinion make a persons journey and connections more difficult than they have to be as well as their affect on the people around them. Because we are all empathic in some way and can feel one another's energy. Some of these placements/aspects can be off putting, intimidating or triggering for some people.
Madison ✨
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