Mutable Beauty ORIGINAL Astro Anecdote šš®:
Huge Emotional Pain Can Transform Pisceans
Pisceans love to love. We are the sign of unconditional love, our love runs deep. When we are introduced to something that we like, we attach to it. We make it our routine, we feel comfortable in it. We imagine our lives with it forever, all the scenarios and challenges, we dream it. We make a decision to settle in and make this our life.
So when this relationship starts falling apart, as sometimes relationships do, we start becoming confused or disillusioned. We become upset that our relationship is not matching the fantasy we imagined. So we begin to try to fix things. We fight to save our relationships. Itās why people often think weāre delusional because we canāt unattach easily from a toxic relationship. We cannot easily unattach from the things we dreamed about together. We would rather fight to defend that dream. We see the good in people first, therefore, we know what our partner could be. So we fight to fix that. We hold on tightly. Itās why we give chance after chance.
Yet, what a Pisces wonāt say is that we are also fighting to avoid heartbreak and disappointment. You see when we finally decide to release someone (usually due to massive amounts of resentment from giving chance after chance), next comes the heartbreak. Pisces want to avoid disappointment because itās akin to a knife stab in the heart for us. Looking at the wreckage of the thing that used to be so beautiful to us, the very thing that gave us hope.
Heartbreak for a water sign is DEVASTATING. Our emotions fuel our livelihood, it is our survival instinct, it fuels our behaviors and thoughts. Water signs feel emotional pain deeply, we are not able to separate our lives from our emotions the way other signs can. We feel everything deeply.
That is why when a Pisces faces heartbreak, it feels like death to us. It is so emotionally painful that you might as well kill us. Heartbreak is death to our hopes, our potential with another, what couldāve been, how we see people, etc. Once we face a heartbreak, there is usually a large transformation on the other side waiting for Pisces. We are different after heartbreak, there is a new person forming at the end.
Now who this new person is, is dependent on the Pisces. Young minded Pisces may choose to become darker, the more hurt they amass, they will choose to inflict onto others. They turn their heart off, and begin lying and emotionally manipulating others with little mercy similar to how our hearts were played with. Please note an evil Pisces is a hurt one. They will need to find the light on the other end of the tunnel in order to heal because this route will always leave the Pisces jaded and bitter. An angel whose wings shriveled during its time on earth.
The other route the Pisces will can choose is wisdom which is the reward for pain. The Pisces will be hardened by its experience but choose to harden the wall around its heart. The native will choose boundaries with strangers. Respect our boundaries or we will swim away. This is a smarter Pisces who understands that not everyone is deserving of its endless love and affection and therefore becomes selective with who it chooses to love. Our kindness will not be taken for weakness and we will move accordingly to the behavior others.
Facing heartbreaking situations will be devastating for a Pisces but one should embrace it. See heartbreaking situations as an opportunity to transform. But the choice is up to you whether you will choose to be wise or to be cold.
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