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[teachermakukula]

Today, someone asked me,"Who hurt you?" I replied,"My own expectations."

[thecpdiary]

Lowering my expectations

If I were to make one change this year, it would be to lower my expectations. When it comes to our life we put expectations out there, whether it’s through a person, a place or thing. We anticipate things will happen and then feel let down when they don’t.

And whilst people have their own expectations of us and how they expect us to behave and we meet their expectations; our expectations of them meeting the same exacting standards don’t happen that’s another reason we must lower our expectations. The more expectations we have, the harder we will fall and the more demoralised we will become.

Emotional happiness is often implicated by the expectations we place on ourselves. Unfortunately, the expectations we place on ourselves are usually the expectations our family place on us and we in turn place those expectations on our own family. It stands to reason the less we expect, emotionally the happier we will be.

I tend to go with the wait and see how things work out scenario, so I don’t anticipate and don’t expect, even for myself. That way I’m not disappointed or demoralised, if something doesn’t work out the way I hope. It’s the way I’ve always done things. I also think when things happen for a reason that takes away our expectations.

When it comes to others, they perhaps cannot always give of themselves in the same way we can, because of how they deal with what they deal with. That’s also another reason we must lower our expectations.

If they could give in any other way, I believe they would.

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[layfemmedelit]

Expectations

1.  Must be courteous, a gentle-man and open doors, pull out chairs.

2.  More of action then words--Must have a job or being going to school (some sort of goal)

3.  Is able to talk about his feelings or his opinions

4. Considerate and cares if my feelings are hurt

5. Must be active and healthy

6. Must be smart, dresses clean and smells nice

7. Witty and a lil sarcastic

8.  Must love movies and be able o discuss them with me especially how their plots play out.

9.  Believes in me to be better and not worst.

10.  Does not talk about his past unless i ask.

11.  Listens when i need to vent

12.  wants me to feel better in an argument regardless of who's right or wrong

13.  Wants to try new and adventurest things.

14.  Must be able to control their anger at some point

15.  Must be friendly

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[lolowalls13-blog]

Expectations...

Why is it that my expectations for my day can be so high yet I know for a fact none of it is gonna be what I wanted. I picture this perfect day then all of a sudden the whole day gets shot down. Why can't I just get out of here, why can't I just have my one perfect day, why can't anyone see that I need that perfect day and stop messing it up? I just need that one day but I know it's really not gonna happen. My hopes get too high for things that will never happen. I really just need to get out of here for a day.