☀ What's your rp pet peeve?
Okay, so I understand changing aesthetics. We all do it, myself included. However, changing aesthetics every day multiple times a day really irks me. Being autistic, I associate blogs with the mun and really vibe off the stability of that. But, when the aesthetics are constantly changing, it tends to screw up my perspective and makes me really confused about who they are. I’m not talking about casual small changes either... There was a blog that I once followed that would change their aesthetic a few times a day, have tons of different style/differently colored promos reblogged every hour and I would always think it’s a different blog every single time. They went through maybe 20 psds or more in the short time I followed them. At first I thought that maybe they were just testing them out to see which they liked but after a while, I realized it’s just how they were. I ended up unfollowing because I couldn’t keep up with it.
❀ What has made you completely lose your chill?
Oh boy howdy... I actually got very upset about this when it happened and I’m still salty over it. Being a part of a group verse is fun but when there’s a lot of pressure to perform and be constantly active, it can cause some anxiety. There was a group verse I was a part of that I really enjoyed. We had a discord server and everything. I posted a lot of headcanons there and edits that I hadn’t transferred to my blog yet. But activity started to “wane”. I was actually all caught up on my threads for that verse but out of no where the server was deleted. People lost their headcanons and edits. Just gone. The reasoning? We weren’t being active enough and “no one would care that the server was gone”. I was at work at the time of its deletion so I didn’t see it happen, but when I got home and saw all of my work was gone? I was pissed. I had several members come to me asking what happened to the server and that they were upset but didn’t want to argue. So, I took it into my own hands to voice my displeasure and anger about what happened for them to the host and hoped they learned from their mistake. I wasn’t the only one upset. I wasn’t the only one who lost things. And the reason the server was deleted had absolutely nothing to do with activity and we all knew it. But anyways.... before deleting a server, always talk to the members so they have a chance to move anything over so they don’t lose work and time they put into things. Be considerate of other people.
❣ How salty are you feeling right now?
I am super worked up now because thinking about that still grinds my gears and there’s so much to that story. It really puts me off group verses in general. I still join them because I’m not going to let one experience ruin it for me, but I’m so cautious about things now. I have a lot of salt to spread apparently.
