#neverchange

[obsessivel0v3r]

Me because everytime I mention something and they think I'm starting to fall for someone new so they get excited for me. But I specially don't mention it's just me getting delusional over the same guy for the past 4 years again.

[troyesfoixsete21]

Second chances? A cruel illusion.

People cling to their patterns, their flaws, their lies.

Change demands a fire most will never ignite.

Stop waiting for miracles—cut the cord, protect your peace, and let go of the fantasy that they'll ever be different.

[scopophilic1997]

scopOphilic_micromessaging_535 - scopOphilic1997 presents a new micro-messaging series: small, subtle, and often unintentional messages we send and receive verbally and non-verbally.

[sublimespiritoracle]

When you love with forgiveness in your heart. You are ready. #love #forgiveness #care #heart #feelings #mistakes #neverchange (at Mumbai, Maharashtra) https://www.instagram.com/p/CiOjSpBKBOJ/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[angelmamii5]

An opinion is an opinion! It should never change you not unless you want to change. #angelmamii #opinions #angel__mamii #neverchange (at New York City, N.Y.) https://www.instagram.com/p/CcNsOBYLa1n/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[griffonramsey]

Me at the age of fourteen. I haven’t changed that much. #90sfashion #oregongirl #neverchange (at Philomath, Oregon) https://www.instagram.com/p/CU--6fQLYX8/?utm_medium=tumblr

[lazybookbug]

#blacklover #black #nity #alwaysblack #neverchange #blackwork #blacklove #blackwedensday #eveningthoughts #blacksky #willbesameforever #lazy_book_bug https://www.instagram.com/p/CBilCdjFyUz/?igshid=9dxijqo1320o

[kindaoffkilter]

World of Warcraft Classic And What We Left Behind

This was a really interesting video despite me not having played WoW in over a decade, and not being a "gamer" in general anyway. I think a lot of his introspection can be applied broadly to matters well outside internet gameplay.

Points of interest (to me, at any rate):

-they sent statues to plankowner subscribers at the 10th anniversary for 10 years unbroken subscriptions

-"outrage merchants" I am totally using this term now

-This Ain't Your Daddy's Horde! (yes it is--he's way more WoW than I could even aspire to...i need to ask him if he got one of those statues now)

-"people tend to be bad at figuring out why they like the things they like, so they just assume their stated values apply to the things they enjoy" omg, I see this SO MUCH in fandom!!

-"if nothing is "meaningful," you are free to self-direct” [meaningful pause] "paradoxically, adding more content, more structured activities, can make it feel like there are fewer options" I think we all feel this

-"as you add more direction, more structure, the emotional value of self-direction goes down" Yup, also the talk about options ending up feeling like obligations

-discussion of the illusion (and how illusions are great) of self direction and openness when all options suck almost equally--I think this speaks directly to why certain people yearn for the “good ole days” of some yesteryear and/or childhood

F’s in chat are also hysterical