What is a young 20+ year old to a 40+ year old?
YOU'RE JUST NOT A PRIORITY TO HIM.
You are not a priority in his life.
When we think about a side chick, we often associate it with another woman, but that's not always the case. His main chick could be his friends, work, school or a combination of them all.
I've been a side chick, I've had a side dude and I've dated men who have had side chicks. It all comes down to priorities.
If you are looking for a serious relationship, then you need to realize your worth. If you are simply an option to him and not a priority, then you just might be a side chick.










