#neverrwhere

[jadeoxfordrose]

I was wondering if you bought that shirt! Also your hair is FAAAAAAAAABULOUS just fyi :) <33

Heee, you know me so well XD (This week I also obtained a shirt with the art of stitch dressed as toothless and toothless dressed as stitch courtesy of the beard *and* it’s purple - Tis a good week for my tshirt collection!)and thank you! i’ll confess, i’m really missing the green but i do love how it looks :)

[queerzaza]

OOOOH congrats darling, I know you look ever so pleased and proud to show off your new status :D

thank you Michele, i wil!!! my face will be like :D for days! 

[arcadiaego]

(Wow I wish there was a way to reply to your actual post without having to send another, separate message that would be great) I know we bemoan this a lot, but I still will never get over the disparity between the new 'The Doctor must be fuckable and have fuck worthy companions' and the old 'EWW THE DOCTOR KISSED GRACE MY FANDOM IS RUINED FOREVER EWW WOMEN EWW SEX EWWW' *sighs wearily* Moffat kind of does hate us aces, or at least thinks we're robots, but that shouldn't be put onto the Doctor :/

Well, I don’t see any evidence that 12 is interested in romance or sex. And I don’t see Clara and his relationship like that at all. I just don’t think it’s really possible to be as firm about it as the script and interviews from Moffat and the other writers has been while it’s just some sort of accident that’s made it through by people subverting it. But I’ve been told my view is physically impossible *many* times and I know it makes me unpopular and people think I hate asexuality or deny it exists. So, whatever. I can’t do much about it by this point. I’m not some sort of Moffat defense squad - I think seasons 6 and 7 were awful for one thing, and that he’s said offensive things in the past…plus I don’t even watch Sherlock so idk how I would blindly defend that - but I do like both what he’s brought to the screen this season and what he’s said about it, and that’s what I’m reacting to. If he starts saying stuff I disagree with again I will say so, but I can’t say the show isn’t important to me currently when it is.

I think the disparity re. the snogging was more a thing during RTDs run to be honest. People were very into Ten/Rose when they’d been against Eight/Grace - there was even that episode where Ten and Rose literally rode a bike which was the other big ‘oh my god the world has ended’ thing in the TV movie. I don’t think Amy or Clara revolve around their romance with the Doctor while conversely the fandom debate is centered on how the show despises women so people are very anti romance. (Which brings us full circle with me saying there isn’t any romance atm and fandom saying I’m a delusional fool because there’s no way Moffat could write a female character with her knickers on.)

Personally I don’t necessarily have a problem with love between a companion and the Doctor (and I certainly think 12 loves Clara a lot), I just think a lot of the time the context makes a romantic or sexual relationship inappropriate. (Which is why I was pleased about Twelve saying that he wasn’t Clara’s boyfriend.) I can ship Eight and Fitz because Fitz isn’t really a 30 something year old man from London by this point, or at least not only that.

[queerzaza]

Are people being horrible to do you for absolutely no reason? A POX ON THOSE BLASPHEMERS I SAY for you are a kind and generous soul who deserves nothing but cuddles and adoration <333

oh no, no. i messed up and i don’t know how i can ever speak to tht person again. I’m so embarrassing!!! ahhhh, but such is life. as I’ve been reminded today-we all make mistakes!

[runecestershire]

I have the reply bubble on posts back so I thought it was working but ALAS NO I've been replying and no one is seeing my comments! Is this happening to you as well? WHAT THE ACTUAL HELL TUMBLR WHY WON'T YOU LET US TALK TO EACH OTHER ANYMORE

I never got the bubble back, I suspect I may have done something wrong when I installed it.

[tea-and-liminality]

@neverrwhere replied to your post:Hannibal is gothic romance. Discuss....

This is such a perfect thesis topic

Coming up with academic arguments is one of my great unmarketable skills. ;)

[bootsnblossoms]

screaming-towards-apotheosis replied to your post “At a cybersecurity conference . Appropriate that it’s near Halloween....”

I hope you have fun! :D

Thanks:D It was interesting, that’s for sure! I mean, the FTC was there, the FBI was there, etc... I felt like I should be crowding walls and going around corners like a spy;)

@fannishbutterfly replied to your post “Me v33”

*MASSIVE HUGS* Happy birthday, you beautiful woman! You can totally do all that, and I'll be cheering you on as you do!

Thank you, darling <3 *hugggggs*

@neverrwhere replied to your post “Birthday Rant”

oh darling I'm so sorry :( why can't I be there to cuddle you and wield righteous fury on your behalf *bundles you up until you can feel nothing but tenderness and affection for all that you are* xx

She finally texted me after 11pm with “Happy Birthday” and a cake emoticon. *sigh* Better than nothing, right? :P *cuddles back*

@lazytechsupport replied to your post “@ginnyvos replied to your post “Me v33”Congratulations and good luck...”

We're only 7 months different, so your year may have ticked up by one but it's only a small actual difference. The couch plan sounds amazing! The pillow fort possibilities alone make me grin

Oh man. Part of the thing is that I’m going to put hooks on the bottom of the couch platforms. That way, you can hook all three together fora  giant bed in the living room for sleepovers and movie nights :D

brightmeadow replied to your post “Me v33”

Happy (slightly belated) birthday year-twin. This year is going to be good, I am determined. We shall kick 33's ass together and be generally even more awesome than we already are ��

Thank you, friend! I agree 110% :D

@kuriouslilkitten replied to your post “Birthday Rant”

Sends you my stash of chocolate and sprinkles! I hope your birth-night turns out better than your birth-day! <3

It wasn’t that the day was bad... I just was irritated that I didn’t hear from my mom. I got over it though. Jurassic World, alcohol, and junk food ftw;)

@consultingpiskies replied to your post “Birthday Rant”

envelopes you with arms and blankets and tangles our legs together as we drink spiked hot chocolate and star gaze

OMG, perfect date is perfect. *snuggles and sighs happily*

@justgot1 replied to your post “Me v33”

You're only 33?? Girl you've done a lot in your short time. These are all great goals, you can do it.

Awww, thanks gorgeous <3 

@adsumcirrat replied to your post “Birthday Rant”

That's too bad. But yunno what? You don't *need* her. You may *want* her acknowledgement, but you are a beautiful person without her efforts (and despite any shit she caused), so fuck her. Yes, it's not nice and it may be a bad feeling but fuck! Her!

This is the single best response ever. Thank you!!!!!

@adsumcirrat replied to your post “Me v33”

You can!!! BTW, we are the same age! How did I forget that? Aaaaand happy birthday!

We *are* the same age! w00t! And thank you <3 

@screaming-towards-apotheosis replied to your post “@ginnyvos replied to your post “Me v33”Congratulations and good luck...”

Congratulations on another round trip around the daystar!!!! :D

Thank you <3 

@dennyismydestiel replied to your post “Birthday Rant”

big hugs and happy wishes for you on this day and every other.

Thank you! *hugs*

@justgot1 replied to your post “Birthday Rant”

Happy birthday, doll face.

*smooches*

@levynite replied to your post “Birthday Rant”

*plops a rainbow glittery party hat on boots' head*

*grins and rocks the rainbow glittery part hat*

[ladyofshalott77]

neverrwhere replied to your link “Daniel Craig and David Oyelowo to Star Together in Off Broadway...”

I'm actually glad this isn't at the same time as all the others in spring because then I think I might actually have a breakdown and cry

I am breaking down and crying now actually - at a loss about what to do with my annual leave next year.