Any advice for another black virago?
hi! my biggest one would to be follow other black viragos! While we all share the same label, I think it can sometimes hit closer to home to see/follow someone more like you doing the things you wish you could/want to do/already do!
secondly, I think it's important to remember that this is a community first and foremost. Interact with blogs (like you're doing now!) through asks, comments, reblogs, etc even if you don't wan to run your own blog! That's something in particular that I'm trying to work on. I have 8 sideblogs (deleted 1) and at any given moment 1-5 of them are really active and it's been a little hard for me to balance everything. But I will find the right mix sooner rather than later...
Then, of course, if you're able to: talk about it with friends you have in real life. If you're nervous or iffy about bringing it up cold, maybe have something on you that inspires questions instead! I've been working on a patch to add to my backpack (the hope is that it'll inspire questions then I can answer/not answer depending on my relative safety!)
if you want something more specific, feel free to send in another ask :)