#nnstuff

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me and this random couple are going to see sinners this friday

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Being a nonbinary child was so ass cuz everyone would say some dumb as rocks nonsense about how boys and girls act different and you go “damn that’s crazy and also not true at all” and turn to the kid next to you like “that was insane. What the hell are they talking about” and that kid will go “no it’s true. It’s true. Girls shouldn’t pick up cool stones from the ground because it weakens their feminine state” and it’s like oh my god you’re stupid too.

And ur like is it going to be like this forever. Surely people get smarter with age, no? This adult must just be particularly stupid. I can look around and see women picking up rocks all the time and it’s fine.

And then u get older and it’s like no full grown adults think if a woman finds a cool rock she should get a man to grab it for her lest she reduce herself to some kind of gender nonconforming freak and develop Rock Hands (terminology for a vibe women who hold rocks have)

Like this is how everything sounds to me all of the time

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my kink is more subversive and avant-garde than yours. your kink could be easily understood with a few googlé searches but mine requires lengthy knowledge of classical and modern literature. and it’s more taboo as well.

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learning that to join a conversation ur kinda just supposed to walk up and pretend you were there the whole time has made it a lot easier for me both online an in person. like u really can just go "omggg thats crazy" and now ur in it. and if the ppl having the convo dont want u in it they will often say "ah this is private" or smth but like. at a party or in public ur generally just allowed to join a conversation. its crazy. im still not gonna do it but its crazy

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oh ok glad we figured that one out

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Favorite pre spiderverse 2 memes that turned out to be true

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Christmas for Refugees!

Donate to Help LGBTQ Refugee Survive Camp, organized by Nerves Nebula

Hi I'm Judas (internet name NervesNebula) and I'm an American fundraising for my friend … Nerves Nebula needs your support for Help LGBTQ Re

Hi all, Abdul is trying to get enough money together to celebrate Christmas with him and a group of around 30 other refugees. Last year we raised a substantial amount for him and this year I'm struggling to work so I'd appreciate any help! I'll update this as we go and will also update with any amount I give. Thank you!

838/630 !!

here's what we got for his group last Christmas!

You can get into contact with him on his blog @queersudan

edit: thank you to everyone who donated! passing our goal means that abdul could use some of the funds to pay off debts, we really appreciate it!

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Everyone so worried about Normal kids reading scary shit and getting scared and disturbed but nobody care about the wellbeing of kids who are already fucked up for real. In the head. Badly. Maybe it’s not polite but IDGAF about sheltered kids getting scared I just don’tttt. I care about fucked up kids and as a former fucked up kid myself I think finding fucked up shit that confirmed the fucked up nature of my reality was honestly pretty stabilizing all things considered.

Cuz it was like ohhh ok so other people do know about the agonies and it’s actually fine to acknowledge them and depict them in fiction for fun. Agony is real and it sucks and you can play with it and talk about it. ok. That’s not so bad, I guess I don’t have to keep it inside forever.

Has anyone looked into this. How do I find studies on the effects of scary violent sexual media on children who seek it out cuz they’re already evil due to events and such.

Like ideally there would be focus on making kids feel safe in their environment with like, their parents and stuff… so maybe ideally a kid still wouldn’t need to resort to brutal fiction. but like. If the kids already fucked up then chances are that the environment and family is somewhat to blame anyway so, kind of a nonstarter